what has love done to you?

Philippines
November 26, 2007 12:30am CST
i know love is one very beautiful thing. quoting other people, "it is the closest thing we have to magic." but, like magic, it can be ugly too. painful! traumatic! so please do share, what bad stuff has love done to you?
4 responses
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
26 Nov 07
i don't know if it's really love that has done this thing to me but i think that the worst thing so far that i am experiencing now is that my "boyfriend" left me. it's not like he left me because he wanted to but he needs to. his parents wanted him to go to italy and he doesn't have any say in the matter because in our country we really have to obey our parents specially when they are still the one who feeds you so... i don't even know what to do now. it's really complicated and stuff. so. i don't know. i think that's probably the worst thing so far.
• Philippines
28 Nov 07
hey, sorry to hear about your boyfriend leaving. hope you guys can still make it work somehow....
@royanne (372)
• Philippines
29 Nov 07
i hope so too. But it's really complicated. His parents wants him to work already and that would mean years or forever even. So, i don't know. I'm still young though. LOL well, thank you so much for your concern!
@nkhanna (926)
• India
26 Nov 07
the one i loved i got.but yes there sre many firends of mine whom i have seen that love has given more pains to them rather than happiness.but since love is a magic.they still love the other person,inspite of the hatred.i think this is what is love.it can make you do all weird things.the other name for love is pain but for me its just gain and happiness.
• Philippines
28 Nov 07
hey! good to know u're not one of those who suffer from love. keep it that way :)
@wolfie34 (26881)
• United Kingdom
26 Nov 07
I don't believe in true love to be honest, I have never found it, to me love is a nightmare and brings too much trouble, heartache, rejection and more. People wish so much to love and yet when they find love find it not what they expected. I have accepted that I will not love and I am happy and accept that I will be single now for the rest of my life. I have had a couple of abusive relationships which has nearly killed me. Love is not for me, you can keep it. You are right it can be ugly too and it can destroy people I've seen the evidence.
• China
26 Nov 07
In China, we usually say life hurts but love hurts most.It really is. i met my gf ten years ago, she gave me too much pleasure and more pain, so did I. i think that is real love and real life. so, forget the pain, my friend, let it go and move on.