Has This Woman NO SHAME?

@wolfie34 (26816)
United Kingdom
September 17, 2007 9:10am CST
I was utterly appalled and sickened by what I read in the paper today about this woman standing by her paedophile husband who had abused 13 children! Not only was this piece of 'scum' let off! His wife is actually standing by him and knows he's GUILTY? I'm sorry but in my eyes the woman is just as guilty as her husband for protecting him for these horrific, evil crimes against children. Why is she standing by this monster? Is she that blinded by love, is she human? What is wrong with these people? What makes them think, what makes them tick? Would you really honestly stand by your partner knowing that he was GUILTY of crimes against children? Not only was I sick at hearing he got off, mind you the justice system is a joke in this country, but it makes my blood boil that he is allowed to have continued contact or be within a mile of other children and families. You think you've heard the worst then something like this comes up. This is a very sick evil world we live in
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• United States
17 Sep 07
Oh I hate reading about that, I was just reading about the little girl that came up missing in Portugal, I find that very disturbing also, you feel like people should be screened and checked out before giving birth to these bundles of joy.
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@wolfie34 (26816)
• United Kingdom
17 Sep 07
We live in a world of monsters, scary isn't it! Thank you my friend x
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
17 Sep 07
If I had a husband who did such a thing, I would not only not stand by him, but if he didn't get locked up for it I would kill him myself just to keep him from harming more children. That's one crime that I just can't deal with, having been a victim of it myself as a child. I think these people should die. Not just because what they did was horrible, but also to make 100% sure they aren't EVER given a chance to do it again. Frankly, I agree that the woman is also guilty for standing up for him. What kind of person could stand up for someone who had done this? I just want to kill her too.
@lecanis (16664)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
17 Sep 07
Wow, looking back at my post after I finished it... I just had to think "See, that's what's so bad about this type of crime. Kids who go through that can turn into psychos like me who want to kill everyone." =P
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@slickcut (8141)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I cannot imagine why a woman would do such a thing either.If i were even involved with someone like that,i would be so ashamed of it to began with, much less standing right beside him..maybe she is a mental case or shes just down right stupid...I would not even be with a man that even tried to abuse even one child....much laee abuse 13.....I can not say why ,all i know is she is so crazy....
@slickcut (8141)
• United States
17 Sep 07
PS: and i also wanted to add that there are soooooo many sick people in this world...Im afraid that this world is going to hell in a handbag.....thats a quote my Mom used to say,when something like this is happening...No offence...there are still good people....
@cmsk2005 (1770)
• United States
25 Sep 07
I am 100% agree with you. The person who commits the crime is equally gulity as the person tries to save the criminal, no difference. I think something is there under this support, its not just because of love, i don't think so. May be something else which she is more more likely to get thru this support.
@KrisNY (7592)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Sick! Sick! Sick! How totally disgusting- I’d cut off his ----- before I’d stick by him. I can’t imagine- I hope she has no kids of her own- and if she does that someone takes them away from her- Unfit mother- And yes I think they are both to blame- Him for committing the acts- and her for letting him and staying with him- I can’t even imagine- I’m afraid I’d be thrown in jail if anyone ever hurt my child. No forgiveness- Never – Sick- Crazy- Unfit—need I go on??
@Naomi17 (624)
19 Sep 07
My first thought was i want to be the one to cut of his bits! I couldn't stand back and let anyone harm a child the woman is just as bad as he is and i hope they burn in hell for what they have done. I see so many evil things happening and our system protects them, they cannot be human if anyone ever did that to any of my children i would kill them that simple they have forfeited there right to live
@weehihi (132)
• Philippines
18 Sep 07
i dunno bout the wife..maybe she's just sick as her sicko hubby..people who acted like that are sometimes not stable (mind). dont they have more evidence to convict the man??it's scary you know, letting a pedophile off the hook! letting him roam around again as if nothing happens..whooo...who wants to live near them! especially when youve got kids of your own..no way! and i admire wives who stand by their husband through thick n thin but this?? i dunno, but i think his wife is just as crazy as he is..if they have kids, she should be scared living with her hubby..a pedophile is a pedophile..they dont care who that kid is..as long as it satisfy their wants..yeeuuuckkk...they disgust me...
