Boys and Girls,which do you choose?

@huntbird (277)
China
September 25, 2007 5:45am CST
Today i saw a TV program about the unfair treat between boys and girls.In many districts,people always value sons more.In their opinions,if born a son,he will always stay in along the parents and help.and a girl will marry and leave early and late.and because the effect of the traditional ideology,a son is the honor of the family,and will have no face if born girls.and i believe it make hundreds of millions men can't find their wifes ten years later.and it will bring many serious society problems.even will cause the convulsion in society. Does your county has this problem?what's your opinion?
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@srkool (1012)
• India
26 Sep 07
obviously boyzzzzzzzzz.....
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
How honest you are, good.Frankly speaking,i will also choose a boy too,because the benefit is obviously.
• United States
4 Oct 07
What exactly is the benefit? A man can hardly bear children on his own. All he can do is work, but for what? What's the point of working if it's not for your family?
@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
25 Sep 07
There was a time when people use to think boys are better than girls. But now things have changed. It has been proved that if girls are educated as good as boys then they can also get good jobs and can be successful in life. Girls are found to be more dedicated to everythng that they do in life. Girls take better care of parents in most cases. But the sad part is that as soon as girl is born, she is treated as a burden and not given equal chance. If parents are educated then they don't think negative about girls and educate them well. It is time for people to understand that there is no difference between boys and girls if they both are well educated and it is duty of every parent to see that girls are give good education and treated equally like boys.I hope atleast the coming generation will be different and will understand the importance of education in life of thier children.
@huntbird (277)
• China
25 Sep 07
yup,i agree with you totally.but to change the tradition of human is difficult,maybe the education is the best solution to the problem.
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@apsara60 (6613)
• Israel
26 Sep 07
Thanks for supporting my views. Have a nice day.
• China
27 Sep 07
In my opinion,I choose girl,just like you said,maybe ten years later,many boys can't own a wife,following the development of the social,girls can have a bright future.. Anything needs the time to change..
@huntbird (277)
• China
27 Sep 07
Thank you for shareing.By the way ,is the head portrait your real person?
• China
26 Sep 07
Yes,our country has the problem before a long time,but now,the problem is disappear.I am a girl,as a girl,I am very angry. It will bring many serious problem!
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
As a girl then will bring many serious?What meaning do you want to express?I don't believe the problem is disappear,even in shanghai,beijing...etc those big cities also have this problem,thousands of yeas'traditional concept is not so easy to destroy.Hope to have more connection with you.and thank you for your attendtion.
@kellyalex (151)
• China
26 Sep 07
Girls and boys are no difference.I would like to have a girl and a boy one day.Now I am simgle,so that is only a pipe dream.hoho~~~
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
It is great that you can think so,have a nice day.
• United States
26 Sep 07
There is a lot of unfair treatment with the sexes. There is going to be a woman's fair at one of our local convention centers, and I think it is a mockary on women. It is ridiculous. Men make fun of women because of things like this. Honestly, I am not like the other women you see out there. I love comic books, sci-fi, and sports. I dress like a slob sometimes, and I could care less what people think about me. People, you should all dare to be different and just be yourselves, to heck with what others think about you.
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
Great,so just do it yourself,and me too of course.
• India
26 Sep 07
This problem has existed since so many centuries almost all over the world.But in recent times the trends have changed.It is still hoped by many that one should give birth to a son since he will always stay with his parents and a girl will eventually find her own family.But these days even the boys are not staying with their parents.Otherwise how do we have so many old age homes full with people.Everyone is busy with their own lives in USA and other similar countries. PErsonally,I don't choose between girls and boys.both are equally important in my opinion.
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
May be our countries' values is so different.
@cutepenguin (6460)
• Canada
25 Sep 07
Our country doesn't have this problem. Girls will look after their parents and can take and keep the family name just as well as boys, so there isn't as much pressure to have a son to carry on the family name.
@huntbird (277)
• China
26 Sep 07
It is true that some girls is more care to the parents than boys.thank you for your attention.
• Philippines
25 Sep 07
In my country, we don't care whether it is a son or a daughter. Except for the reason that the son will carry the family name, there's really no big deal. Women are treated equally as men. In fact, we already had two female presidents to prove my point.
@huntbird (277)
• China
25 Sep 07
Because you borned in a democratic and few traditional ideology country.