Do women watch more closely other women?

Women observe other women - Women closely watch other women
@dpk262006 (58675)
Delhi, India
October 23, 2007 11:26pm CST
Do women watch closely other women what they are wearing then they watch men? In my opinion women are more particular in observing other women, what clothes and accessories they are wearing and how much make-up they have used to smarten them up. Please share your thoughts, view and experience with me. Thanks in advance for your contribution.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
3 Aug 08
hmmm...I do watch...but not as closely as you suggest. If a woman looks good in something she wears...I do notice it and think it looks good on her. But that's it. I might also make a mental not of how she has accessorised to get some ideas. But I also know from experience that what looks good on one person might not look good on another person.Even when I am mentally appreciating what another woman is wearing, I know for a fact...that it is not my style or might not suit my personality and if I wore something similar I might end up looking like a scarecrow. If I know the person, I compliment them and let things be. But you are right, I do not watch what men wear...because it looks the same to me...and I also do not feel that my husband does it...but I can't say for sure...he probably does notice it (with men and women) and just does not discuss it with me. But he does point out and tell me when someone he DOES NOT like tries to strut around like a peacock!!I probably wouldn't even have noticed. By now, you would have realized that my husband and I are 'namoonas' and one of a kind:P
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
4 Aug 08
If it's an unknown woman, the appreciation is usually done in my mind and I do not verbally tell her so.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Aug 08
This is what I was thinking and my guess was right.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
4 Aug 08
Thanks for sharing your interesting thoughts, but when you apreciate the other woman, do you convey it to her verbally (if she is unknown)? LOL! All men look same to you, because they normally wear same kind of outfits, on the other hand women can wear different outfits with accessories..........
@anonymili (3138)
2 Nov 07
Hi pal, hope you're well? Interesting discussion you've started here hun! There is a saying that women don't dress up to impress men but mostly to impress other women. How often does a guy say to a woman, "Wow what a lovely handbag, where did you get it? How much was it? I want one just like it!"? This only comes from other women (in general). Unless of course, it's MY husband! He actually notices what other women are wearing when we go to parties way more than I notice (or even actually care) and then discusses it with me when we get home, even down to the extent of telling me if their jewellery was real gold or not hahaha! Honestly, it's so funny, even my friends think he's a bit too concerned about fashion. Then again, I am least concerned about that sort of thing so I guess someone in our household has to take notice!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Feb 08
Thanks for sharing, I could not see it earlier. You have written some very interesting observations about women and I enjoyed reading it very much. No doubt your response deserves the tage of the 'Best Response'. :):) Deepak
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Feb 08
Thanks for sharing your experiences! So how do you react when your husband notices othere women....LOL! Do you take it on your stride? :):)
@anonymili (3138)
29 Feb 08
Hi Dipak hun, thanks so much for the BR on this one. It is quite funny reading this again as we went to a birthday party last Friday and 2 wedding/wedding receptions on Saturday and my husband noticed what every woman was wearing down to whether or not their jewellery matched and if it was real gold or not hahahaha! He's so funny!
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@heartonfire (4119)
• Denmark
24 Oct 07
u know,it's funny you asked,cause this month i wanted to buy myself some clothes and i couldn't decide what style to adopt..so i started checking out all the girls on the street,to see what's the fashion this autumn...but i usually don't do that... still,i often notice girls/women stearing at me,when i go out,it's frustrating for me,i can even imagine what they are thinking.. but on the other hand,i think men are quite attentive when it comes to girls also,and i noticed they are more attracted if the girl has nice accesories,maybe they dont realyse that,if you ask them what she was wearing maybe they wouldn't remember but the visual attraction is higher if the girl has nice clothes on:) and women tend to me mean and criticising when it comes to other women
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and you are one of them. You observe others and in the process you come to know what is the latest trend.. Have a great day! ++++++++++++++ rated.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
24 Oct 07
Yes I have noticed this habit in most of the ladies, and I really hate this habit. They are so obsevant, specially about jewellery or costly sarees and dresses or arifical make-up that they are wearing.. etc........They can really make someone feel embarassed.......May be some ladies like it as they get lot of appreciation, but I am not observant type of person, nor I like anybody looking at me up and down as if I am some commidity.....For me this habit is as bad as any other bad manners.......One should appreciate and observe but their should be some grace in it, which is usually lacking in most of these extra observant females.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely however, you are not too keen. Have a great day! ++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ rated.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Tumahey kaun kaun dekhta hai yaa observe karta hai...ye tumahey har samay pata nahi chaal sakta....
