It hurts when person whom u love dont trust u?
By Neha211985
@neha211985 (780)
India
October 9, 2007 3:20pm CST
Y it happens in life the person whom u love dont trust u and believe other ?y in a second they forgot what u have done for them?y they dont want to listen u? n if u ask what happened they dont want to ans u.
What to do in this situation? plz help me to come out of this situation. My younger sister dont trust me y i dont know i love her she is not only my sister she is like daughter to me .
plz suggest me what to do
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3 responses
@mustafabadri (178)
• India
9 Oct 07
life is the name of giving and not taking.may be tht yr sister loves y but dont know the rules n regulations of love -- may be she is not feelng your absence n thinking tht u r always there 4 her so she may not showing her interest to u.
try not to get irritated in front of her if she dont obey u wht iu say, n try to be her friend rather being her elder sister or mother.be happy dont worry trust on god n dont thin it so seriously.the more u take it seriously the more u ll b sad, and the more u expect the more u hurt.its like neki kar daya me daal
@neha211985 (780)
• India
10 Oct 07
thanks mustafabadri, frnd i always want to ingnore what ever she says what ever she do but i m unable .
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@mustafabadri (178)
• India
10 Oct 07
try to give her some space and to your self,tht will help both of u,n remember tht,vakt har marz ki dava he,let the time pass n wach,trust god.good luck.my exams r near pray for me thanx
@anantvyas2306 (155)
• India
10 Oct 07
I can only say,you're expecting too much from her.May be you've in mind that if you do something good to her,she will start talking by your side.No,it may not happen.
I just want to tell you that try to concentrate on your daily routine only.Even if she tries ignoring you or something similar to it,just don't bother about it and don't let those actions affect you.It definitely won't help you.May be,in future,your sister will understand you.Till that time you've to wait and watch.
-AV
@sang2k2 (1833)
• India
15 Oct 07
hi neha,
c dont think about wht u ahve doen for her is been forgotten by her..it generally happens in the realtions, things will get right. c the thing is u care alot for her and she knows that u wud be caring for her ispite of all the odds and so she is nt concerned about these things.think positive may be she would want some sense of responsibility on her own, she would want to feel free...let her take her own sweeet time to realise the things, dnt bother her much u mite be hurted with her beahviour bt still gve her time...involve ur self in to some recreational activities instead of thinking abt her..
