What are your nightmares usually about?

By Amy
Abernathy, Texas
September 3, 2007 11:28pm CST
I actually don't have as many nightmares as night terrors that occur in a different stage of sleep then dreaming. I see things - a dark flowing shape - hovering above my head and in the moment think its real and scream rhythmically and hysterically. As in, I hear my self screaming but have no control. Its happened since I was very small. Hasn't happened in years. What about you - what are you bad dreams like?
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• United States
4 Sep 07
I used to get regular bouts of tonsilitis growing up. I would get terribly high fevers. Although the imagery was completely benign I would wake up screaming every time. All it was was a blonde woman with her hair up in a French Twist, dressed in a long pink gown on a stage with a black curtain behind her. The curtain opens up to the sky and fireworks start going off and I wake up screaming. That's it. I'm not afraid of fireworks, in fact at that age I loved fireworks (I was about 7 the first time I had the dream) or any other image that was in the nightmare for that matter. I've had the dream several times throughout my life and it's exactly the same every time. When I'm awake I can picture the whole scene and it doesn't bother me in the least. It only happens when I have a high fever. Strange. One of these days maybe I'll figure it out. Thank goodness I haven't had it in about 10 yrs.
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• United States
5 Sep 07
Ageless air.... I like that!
• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
Your were seven about - and haven't had it in about 10 years - so you're 17 and already touring with a band? How strange, I wonder if its only part of a memory - from a past - perhaps future event. Like precognition. Maybe the fireworks are parts you want to forget and pull these fireworks over the memory?
• Abernathy, Texas
5 Sep 07
You don't look 17 - just wondering though, and you know you can always peg an age on a picture! Luckily you don't have that young and reckless look but an ageless air.
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
4 Sep 07
Unlike my husband, I don't usually get nightmares, but why I do get just before I fall asleep is that I feel my bed and the bookshelves trembling, like during an earthquake! I guess that is because I was born in Peru, an area prone to quakes, even though there are almost none in Austria, where I am living now! I guess one never gets over that fear!
@sylvia13 (1850)
• Nelson Bay, Australia
6 Sep 07
Mmmm, a shaking bed seems to be more common that I thought!
• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
I guess its so ingrained in your memory that you associate it with sleep? Sometimes in the middle of the night when I'm half asleep I swear the bed is shaking and my husband is still at work! Sleep and sleepiness can really disorient a person.
@nangel78 (1454)
• United States
4 Sep 07
My nightmares vary. Usually it is something that is bothering me and I am stressed about that I have nightmares on. For example, I have a friendship that is rocky right now and I have been having nightmares about that. Basically this person will not let up on me in my dreams. They keep coming down on me for my mistakes and I keep apologizing over and over. Anyway that is how mine usually go.
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
So its not an unconditional love type friendship I guess. I hope things work out in your life so you don't have to take it into your dreams - which should be relaxing.
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
4 Sep 07
I don't have many nightmares that aren't about things that actually happened in my life. If I'm having a regular dream (one that isn't a memory) and it starts to get scary, I can control it and turn it into something not scary usually. For example, if I have a dream where I am being chased by a monseter of some kind, I will realize it is a dream and the monster will turn into something cute and cuddly, or I will turn into a "warrior" version of myself and beat it. =p It's only the nightmares that are memories that get me most of the time now. It's harder to realize those ones are dreams, since they did at one point happen. Sometimes even those I can cause myself to become my "warrior" self and defeat, but it's very much harder.
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
I think that must be hard to dream of difficult memories - especially some of the things you've been through. I am the same as you - as far as either turning into a warrior - or changing the dream - I become a director - like a movie and tell people to take a break, or that they said the wrong line. I don't however, usually have dreams about my day to day life - except a few mylot dreams! -I am someone else entirely, sometimes in another time - when I was young I used to dream I was 'possessing' others in dreams to find out information, for infiltration. In the dream, I thought I was working in some secret government program - a sleep experiment. If you're wondering, I still have a great imagination and often write short stories - some based on dreams.
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
In my dreams, I felt sure that while my body was busy sleeping my spirit really had possessed another for some government assignment. I've always wanted to write a novel based on these dreams. Not that I remember the details anymore.
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@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
4 Sep 07
Sometimes I have nightmares about me being followed by someone or I must say something and I just run and try to hide. But most of the time my nightmares are about me lying in bed, wearing the same clothes as I wear before going to sleep and I just can't get out of bed. I just try to shout but I seem to lost my voice, I try to get up but I can't even move my fingers. It is really scary because it feels so real.
