How do you know if you need space or a new relationship.
September 6, 2007 10:59am CST
How do you know its time to move on seriously. We all have those times where we just need space. How do you know its space and not a total change all together?
• United States
6 Sep 07
my thoughts are....if your questioning the relationship, no matter how long you've been in it, then it's probably not going well and it just may be time to let go. but this is when you should really take time...alone....to weigh out the pro's & cons of what is in your best interest in the long run. the worst thing to do is to stay in a stale relationship because as time passes, so do your chances of really living your life to the fullest & finding that one true love and isn't that what we all really want! as hard as it seems sometimes you have to let go of someone you love or are questioning that love you've shared, even though you've been together for a while. sometimes couples think the longer they stay the better it will be.....not ! eventually, if you stay in a troubled relationship that your questioning..it turns into resentment and/or hatred and it ends any ways. maybe it is time you let the relationship cool down for a while, find new interest to replace the time spent with your partner and see what becomes of it. the worst thing that could happen, you might find a new " friend " and/or pick up a new talent or hobby at the same time ! hope this helps & good luck