What is your worst fear in life?

@claire03 (1443)
United States
August 30, 2007 5:14pm CST
Everyday in life anything could happen that we don't expect to happen, that's the reason we always pray to God to guide us and protect us everyday. We are only humans and we have worst fears in life, this is the terrible things that we don't want to happen to us or we don't want to experience. My worst fear is not to be able to see and be with any of my family or loveones anymore. How about you what is your worst fear in life?
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
30 Aug 07
I dont pray to anyone or anything for any reason....but my worst fear of all is losing another child...That was THE single WORST feeling, experience in my life..it was worse than beign abused, being raped, severe depression, losing ppl in various other ways and so on....Outliving your own child is TERRIBLE....
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
30 Aug 07
I pray to a Higher Power. I call him God but till the day I meet my maker he is just a higher power. Not the God we read about etc. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
30 Aug 07
I also fear dying or my children and or grandsons dying. I think I would be lost without the physical love from being alive. The joy and happiness & time they have given me means too much. But we all have our time and I hope mine isn't soon is all. Thanks and God bless us all. HAPPY POSTINGS FROM GRANDPA BOB !!~
@claire03 (1443)
• United States
30 Aug 07
i was thinking to say about dying too but i just didn't include and say it because even the thought of it makes me scare and sick in my stomach cause i never ever want any of my family and loveones to die. i don't know how i'll be able to take that. God Bless you too Grandpa Bob!
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@webeishere (36313)
• United States
30 Aug 07
I lost my mother over 10 years ago and still grieve to this day when the Holidays roll around. Thanks again.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
30 Aug 07
my worst fear in life is similar like you... losing the people that i love or the close one... i just can't bear it... also, i fear if i live in a meaningless way and not being able to glorify God... that's why i try to live my life to the fullest everyday to glorify Him...
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@1grnthmb (2055)
• United States
31 Aug 07
Actually I am living it. And that is not being healthy enough to support my family. I am disabled with severe health problems and it is something that I feared when I was younger.
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• Philippines
31 Aug 07
it is a sad thing for a person to be in your situation. but you know, i admire you that you do not just lie down and wait for anything that might happen in your life. press on bro., life goes on and your world will not stop in your situation. i am sure that your family understand your situation, sees and appreciate your effort to help them. If it's okay, i just want to ask, what do you do now other than myLot, do you work at home? what are your future plans then? God bless.
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@claire03 (1443)
• United States
31 Aug 07
i admire you for being strong inspite of all the challenges in your life. Even if you have health problems and disabled you still try to do the things that maybe other people will stop doing and will just wallow on self pity and would lose hope at once but you are strong in life with God's faith and wisdom. Continue the good job. I wish you all the best and have a nice day!
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@wiccania (3360)
• United States
30 Aug 07
My worst fear is dying in a car accident. I've had nightmares about it since I was a kid. The most frequent one was being in a car, and looking at my mom then glass exploding inward. She told me that when I was a baby, I was riding in a carseat between her and my dad. The carseat was one of the older ones where the kid isn't strapped in very well. She got and urge to hold me, so she did. A few minutes later, we were in a car accident and all of the windows in the car broke inward. The carseat went through the windshield. So that's probably where that came from.
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• Philippines
30 Aug 07
my greatest fear is to lose any of my loved ones. im afraid to be alone and i hate goodbye's. just imagining that i have lost one of my loved ones, is so depressing and hurtful. i will do anything to keep them close..
@edigital (2709)
• United States
2 Sep 07
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@Lifeless (2635)
• India
3 Sep 07
Fear come at different stages of life.. At a later part of life, ur fear may change to something else.. So I had my share of fears, but right now my greatest fear is weather I would be successful in life and support my family just like the way they supported me all this long?? Every day, atleast 10-15 mins. are spent on this.. This is my The biggest fear till now...
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@soccermom (3198)
• United States
31 Aug 07
Well, as with most everyone here my fear is that I would lose one of my children. Even when they are driving me crazy I couldn't imagine life without them. I have another fear too, and that is when my ex husband gets out on parole early 2008 he's going to come looking for me and my daughter. He was pretty bitter about getting prosecuted for sexually assaulting my daughter, and I can't shake the feeling that he's going to try to do something to us when he gets out. I'm hoping that when he ges released I am notified that he decided to complete his parole in another city, far from us.
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• Australia
31 Aug 07
My worst fear in life is to have family and friends (and even myself) having bad health or cancer. I know my mum had cancer recently and it is terrible what she had to go through. I just hope that no one else will have to go through the same thing again. Another fear in life is no being able to have a reliable job and income to be able to have food and shelter available.
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• India
30 Aug 07
my worst fear in life is that one day i might not be able to be on mylot. lol. my worst fear is not anything to do with life but after life. the sight of resurection and the plight of things, that is one reason i mostly add, prayers at the ebd of my posts. if a person who loves man kind, anybody, you, me, the person below this post, seriously thinks about that day will start trembling. lets all alwats pray, not only for us but the whole humanity that has been, is and will be. and all things else that is answerable to GOD. peace.
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• Philippines
31 Aug 07
I may have the strangest fear in life..That is to get married. I don't know why but I'm so afraid to experience the husband being cold to me. Knowing that the relationship has sunk to boredom. Well, I understand that it takes two to tango. But most of the time this is what happens right? I'm so fearful of the husband looking for another woman, for I might not sure what I could do if that happens. What i mean is i could choose to simply let go or divorce the guy, of course the primary concern here will be to stay married so that the kids would have a healthy family relationship. One more thing is I'm afraid to have a broken family. Don't get me wrong, I have a very happy, whole family. Only I don't want to have any regrets one day that I've gotten married. Of course I'd love to have children, but for now, I'm still trying to overcome this fear by thinking that my-soon-to-be-husband have enough love and trust in our relationship (oh, i do have a boyfriend and we're planning to get married). That's why i'm taking my time to ready myself in this soon-to-be-chapter of my life.
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@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
hello gorgzlady!!! Same here, i mean this is not my greatest fear but i too wondered why i do have doubts and fears of what my marraige would become. I too have a boyfriend now who wants to marry me and i do love him but i don't know, i just can't explain why..lol maybe i'm just not ready yet..you think so?
@mycharm88 (2288)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
Oh btw, i would like to say good luck and congratulations for both of you. I guess what we need is to pray and ask God's guidance for this fear that have. Tha'ts what i'm doing now, because i just had a talk w/ my boyfriend about the plan, and honestly i'm still scared..lol God bless :)
@johnryanr (310)
• Philippines
30 Aug 07
i think i dont know what phobia i have because i have not be afraid. i will face my fear
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@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
25 Sep 07
That my loved ones will die. I don't want them to all die before me.
@balasri (26537)
• India
31 Aug 07
Getting poor.
@wisedragon (2325)
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
fear - we all have fears. it's a natural human emotion
The most important thing I want to do in this life is to be able to take good care of my loved ones, whether it's my parents or girlfriend or wife or my own children, so my worst fear is not being able to help them, not being there when they need me the most.
• Philippines
31 Aug 07
actually it is not a fear, it would be the saddest part of my life if my children or husband will be gone. i can not imagine a life or a day with out them.