I sometimes don't answer my phone on purpose!!!

@zabawaus (1730)
United States
September 18, 2007 8:44am CST
I was just answering some discussions and this question just popped up in my mind. I need to be honest i am not a real cell phone person. And sometimes if i am not in the mood i don't answer my phone. I call who ever it is later. Because i sometimes feel like i don't want to chit chat at the moment. Do you do the same thing sometimes or am i a very bad person to my friends :)
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@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
18 Sep 07
I'd like to be that way too but I can't. No offense gal but my mother drilled a heck of a conscience in me and if I don't answer then I'll feel terrible. I have to answer because it could be something very important such as my dad who's very sick in which we all don't think he'll be around for much longer. Besides that it could be something else just as important - if that's possible - like a loved one in a car accident. Sometimes I wish I could just let the darned thing ring!! LOL
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
18 Sep 07
Hi Catsanddogs :) You are absolutely right. If i was in your position i would answer all my calls too. I guess i am a little lazy to answer phones. I hope your father's health problem is not very important and he feels better soon. Thanks for your answer. And hope you a great day!!!
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Sorry to hear that :( I wish I could do something about this situation. Bless you too .
@CatsandDogs (13963)
• United States
19 Sep 07
My dad has very little time left in this world. He's very sick and has been in and out of the hospital four times in the past two weeks. Thanks for your wishes though. Bless you.
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@Lifeless (2635)
• India
14 Oct 07
No no, u r not a bad person to ur friends, even I do that often.. Sometimes, we just require our own space and want no disturbance, its only then we don't like answering to calls.. I also call them later and apologise also for not taking their calls, and all my friends are very understanding.. Even they do it at times.. So, its not just u, there are a whole lotta people out here who practise this...
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
15 Oct 07
Hello lifeless, Thank you for your relieving answer. It is great to see that there are bunch of people do the same thing :) Thank you very much and have a great day.!!!
@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I do it all the time. Just because we have a phone doesn't mean we have to answer it. I don't like being constantly interrupted, so I do tend to ignore it sometimes also.
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@reinydawn (11643)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hey, thanks for the best resonpse :)
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hello reinydawn, This is an exact answer :) "Just because we have a phone doesn't mean we have to answer" I liked the sentence. Thank you so much for your answer and have a great day!!!
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hey No problem, I told you that i really liked your idea :D
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
19 Sep 07
i do dont't want to answer my phone sometimes. Because sometimes its my supervisor likes to do that. And he did not pay me for over times. He always told me to come to the internet (where i work) and ask me to buy some food for him, with no gasoline money. its sucks.
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@diansinta (7544)
• Indonesia
21 Sep 07
lol.. live..
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi diansinta, So you are totally right not to answer. I would even change my number and never let him know :) thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!
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18 Sep 07
There are days when I don't want to answer the phone, or open the door to callers. Other times, however, the phone ringing compels me to answer. I bought an answerphone so I can hear who is on the phone before I pick up so I can chose not to reply immediately
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
18 Sep 07
hi recyledgoth, Thank you for your answer it is good to know that i am not the only one :) Have a great day
• China
22 Sep 07
I am so sorry to hear that about your dad.In my opinion,don't answer the phone is a dangersome habit.if you go on like this,you'll be in trouble ...
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Hello qq70979027, Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!!
• China
22 Sep 07
You are welcome~have a great day too~
@limcyjain (3516)
• India
24 Sep 07
There's nothing uncommon about this. I too do this but the only difference is that i never call back. I avoid all those promotional calls which i keep getting from banks, insurance agents etc. I have all my clients numbers on my mobile and normally avoid any other calls which my mobile does not have feeded in it.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
25 Sep 07
Hello limcyjain, Thank you very much for your answer. Have a great day!!!!
@babyreyn (934)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
I usually answer phone calls, although it will disturb my sleep, it will disturb my dinner or what, I do response with those calls because I believe, they give effort in giving a calls, they will spend some load and money just to give a call on you wheather it is important or not. I always act profesionals whenever it is needed.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi babyreyn, Yes maybe it should be what I had to do but I couldn't :) Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!!
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I do the same thing sometimes. I sometimes don't answer the phone if I don't recognize the number in the caller ID, or if I just really don't feel like talking at the moment or if I'm busy. If I think might be something important, then I'll go ahead and answer it anyway, but otherwise I don't always.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi elisa, This is what i feel . Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!
@KATRINKA (1624)
• United States
23 Sep 07
I don't think you're a bad person for not answering your phone. Isn't that what voicemail is for? I get into moods when I don't want to talk to anyone. I just let my voicemail pick up. I also have special ringtones for everyone, so I can tell if it is important. A couple months ago, I was in one of those antisocial moods, so I turned off my phone. My sister kept trying to call me, because my father had a serious accident and was in a coma. I felt really guilty about that. I make a point to check my voicemail or text messages now.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
24 Sep 07
Hi Katrinka, You are right this is what voice mails are for :) Thank you very much for your answer and have a great day!!!!
