how could they abort a baby.. this really makes me sick!!

@bdazzled (132)
Philippines
November 13, 2007 4:27am CST
last november 10 i arrived home from manila. my brother told me a news that made me angry. a nephew of mine decided to abort thier 7 months old baby on his wifes womb because according to them, her wife could not continue studying if she is pregnant. my brother was crying while telling me that the baby was still alive when it came out. all though he didnt see it, someone told him that they drowned it so that the baby will die. this kind of act is really not acceptable. since i myself wants a baby of my own and up to now im still hoping that i will have one someday. my brother named the baby michael angelo.. since its a boy.. i will pray for that baby for the rest of my life.. and im really sad he never experienced life to its fullness.. may God forgive his parents to what they did to him.. as for me, the rage in my heart still lives on..
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
13 Nov 07
Wait a minute here....The doctor induced early delivery at 7 months because the wife wanted to contiue schooling? Thats legal over there??? Are you SURE this is fact for starters and if it IS is it possible that maybe the baby WASN'T murdered but rather the parents were just told that for some reason? I'm all for abortion and the right to choose HOWEVER THAT IMO is NOT abortion that is murder...a child born at 7 months gestation CAN survive outside the womb...My youngest was born at 6months gest so I know this for fact.....
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
the parents decided to abort the baby.. no one in the family knows that they decided to take it off..
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@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
14 Nov 07
That is so sad. If they didn't want a baby in the first place they should not have got pregnant or at least tried to be more careful to make sure they didn't fall pregant. The other sad point is that they could have adopted that poor little baby out to a family that would have cherished it. I also feel sad for the couple. Even though what they did is not something many of us would do they must have some feelings on this matter, sadness maybe.
@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
13 Nov 07
I have spent time in a special care baby unit. There I saw tiny babies that had been born prematurely. The babies lived due to excellent medical care. The photos of all the success stories at the entrance to the unit were most touching. Some of the babies had been born as early as 24 weeks gestation. By the time they were six months old they had reached the birth weight of my first baby. My second baby has spina bifida and the hospital fixed him up nicely for a happy future. In my country abortion is allowed up until 24 weeks gestation, in fact the time a baby born this early could possibly survive with good medical care. I think in unusual cases like finding out the mother's life is in danger if she continues with the pregnancy abortion is legal after the 24 weeks cut off. I do not believe in abortion for myself. If I was the lady I would have kept the baby and changed my life or had the baby adopted. She might suffer emotionally after aborting her own child in such late pregnancy. I think it sounds horrific. It upsets me to hear of the poor innocent baby being drowned. I am not surprised you feel in a rage abut it. I totally understand. Nothing will bring this poor baby back into this world though. No study is worth this event surely.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
15 Nov 07
Yes, it is the one of the worst things I have ever heard about. Every baby deserves a chance. A baby can always be adopted if the mum does not want him or her. A late abortion is terrible because babies can live from 24 weeks onwards. But what most worries me that the hospital staff killed this baby. Was that legal? I know that as it happened in your family you are horrified about it and quite understandably.
@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
this is the worst thing that ive heard in my life. especially that it concerns a relative. i know that the baby would have lived if only they took care of it. it would have lived because it was crying when it was born. they said something about drindking something thats why it went out premature. but nonetheless the baby is fine as if he is telling people around it not to kill him. but they did. thats really a horrible thing that makes me sick.
• Canada
14 Nov 07
OMG how disgusting!! She was 7 months pregnant?? How is that even legal. Your not supposed to be able to abort after 3 months. They are lucky I am not their family because I would NEVER speak to them again.How cruel can they be if they didn't want the baby then why did they let the baby grow until it was 7months along? In my opinion they committed MURDER and so did the doctors that drowned the poor boy.
@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
yeah. im not speaking to them anymore. my dad calls them murderers. and we dont want them to visit our home.
@mkirby624 (1598)
• United States
13 Nov 07
I'm not sure where you are from, so situations in YOUR country may be different there than in the US, but this story sounds proposterous. Doctors will not INDUCE a 32 week fetus just so a mom can continue school. Partial birth abortions are illegal in the US, so I am pretty sure that inducing a child, then drowning it is MUCH WORSE. Even supporters of abortion would find this insane, because, even though they don't think a fetus is a real human, they do believe that once the child is born and breathing, that they are a real human. So...quite frankly, your nephew and niece murdered their child and should be in prison right now. Either this story is BS, or your homeland has some serious issues with morality.
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
an abortionist did the job. not a doctor.
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• United States
14 Nov 07
An abortionist is a doctor, hun. Abortion is a medical procedure and is therefore performed by a medical professional, a doctor.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
13 Nov 07
I'm not against abortion but what I don't understand is why in the world would they wait that long? It's much easier to get the abortion when the fetus is less than 2 months old. What in the world were they thinking? Why would someone carry a baby for that long then decide they want to abort it?
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
thats what i told them. and also fetus or 7 months old i really think they shouldnt abort the child. only God can take away what he has given.
@Pompon (1757)
• Poland
13 Nov 07
Somehow it seems very strange to me. I can't belive it. I mean, there is no possibility of doing abortion on 7 month kid, it's simply too late. And I do agree with someone above me that 7 month old can survive by itself so there was absolutely no need for doing that nor I can belive any doctor would do that. From what you said it looks like your nephew's whife did give a born to a baby but then just left it to die. This in not abortion, this is a murder.
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• United States
14 Nov 07
Well, in all honesty, not everyone wants kids. Just because you've been trying and haven't gotten pregnant doesn't mean that anyone else is required to want a baby. However, the way they went about it was very wrong. I have no problem with abortion, but what they did is not abortion. They induced labour, bore a live child, then killed it. It's not the same thing.