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
I've had the last and there is a sleep disorder (I'm very fond of sleep and almost became a polysomnographer - sleep technician this year - but my baby won out) called sleep paralysis and can occur when you're actually awake. http://www.stanford.edu/~dement/paralysis.html
@brew2x (3094)
• Philippines
5 Sep 07
Thank you for the link, it is really informative =)
@peanutjar (5198)
• Canada
4 Sep 07
Hello artemis!Well lately for the past couple months ive been having nightmares that my 4 1/2 year daughter is falling off a boat and i cant swim,but in my dream i jump in and cannot find her and shes sucked down a tunnel.I wake up crying and upset with this one.It always has to do with water and her in my dream.Another is we are lost in the woods and it becomes dark,we climb a tree because there are wolfs after us.Im sitting on the branch with her infront of me against the tree.I try not to fall asleep,but i do and wake up shes not there.The other is someone taking her and i cant find her and i become crazy and kill myself from a broken heart.The one that i mostly have is with the water,being in the middle of the water and cannot swim.I HATE THIS DREAM!!!When i awake from it i have to go see if shes in her room because its sooo real!I think im being paranoid,but i love her more than anything on this earth,more than life itself!:)
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
Hi PeanutJar! You know I don't usually have nightmares but I've had some since getting pregnant. My husband told me about the Dulce kidnappings so I've dreamed the government takes him away from me. It horrible too because rather than taking him in the night, they come and explain why they will take him and what they will do to him. And I'm like so I'll never see him again? And of course other ways he can be killed or harmed. Yours sounds especially detailed and terrifying and I hope you never have it again. RT
@subha12 (18441)
• India
4 Sep 07
my greatest nightmares are all people taking decisions against me. My nightmare is sometimes when I see the person who has recently behaved so badly with me, coming into my dreams.
• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
I can understand that. I used to dream - still do sometimes - of a friend from childhood - teen years who was actually going through a lot of hormonal changes due to early menapause - and she could be very mean. So even after when she changed I would dream of her like that.
• United States
5 Sep 07
Last month I had two nightmares about nuclear attacks and nuclear bombs. The first one took place at an ampitheater ruins near a theme park. Below the ampitheater there was a blue Arab mosque and a city far away. The city got hit, and the aftershock created a medium-sized tidal wave that me and other people tried to run. I tried to run up the ampitheater to escape the aquatic devastation, but as soon as the tidal wave hit me before I could make it to the top at the last second, I was choking. Literally! I was half-asleep, half-awake at that time. The second one took place near a bridge, but the nuclear bomb struck several miles away. I wasn't blinded, but I saw the mushroom clouds, I was near a bridge with other people, and the same aftershock from the first nightmare struck us down as a severe earthquake. However, I didn't choke this time. But it was horrific.
@Aurone (4755)
• United States
4 Sep 07
I don't really have too many nightmares. Never really have. The bad ones only started after I got married. I dream about losing my husband. I guess I never had anything to lose before this, therefore I didn't worry about it.
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• Abernathy, Texas
5 Sep 07
That's hard - I have had the same for my baby. You must really love him. I love my husband, but despite his eating habits and dangerous job he feels so solid. Like nothing could happen to him.
@stealthy (8181)
• United States
4 Sep 07
Well, actually I don't have nightmares as such. I have had many dreams where one would think it was a nightmare, but for me it wasn't because I never felt in danger in them. For instance I had one where somehow a car I was in with some other people ended up under water and, not only was I not having any problems, like running out of air or trouble getting out of the car, but I was helping the other people all of whom were in great distress. I guess the closing thing to a nightmare is that sudden awakening because of a sense of falling which is not really a nightmare since there is no dream taking place at the time; instead I think it occurs just as someone is really in the last stages of falling asleep and the mind is not quite ready to relinquish control.
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• Abernathy, Texas
4 Sep 07
I think I have similiar experiences in dreams. I often find myself saving others from situations similiar to what you have described. I find I'm pretty fearless in dreams and even if I do feel some slight trepidation, I face my fear. For me its night terrors which don't occur during REM sleep that terrify me.
• Australia
5 Sep 07
Nightmares you say...LOL...common nightmares are nothing compared to "real" dreams...I think I find them the scariest dreams of all!
• United States
5 Sep 07
actually alot of my nightmares have to do with high school. I think that this point in my life was very insecure. I guess that is the worst part i wish i didnt/