What are the first three things that you can give up ...For Love??
By ayou82
@ayou82 (3450)
Philippines
October 31, 2007 12:32pm CST
What are the three things that you can give up for love???
Me i gave up joining different kinds of dating sites(even though im just looking for a friend)
Second,I gave up my drag racing because i love my life and my kids and my life.
Third, I gave up the hardest thing..that is Shopping...Hmmm..
4 responses
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
31 Oct 07
Well, I gave up my job for love (I moved from Indo to Finland about 8 months ago and now I'm unemployed). Secondly, I gave up my comfort zone for love by moving here. Thirdly, I gave up some of my independence for love (now that we're married, we have to be interdependent, not fully independent). ;-D
@ailema4ever (2668)
• Finland
1 Nov 07
THANKS, Ayou! ;-D
Well, I think love is worth it and my hubby's worth it, too he he he he...You're right, though, it's a major change of life and lifestyle he he he...I have to learn everything again from zero. They have different kitchen gadgets here and I have to learn Finnish 'coz my parents-in-law don't speak much English he he he...It's been fun, though. ;-D
@noriko (1254)
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1 Nov 07
i gave up being single because i already found the perfect guy for me. i gave up my work for i have to be with my son at home. i gave up going out with my friends (well they understand that) but we still have communications in text messaging.
@overhere (515)
• United States
2 Nov 07
I guess I gave up my home, country and lifelong friends to move to America and marry my husband. Wow I'd never really thought of it like that before makes it all sound dramatic. The home wasn't difficult but giving up all my possessions (almost) was hard as it was too expensive to ship everything (gives you a whole new attitude to possessions when you give them all up. Leaving my mum and friends was the hardest but we can keep in touch though not the same as seeing them regularly. My country I guess I realise now will always be coursing through my veins.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
2 Nov 07
Leaving someone behind is had and i know that. For years that i go overseas for a long holiday or a trip..or needs me to work leaving 2 kids behind is not easy and i really know that.
There are times that i cry in my sleep because i wonder what they are doing. And if they are okay . Sometimes the worst part of it, if they get sick and im not around to take care of them it is really hard for me as a mother.