@msjigga (864)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi zabawaus! I often don't answer my phone on purpose. I sometime do not feel like talking on the phone or I am busy. I screen all my phone calls before answering my calls. I love my answering machine at home it annouces the phone number that is calling. I don't think I am a bad person because I do this I think sometimes I need quiet time or I am too busy.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi msjigga, You are right sometimes people need to be in silence. And this is why i was doing not to answering the phones. Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!!
@nyumix (1658)
• Belgium
19 Sep 07
I do also the same as you, if I see a call from someone and I don't want to talk with him or her. I would probably just leave it like that, would not answer it. They can leave their message on my voice mail box if they really need to talk with me, or if it is really important information so probably I can call him or her back. But, mostly my reason is not because I'm in a bad mood. It just maybe because I'm in the middle of doing something which is more important than answering a phone call.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi Nyumix, This is what exactly i am thinking :) It is great to know that i am not te only one :) Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!
• United States
19 Sep 07
lol I dotn answer my home phone at all, unless its my mom. The cell phone my fiance takes to works so I dotn have to worry about it but we answer it almost all the time. But we dont know many people so it dont ring that often anyways.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
20 Sep 07
Hello libertarianfreedom, yes like you I answer my family members other wise i am not so in hurry to answer the phone. Thank you very much for your answer and have a great day!!!
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@resuab (265)
• United States
23 Sep 07
i do that sometimes too, but i look at who it is, and depending on who it is and the situation, ill either ignore it or put the phone on silent, so the same thing, i hope that doesn't make me a bad person either :)
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
24 Sep 07
Hello resuab, So we both are not bad persons :D Thank you very much for your answer and have a great day!!!
@Celanith (2327)
• United States
19 Sep 07
I pick and choose and screen my calls and don't always answer the phone. I let the machine pick it up and sometimes if I want some quiet I take the phone off the hook for an hour or two.
@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi Celanith, Thank you so much for your answer it is a good idea to take off the hook. I may want to use it. Thanks for your answer and have a great day!!!!
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
i do that too. but only to people who i dont want to talk to and they're not my friends. ^__^ i always answer calls from my friends even if im not in the mood to talk. i may miss a call but not intentional. the only calls i dont answer are from those pesky guys who are not really sincere with what they want. ^__^;;
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hello secretbear, You also have right not to answer your phone calls from pesky people. So thank you for your answer and hope you a great day!!!
• Singapore
19 Sep 07
Unfortunately I do the same thing as well. Sometimes I just don't want to talk at a particular moment when my phone rings so I'll just let the phone ring until the person hangs up.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hi daveisdavid, It is great to know that i am not the only one :) Thank yo for your answer. And have a great day!!!!
• United States
19 Sep 07
I do exactly the same thing and I am beyond feeling guilty about it anymore. It is better that I do not answer the phone when I'm not in the mood to talk because I will either end up having an attitude with the person I am talking to or just answer the phone to tell them I'm not in the mood. I think when you have a cell phone people expect you to carry on a conversation at anytime and anywhere. That just doesn't work out for me.
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hello restlesslimbs, So I better learn not to feel guilty about it anymore. Thank you very much for your great ideas and your reply . Have a great day!!
@eprado (1467)
• Philippines
19 Sep 07
Hello zabawaus, Yes sometimes I don't answer my phone on purpose and just call them back later. I don't think that you are a bad person to your friends for doing that. I think we all do it sometimes. Each of us at times feels not in the mood and just want to be left alone be by ourselves. I think our friends will understand since it doesn't mean that were never going to answer their call forever. :-)
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hello eprado, Yes this is what i exactly do . I see who is calling and don't answer just because I don't want to speak with anyone at the moment. Great to know that i am not the only one :) Thank you for your answer and have a great day!!!!
• India
19 Sep 07
Its not that you're bad person or something like that.Don't feel like this.Even I used to do such things when I am get much annoyed with cell phone ringing day to night.Its obvious that in such a case we've to ignore some less important calls. We sometimes know,what the other person is going to say(sometimes our prediction is really accurate)...so we ignore that.I feel there is nothing wrong to discuss about some matters later...According to me,everyone used to do such things,no matter whether it is cellphone or some computer messenger:-).I don't feel guilty neither I critize anyone if he's doing this with me.I advice you the same.Tha's all :-) Have a nice time. Cheers!! -AV
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@zabawaus (1730)
• United States
19 Sep 07
Hello anantvyas, thank you for your advises. I mostly don't answer some of my friends phone calls because i know they will have nothing to say. And i don't want to speak crap at the moment. And i call them back later. Thank you very much for your answers and have a great day!!!