how would you react if your bestfriend courts you?

Philippines
November 29, 2007 1:57am CST
i have a best friend and she is very beautiful, we were friends since we are young but when i was in high school she leave and go to other place to live there. Now im already in college and she returns to live again in our place, and were together again, but later i found out that im not contented to be her friend, i want to be more than her friend,i want to court her but i am afraid of her reaction,and the reaction of our parents because aside from our parents are close to each other we are also neighbors, my mom is her mothers friend, and our fathers have the same work so they go together, and they re also close.What should i do?Should i court her?I am afraid to tell what i really feel for her but i couldnt last a day without her, i totally love her.What should i do? pls help me
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4 responses
@carolbee (16241)
• United States
4 Dec 07
I think you should talk to her and let her know your feelings. Do you feel she cares for you also? It shouldn't matter if your parents are friends with her parents. If you two were meant to be together, it will happen. Good luck to you.
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
thanks and ill do approach her and court her whatever her reactions with it
@reanne (83)
3 Dec 07
my advice to you is to tell her as soon as possible... coz we don't know she myt have feelings for you as well, which you don't know.... and tym comes u both will regret it, for not telling each other.... juz confront her and try asking her.... if she doesnt allow you, that's fine, at least you tried, and that you wouldn't regret... i know God has perfect plans for you.... God bless... tc always...
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
thanks for the reply and happy posting
@nopain (32)
• China
3 Dec 07
if i were you, i would ask for her whether she be my girlfriend or not immediately. Because if i don't that ,this thinking will trould me a lot. i will think about it everyday,everytime...even though i have my lunch. But,at first,i will trying to ask my parents about that,and litening theirs useful suggestion.without a doubt,the older people have had a lot of life experiences. sometimes,when you can not make you personal idea.maybe this is a better way for you to ask them. and secondly,you mentioned that you knew each other since you were High school students. and your are neightboors too,isn't it mean a thing that you may know each other very well.so,you will not have any difficult to being a couple. In conclusion,i do think it is very reasonable for you to count her.
• Philippines
4 Dec 07
thanks for your reply ,suggestion rather, and happy posting...
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
30 Nov 07
Hi & Hello, meenneixz. Cheers !!! meenneixz, because you already have a great bonus point there and you are now in the comfort zone for enjoying the good inter-parents-relationship. You still remember 'see-saw'?, and kindly observe carefully, it works inversely proportional to enjoy the playing system, isn't it?. So you find her points of weakness and next you must be superior to her points of weakness. To make her appreciates you very much for your superiority and worth it for her to have you as her boyfriend and her man. Handle and manage things in a very smart way. You have mentioned that you know her very well, so need no much intro value for your relationship. Do not think for any material presentation to brag, tout and foster your current nice kind of relationship with her BUT just sell your smart and electrifying brain and I do believe that she will buy your sincere love products. Be positive in your high level of knack attitude and just do it. And be confident that you can do it. May success be upon you. Happy Postings and Earnings, meenneixz. HAPPY DAPPY.
• Philippines
3 Dec 07
thanks, i really like your reply, happy posting