@maddysmommy (16230)
• United States
26 Oct 07
I sometimes observe woman and what they are wearing, especially if its nice. I often get ideas of what to match this with that.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your views! How are you! Have a great day! Deepak
@vokey9472 (1486)
• United States
24 Oct 07
Women are their own worst enemies. Women judge either other over everything. I don't understand why women are like this to other women. We as women should be supportive of our sisters but we aren't. We look at what they are wearing and make judgements. We look at how much makeup a woman wears and make judgements. We look at her car, her house, her spouse and even her kids and make judgements. Women look at whether a woman works or stay homes with her kids and we pass judgement. It is actually quite sad. Women worked so hard to have all the opportunities that we have and yet we are our own worst enemies.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and you are one of them. A Have a great day! +++++++++++ rated.
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
24 Oct 07
At least in India I can say women do watch other women as to what saree she is wearing, how is her facial get up, what earrings she is wearing, what make up she has made, what slippers she is wearing, what purse she is carrying so and so forth. She tries to compare hereself with her and would like to assess whether she is higher than her or lower than her in status. A lot of chemistry will work there.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and you are one of them. Have a great day!
@balasri (26537)
• India
4 Aug 08
I don't know much about this Deepak.But I have come to know that you have watched women very very closely.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
5 Aug 08
Bala! I watch everyone very closely. Most of the people want us to take note of them..........LOL!
• United States
24 Oct 07
Most women are very self conscious and are always comparing themselves to other women. I know that I have done that. I'm not sure that men do that as much. A lot of men just seem to have high self esteem and think they are attractive (even when they are not lol).
@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
24 Oct 07
Oh, this is definitely true. Women are in constant competition with other women whether they realize it or not. Most of the time there is no harm in it. It only becomes a problem when jealousy kicks in. I think that it is healthy for both sexes to watch and see what their peers are doing. The thing that bothers me is when a woman sees something on me and then goes out and buys the same thing to copy my style. That is not flattering to me. Especially, if she looks better in it than I do, LOL.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and if somebody copies your style you do not like that.
• Philippines
24 Oct 07
Honestly, I observed other women too, like when we are inside a ladies room and we got to do our make up there. I observed others while waiting for my turn on how they do their make up, what are the brand their using, what kind of dressing their wearing. I can choose from there what i think I like and i had accumulated an idea on how will i do with myself.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and you are one of them. It appears you observe very keenly to others. Have a great day! How are U?
@subathra (3519)
• India
24 Oct 07
you are right deepak..its true and a recent survey too concluded that women watch other women very closely specially when they are wearing attractive accessories..One particular reason may be that women use more make up and accessories which men dont do..hence other women take a look at those women to note down the accessories and style of dressing.. I too look at women who dress well..afterall they look beautiful when dressed neatly..but same time hate to see some women wearing dresses that doesnt suit them which is the one i look very close..and pass comments inside my mind..
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your very interesting views, so you agree that women observe others women very closely and you are one of them. I agree it is always pleasing to see beautiful dress women (and men too) and it gives you a good feeling. Have a great day! How are U? +++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++++ rated.
@vsraovsr (734)
• India
24 Oct 07
There is no controversy in your question because it is an inherent quality in every woman and even with you and me.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
24 Oct 07
hi! yeah u r right-womem do watch other women for clothes,sandals,hair,jewellery,etc and compare it with themselves-these are not all they watch out for in other woman,some even look at the figures,especially boobs- u know women are quite competetive abt the size u know!
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
2 Nov 07
Thanks for sharing your views.
@rimsha (806)
• Pakistan
24 Oct 07
Women watch very keenly all about wear, julary & shoes.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Feb 08
i think most of the women do so. it is by the nature of women, i have seen they are more interested about the dresses, accessories health of other women.so they look at it when they see someone else.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
29 Feb 08
Subha! Do you also observe other women?
@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
25 Oct 07
Yes, a woman empowers another woman. Other women just plainly teach me. They serve as my models. Fashion, accessories, gestures, and how I carry my self!
@ciades (1623)
• Philippines
2 Apr 08
Me, im more watch closely woman than to a man. Not like to a typical man that commonly watch woman than to there same gender. Woman watch woman in many and different reasons. One because they like to see if what clothes and accessories are usually woman wear. Second, curious and not satisfied of there looks and keep comparing thereself to the same gender they looking at. Third, Simply making a critisize look by raising there left eyebrow.LOl! Fourth, they certainly looks the part of other woman if it is better to compared with them. Like for example the butt, boobs, skin,belly and etc....
• United States
24 Oct 07
Yes and only because we also get fashion ideas on how to match and thats how styles begin too. Once you see it everywhere you want to start wearing the same clothes too. I always like to look at girls make up style and their hair. Eventhough not everything you see looks good on you, i guess its worth trying it on yourself and if you like it then it was a lot cheaper then trying to guess at the salon what hair style to do.