@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
i fel the same way. i dont even wanna talk about them in my house. ive been wanting to have a kid on my own and its taking so much time to get one. and after what they did, its really frustrating. ive been married for almost 2 years and i still am not blessed with a baby. but them, they had a chance to race a good one and they decided to kill the baby.
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@Marie2473 (8512)
• Sweden
13 Nov 07
I am actually not against abortion But this was not an ABORTION. This was MURDER. abortion here has to be done in the first few weeks - after that it is illegal. I do belive in the womans right to choose, but here she has been pregnant for 7 months , that is just wrong!!!
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
i agree. she could have hold on for 2 more months and let someone adopt the baby.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
16 Nov 07
its very much cruel. They should have thought of other constrains before letting the baby come to womb. When the baby has come, its cruel. They can killtheir own child, how can't others? Why did his father allowed it too?
@Calais (10893)
• Australia
13 Nov 07
The baby can still survive being born that early, why did they have to kill it, why couldnt they give it away to someone that will appreciate the value of life...Why did they wait so long to have the abortion ?????? Seems very strange, Heartless act...
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@Debs_place (10520)
• United States
14 Nov 07
That is not abortion - it is murder - that baby was viable. I can't believe that this type of activity is legal!! What is wrong with your nephew?
@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
whats wrong with him? HE IS REALLY JUST IRRESPONSIBLE..
@aries_0325 (3060)
• Philippines
12 Jan 08
That is a bad story. Killing a 7 month baby is also a crime of murder. Abortion is an absolutely wrong and it is a crime of murder. And absolutely I am not favor for this. And I think the fetus have life and like us she/he have a right to see this wonderful world.
@snowtig (13)
• Canada
14 Nov 07
OMG that is just messed up how could someone do that to a baby that is that far along they could of waited and give it up for adoption that is a crime and should be in jail for the rest of their lives for that
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@poohgal (6845)
• Singapore
13 Nov 07
It's really saddening to hear that. This only teaches us to think carefully before we do anything. If we want to do something, then be prepared for the consequences. I believe your nephew and his wife are both very young since they are still studying. They are so young, they should not even have conceived the child in the first place. At 7 months, the fetus is more or less developed. I am sure they could have found someone to adopt the baby rather than killing him. That's very inhuman of your nephew. No matter what we say now is of no use. All we can do is to pray for the child and May God bless the child.
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
yes. and i really feel they should be responsible for any actions they have made.
@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
Oh my god that is so bad.. I mean she is almost due and never wait for another 2 months more to bring that baby in this world and then they can decide. Because knowing that there are more couples that love to have children. In the eyes of God they both commit sin and they will carry on for the rest of their lives. Thats why this kids really never listen ,they make decisions and never ASK Advise from the seniors. I feel sorry for that kid, the only way to save it is PRAY for the soul. What A waste.
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@bdazzled (132)
• Philippines
13 Nov 07
it is really a huge mistake for them to off that child. this cant b tolerated. my cousin (the father of my nephew) was so angry when he heard about this. he never came home since then.
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
16 Nov 07
Is this a legal procedure where they live? What you're describing is not an abortion, it's infanticide. Drowning a child is not at all comparable to an early termination.
@joahnna18 (368)
• Philippines
15 Nov 07
I'm very sad reading your topic.. i'm a mother and have a 11 months old son. Abortion makes me sick and why the mother wants to take it off because of her study? stupid things to do. She didn't think what are the consequences when they made love and now she's pregnant she easily take the baby away. She's sick i hope GOD will forgave her for what she do.. she's a murderer.. She didn't let her child experience beautiful thing in the world. Maybe one day she will regret the things that she'll do. I will pray for the baby.. i hope he's in heaven now. And for the mylotter out there it's not the doctor who takes the child.. We call it "abortionist" people who don't have any licence it's their ILLEGAL work to kill babies for small money.
@Margajoe (4709)
• Germany
14 Nov 07
Oh My, I donĀ“t know what to say. I have tears in my eyes. Just the thought of someone letting there baby be downed. I think this young lady was depressed and got the wrong help!No mother in her right mind would do this after carring a baby for 7 months! A baby of 4 to 5 months already has a chance to survice and be healthy. In Holland that is forbidden. Abortion is aloud befor 3 months. In some cases it is nesessary. But , not something you just go and do because you decide it does not fit in you daily plans. After 3 months it is called murder. This lady does not know it yet, but later she is going to feel so guilty. When she finally realizes what she had done. Are you sure she carried for 7 months? I just cannot understand. Well anyway, hope some day you have your happy baby. Take care, God bless you.
• Philippines
14 Nov 07
That is SOOOO sick! I've heard of people aborting babies at the start of the pregnancy, but for someone to abort a 7-month old fetus is just so wrong!!! And the reason for abortion is stupid... the wife couldn't continue studying if she's pregnant?! Hello, she carried the baby for 7 months already. Plus the baby was alive when it came out... why didn't they just let the baby live anyway or give it up for adoption? You're right, this is not acceptable. Gosh. They killed a baby who could've lived. I'm not a fan of abortion but sometimes I try to understand the people who do it at the start of the pregnancy when the baby hasn't really formed yet. But to force a baby to come out at 7 months -- ALIVE -- and then kill it?! Were the parents even thinking?! I'm sorry to talk about your nephew and his wife like this but what they did was so bad. I feel so sad for the baby. May he rest in peace.
14 Nov 07
very terrible.i am sorry to hear that a 7months old baby is abored. if they are married,they should not kill their baby.if they don't want a baby,why give up him when he is 7 months old?