It's a wonderful LIFE... PLAYING FAVORITES not EQUAL

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Is GOD playing favoritism? I don't want to spark a religious discussion here, but base on what i see, it would seem that GOD does have his favoritism also. Is that a bad thing? What i think not necessarily. For me as long as the principle of justice are not stepped on, having favoritism is not a wrong thing. In fact, I'd say that the gift of preference is a divine gift. It is what makes us all unique as individuals. It's a paradox, in a way. We are all the same in that we all have preferences. Each one of us prefers something to the other. And yet, all our preferences are different. Like there is no such thing as identical twins. Even identical twins are different. From the time they are born to the time they age 5 or 6 they have the same clothing that parents used to dressed them up. But when they reach the age of 8 or 9, their individual preferences emerge. One may like indoor playing, the other outdoor playing. One may like dancing and the other prefers singing. Soon the individual personalities of these twins emerge. This may sound like a wacky proposition but for me, the differences in our individual preferences are actually makes the world go round. Can you imagine if all of us like to take the course medicine? We would be a world of DOCTORS! For sure, we'd all be healing and treating each other. Then there would be no one to cook our food, build and construct our houses, and make our cars. Can you imagine if all of us wanted to become priest? We'd be saying Mass to each other and hearing each other's sins. Heaven forbid. Can you imagine if all of us preferred to become Lawyers? We'd all be suing each other, but there would be no one to render judgment-or pay our fees! That would be Hell on Earth."Favoritism" really stems from our preferences. These preferences can be a result of so many things. Our past experiences, our view of the world,our DNA. The good news our preferences- and our tendencies to have certain favorites can change over time. For example, for one reason or another when i was younger i love playing toys. It was just in my DNA. I love my toys because of the colors,kind and make of it. But as i grew up i learned to like a different toy hehe joke only.as time goes on u change and your preference to your favorites. In my family my first child was my favorite but when he started to fight me, disrespect me and answer back to me i change my preference. My 3rd son who is much sweeter, loveble,and respect me is my favorite now. So, where is this all leading to? FRUSTRATION. This is my advice. Stop whining. There is no such thing as an equal playing field. Life is like POKER in a way- we are all dealt different sets of cards. and it's really up to us to deal with the cards we're given. In LIFE, there will be some people who will like you and others not. That's a fact. Are you bothered by favoritism? Don't fret. GOD allowed you to have favorites and preferences. It's up to you if you allow other people to run over you, or you choose your own fate.