Do you mind your wife isn't a virgin?

@Zhiwen (18)
China
November 6, 2007 3:42am CST
Today,I want discuss a topic about love.Do you mind your girl or wife isn't a virgin.I have several friends who live together.So they are not virgins.When someone talk about this thing,I don't know how to answer.In opinion,I can't live together with my lover before we get married.Maybe some peple will"If you love,we can live together."But I think it is ture,you can get married,then live together. What do you think about this?
3 responses
@nkhanna (925)
• India
11 Nov 07
your perception is true.bt u cant say that others r also not correct.actually its just the way u look.n it also depends upon the society.in todays world people r ready to accept this fact.n my question goes to u as to y is this virginity question only raised to a lady n y not to a man ???i think all that matters is love.if u love one n u wanna b together then there is no harm.
@Zhiwen (18)
• China
11 Nov 07
I green with ,LOVE is the most imoortant.
@sang2k2 (1834)
• India
8 Nov 07
hi zhwiwen, I liked you attitude and even i think like this, as we have no rights to play with any one's emotions. Well the next time you can ans it back saying that what should be important the compatibility and nature of the women or her virgin ness. one doesnt marry a girl just because she is virgin or she is not virgin, i fail to understand that how far the virgin ness is important to a men, i believe a sensible women who should be responsble, understanding should be the points to be seen and noticed rather then being virgin...and the man should ask one self how far is he virgin to question a women.
@Zhiwen (18)
• China
9 Nov 07
Yes , I green with you. If the man who only want to marry a virgin.I think the man to find a virgin not love.This kind of people will not get ture love at last.
@Unl3ashed (111)
• Belgium
11 Nov 07
i wouldn't mind if my wife isn't a virgin... i'm just saying that somethings only can be disciovered when being sexualy involved with someone... so basicly i would be offendend by the factthat my wife isn't a virgin.