mother knows best!

Philippines
November 9, 2007 1:08am CST
As a mother, do you always believe in this saying? I believe this myself. Maybe because as a woman we are more meticulous and always take precautions when doing things. We don't decide immediately, but have to think a hundred times before deciding. Also maybe because we based decisions now on past and similar experiences, so we are more careful? Or is it just instinct of the women that they know better? I also want to know the opinions of the men especially the married ones.
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@ctrymuziklvr (11057)
• United States
9 Nov 07
A mothers instinct? - mother and child sign
I think it's an instinct that mothers have. My mother has always had it, I definitely have it and my daughters now have it. It's almost like something that most females are born with.
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
you too believe it's instinct. i guess so too. thabks for the comment...
• United States
9 Nov 07
I don't think that term is correct in the least. Not saying mothers are stupid and don't know anything, but who are we to say they know "best". Who are we to say what "best" can be defined as. I'm a female, so I'm not being sexist or anything. I just don't think ALL woman fit the description you put. We aren't all careful, we aren't all meticulous. Some of us act carelessly and implulsively. Not all woman are the same. But, ooof course, there are some cases where yes, the mother knows best. Good post :)
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• Philippines
13 Nov 07
thanks for the comment. but i believe, mother are 'generally' meticulous and careful.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
12 Nov 07
i believe it very much. i think mothers instinct is such a thing that mothers know best of their children's need. she can also think what her child anticipate and what's the problem with her child.
@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
9 Nov 07
I actually don't agree with this saying if it means mother knows best as compared to father. If it means over children, then yes. As one part of a pair in parenting there are plenty of times that I don't know best. My husband understands my 6 year old a lot better than I do and can make better decisions based on this sometimes. There are a lot of things that I do know best, but there are equal numbers of times that my husband has better ideas.
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
well, i guess our opinion is based on our experiences as a mother. thanks friend.
• China
9 Nov 07
generally speaking, we say that mothers know the best.that is because mothers experienced more and also have suffered more, so they have drawn lots of lessons and skills in dealing with difficulty .Usually, when we are trapped, we should turn to our mother for advice ,for nobody can match a mother in thinking for her child.But, all suggestions are not suitable for us,we must be able to balance the advice and our personal conditions and make the best decision.
• Philippines
12 Nov 07
that's right, i agree with you. since i am a child, i always turn to my mother for help. when i'm hurt, i called on my mother first. there's really a special bonding between the mother and child. thanks for the good response.