I get so tired of being told that I'm not hearing what I am hearing
October 6, 2007 1:22am CST
My boyfriend has one of the worst memories in the world and I know this. I don't think that I will be dealing with it much longer before he simply can forget about me completely. I make arrangements with him for him to drive me into town since I am miles out of town with no way in. Then when I call him, after arriving home and waiting on him an hour before I even called him. When he gets home as usual it's my fault, I'm treating him like my chauffer and all that assorted and sundry c@#p, although when I moved out here to the dark side of nowhere he told me, anywhere I needed to go he would be glad to take me. Mind you this is not a privelege I avail myself of often. But when I specifically ask someone if they would mind taking me into town and they say yes and then get told that I'm being demanding and that I am treating them some kind of way it is just not going to work! It's okay I didn't expect it to, but I know that I heard someone who looks just like this fool tell me he wouldn't mind taking me so I wish that he would stop telling me that I am wrong for expecting that he would!
10 Oct 07
Find ways to get yourself a car so that there will be no more reason for arguments. Maybe he feels that driving you is his responsibility but sometimes he gets tied up with other things and now he sees it as an additional work for him. It is also not possible that he is always available to drive you anytime you're going for an errand. He might have other things to do also. But if he promised to do it for you and forgot about it, that is really bad. I guess having your own car will solve everything.