October 1, 2007 4:36am CST
y many ppl have a habbit of back biting as thy say sumthng else in fornt of u n sumthng else in front of other ppl abt u?have u come across ne incidence like tht wud like to hear ur experience on it
1 Oct 07
Hi there! I actually have lots of experience about back-biting. And it's me who's always bitten. I know I'm not perfect and I'm just a human who's likely to commit mistakes but wasting my time to destroy someone behind their back isn't one of them. I always try to make quality relationships. I think having a meaningless relationship, like being with fake friends and being one is a waste of precious time. This is currently happening to me and my family right now when we had to fire our maid because she's doing a lot more than what she's supposed to and is meddling with our private lives. When we did, she started telling people negative, mostly exaggerated stuff about us and we don't deserve it. We have done a lot of things to help her, even financing her grandchild's operation and providing food for them aside from paying her salary. I just ignore her but of course, it's impossible not to get hurt.