Do you ever feel embarrased in a group exercise class?

United States
November 27, 2007 2:55pm CST
I just started working out again. I think it's been about 5 years since the last time I seriously tried. I've been going to this class called "Butt and Gut" which is exactly what it sounds like. It is a solid 30 minutes of working those areas. I feel so stupid, though, because if I can do 1/4 of the exercises that the instructor is having us do I'm lucky. I know that I shouldn't compare myself to others and we should each do what we can. I want to continue to go, but I feel so stupid when I am there. Have you ever had a similar experience?
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• Australia
28 Nov 07
Oh, not that I can remember. i've always given new things ago without a second thought. If I try my best and don't end up on the floor, then I'm happy with my effort. If I do end up on the floor, I get straight back up and try to figure out how it happened! lol.
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• Australia
29 Nov 07
Yeah, but that was when I was still in high school. I don't know about now! lol.
• United States
28 Nov 07
I wish I had that kind of confidence, new! That is awesome.
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28 Nov 07
A few years ago I joined an exercise class only to find that I was the only person in that class who simply couldn't manage the exercises. All the others there were stick thin and I felt completely humiliated. I haven't gone to an exercise class since, the whole experience put me off for life.
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• United States
28 Nov 07
Oh, that's sad. I'm sorry that happened to you. Fortunately for me most of the people in the classes I have been taking are big like me. It's great to see more "plus-sized" people taking exercise classes. Maybe you could give an exercise class a chance again as things may have changed?
• Bulgaria
28 Nov 07
Well,not exactly. I kind of like my body and I don't feel that embarrased. Recently I started taking boxing and the only strange thing in the hall was that I am a girl. However the instructor was surprised from my strengh and they say I really don't hit like a girl. Feels like entering into a man's world.
• United States
28 Nov 07
That's great, t. I had a time in my life where I liked my body. Then several medical things happened to me and I couldn't quite move the way I used to. I would like to get back to that again. Boxing, wow, that's interesting. I like cardio kickboxing, but I'm sure that is not anywhere close to the real thing!
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• Canada
27 Nov 07
Reminds me of the horrors of gym class in high school. I was so scarred from those experiences that there is only three people on the face of this earth I will exercise in front of or with. My hubby, my dad and my best friend, other than that I exercise alone. I know it is my phobia that makes me feel this way and am trying to overcome it. My hubby always says to me what are you worried about, no one remembers you five minutes after they see you. I know he is right but it doesn't make it any easier. I think that you should keep it up and who cares what others think. I just wish I had the courage to follow my own advice. Good luck.
• United States
27 Nov 07
Oh, I can totally see how that would remind you of gym class in high school! Fortunately I didn't have to go through that then. I was pretty athletic in high school. It's just been as an adult that I have really slipped into bad habits. Thank you for the encouraging words. I hope that someday you can find the courage to follow your own advice!
• United States
27 Nov 07
No, I am not embarrassed. Everyone else that is there is not thinking about you, but are really wrapped up in their own feelings about wanting to do the exerocises right or are focused on their personal goal. You have nothing to feel ashamed of. The key - and most people miss this - is not to let that one class be your exercise for the week. If you go for walks and get other exercise during the week, you will get more out of your class. You will have the cardiovascular stamina and the flexibility to keep up more and more each time.
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• United States
28 Nov 07
Those are good keys to remember. My goal is the butt and gut class on Mondays, Yoga on Tuesdays and Wednesdays, and whatever class is available on Thursdays that I can get to. My family and I usually go hiking or walking or something active once during the weekend. We'll see if I can keep to that schedule then change it as needed.
• Philippines
27 Nov 07
I can totally relate! I have enrolled myself last year and ended up doing it for one day only. I think, we only need more motivation, and not a forceful one that will entail us to go because we are forced to but something that makes us feel good after the day's exercise, you feel happy for sweating it off. Making the experience a tool that makes us healthy and not because of what's around us or who's around us. I know what you mean about not comparing yourself to others, but sometimes it just happens. It may help if you lower your expectations on every exercise class so it wouldn't hurt that much, just enjoy if it's possible. I hope I'm making sense. (^_^)
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• United States
28 Nov 07
Yes, lower my expectations is a good idea. It doesn't even make sense that a person could go into an excercise class for the first time and make it all the way through with ease. Now that I think about it in that way, it is much easier to accept that I was not able to do all the exercises. I'll make it farther next Monday!
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• China
28 Nov 07
Hi,there! I can't remember if I have such an experience before.But I would say usually I don't feel embarrased in a group exercise class.I mean even if there are some actions that I can't make or do,I won't be embarrased.However,I would ask the instructor about it in details so that I can catch the skills and finally complete it successfully. If I think some of the actions are stupid,I also would like to do it with everyone else cause I think when we're exercising ourselves,sometimes we should forget about many things and just be concentrated to the thing itself:) Hopefully you'll have a better feeling soon! Good day!
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