• India
18 Sep 07
No, not only would I not stand by my partner, I would not forgive him till I lived. I would definitely ask him first and I would know if he lied and that would hurt me further. I think this woman is way too selfish to be termed human. All she is thinking of what will happen to her once her husband goes behind the bars. She doest have the guts to face the world alone and is protecting this monster solely for her own sake! And this from a woman when all women are know to be mothers first! And yes, what has become of the judiciary and the legal system? Was this man represented by any lawyer? If so, then what type of lawyer was that which represented him, knowing fully well that he was guilty? Children seldom can defend themselves and in letting this man off, we the adult society have failed our children too. They have become victims twice, once of this paedophile and secondly of this heartless, shameless. ‘politically correct’ society!
@MsTickle (24962)
• Australia
18 Sep 07
It's hard to know what to think or say and do in these scenarios. I'm afraid I don't have the answers and I'm sick and tired of it all I really don't want to know about it. Are we supposed to pray for these people? Are we supposed to turn the other cheek and forgive them? This is the christian thing to do after all....isn't it?
@Foxxee (3653)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I don't understand why he is allowed to be around kids? That doesn't make sense at all. What kind of justice system do we really have? And as for the lady, well, she must have issues herself. I would never stand by my man if I found out he was guilty of such charges. I would be standing on the other side, helping to get him locked up.
@lisa_wxy (393)
• China
18 Sep 07
i was shocked by your posting,in my eyes,it is really evil to try to protect a monster like her husband! the woman may never change her place with the 13 victims' mothers,how sad would be their mothers seeing their children being abused? they must be heart-broken definitely. it can't be forgived.
@raydene (9875)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I have long ago stopped trying to figure out what makes people do what they do..Sounds like the wife may have issues too! It is even more important to be a kind , honest force in this world to counteract the evil. Hugs Buddy
@worldwise1 (14888)
• United States
17 Sep 07
I have to agree with you, wolfie, because this world is filled with sick people or just plain old evil ones. That woman is in denial about her scumbag husband. I see this happen over and over again. And the failures of the justice system is evident everywhere that I hear of. The courts are so afraid of stepping on these scoundrels rights that they will let them off with a slap on the hand when what they really need is to do some hard time in a maximum security prison. That is why we hear so many sad endings to stories involving abuse of little innocent children. I don't know if things will ever change, but I try to keep hope alive.
@mummymo (23709)
17 Sep 07
I haven't read the papers today sweety so I haven't seen the story you are talking of but I have seen it first hand and I, like you cannot for the life of me understand it in any way shape or form! A man who lives along the road from me now was found guilty for abusing his own foster children - not only did his wife (who is actually a very nice woman) stand by him but his children let him babysit their own children! This beggars belief - not only that but they are happy to allow other children into their home. My son used to be at school with his Grandson and went along to his house to play sometimes - til a newspaper article drew my attention, now you know that I am very dubious about the media but this was a double page spread of our street with the huge caption 'The beast lives here'. It was after this that I found out that he had abused his foster children and even one of his own daughters, you can guess my son never got back there again, can't you? Why anyone would put their partner before the welfare of ANY child defies belief but your own children to boot? Twisted I am afraid! xxx
@kareng (7980)
• United States
17 Sep 07
Your last line says it all--it's a sick and evil world we live in.
• India
17 Sep 07
Omg! he must not be classified as a human being.. They are blood sucking hounds who will pounce on every available flesh.. Justice cannot be expected from them. Also "Justice can't help,in an effective way where the Conscience had Failed."
@anonymili (3138)
17 Sep 07
Well hun, we live in a sad world these days don't we? I read about this woman, I think it's the same one whose husband had been found guilty of crimes relating to children and she was standing by him as she believed in him. What goes around comes around - I do believe in that and if he really is guilty he'll be punished fully somehow. I don't understand also how women meet men who are serving long sentences in prison for awful crimes and they marry them whilst they're still in prison! What's that about? Are these women lacking in a real life so much that they have to go out of their way to marry a prisoner? I don't want to hear all this nonsense about people doing their time and being all good now. If you are that desperate to marry a criminal why not wait till they're out of prison and live with them a while before making that kind of decision. I'm not sure if the story you're referring to is the same as the one I'm thinking of, the guy was a bank manager or something and his wife is the one who called the police when she found dodgy photos of children on their home PC. As far as I'm concerned people who commit crimes against children should not see the light of day again let alone be free to mingle back into society. How can you ever be cured of that kind of sickness? UGH!