How do we get more responses to the discussions we begin?

India
December 1, 2007 4:46am CST
I have started so many discussions on Mylot. Most of them are related to Mylot, pet care, freelance writing and earning extra. But I haven't got as many responses as I would have liked. No, It is not discouraging me or anything like that. And I am not complaining either. But I just wonder how some discussions get more than a 100 responses. In other words, any tips to get more responses, or does it just happen?
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9 responses
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
2 Dec 07
It really depends on lots of things. Sometimes it depends on the time you post your discussions. If there are that many people at that time and when they are your discussion was already pushed down by new ones. THe title seems to be important because it's what will attract people to read it. How many friends you have will have an effect as well, since we tend to answer our friend's discussions. You have 125 posts, I'm not sure of how long you've been here but the more you and your avatar are known , specially if your discussions or answers are interesting, the more people will respond when they see it. THe other thing is , discussions tend to pick up in answers and then stop for a bit. If you comment on the responses you will bring it up again so more people will see it and respond. I usually do that, when my discussions stopped for a bit I add a comment which would bring it back up again and then there are more responses. WIsh you good luck:)
@arkaf61 (10881)
• Canada
2 Dec 07
I'll look for more postings from you. Have a good sunday:)
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• India
2 Dec 07
Thanks for your wonderful post, my friend! You are right! Time could be a factor. And attractive titles is another. I happen to respond to titles that are attractive myself. Wish you very happy Mylotting!!
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@Jasmine78 (135)
• United States
1 Dec 07
I have the same question as you. When I start my first discussion, I got 16 responds in one week. It was a big surprise for me. Because I didn't know well about this website at first. But now days, I only get some responses in one or two days after posting, and almost get none in later times. I guess the website may put the post of a newly registered person in the top. So he or she can have great interest in the beggining. But the later post has no this special benefit. Does anyone has the same feeling with me?
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• India
2 Dec 07
Hi, Jasmine, thanks for your response. Well, I am in no position to answer your query coz I don't know :) It could be possible, but I haven't really observed it. The maximum number of responses I got to one of my discussions was 17.
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@marciascott (25529)
• United States
1 Dec 07
You half to get you a lot of friends, you just got here, give it time. like a few months to a year. I have been here over a year, and I don't even get as many. but I am fine with what I have. The person has to really be intested in what you are talking about. I was interested, that is why I came here. I hope that helps.
• India
1 Dec 07
Thanks a lot for your valuable suggestion, my friend.
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• China
1 Dec 07
Maybe i am in the same situation with yours. originally i always try to find a good topic to attract more persons on mylot, however i have changed my mind about that. perhaps there are not so many responses to my discussion, as long as the several ones can be pure-hearted, i am contented.
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• India
1 Dec 07
Thanks for your response, bonnie!! Wish you happy Mylotting!
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
1 Dec 07
Sometimes its timing of the discussion. Other times its how easy or hard the discussion is. In your case Positive I'd also say its lack of exposure too. Try to get out there and post on other people's threads to get your name out and build your friend base. Also try to pick topics that are seemingly irresistable (at least every once in awhile).
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• India
1 Dec 07
Yeah, I am planning on focusing on posting on other people's threads for some time at least. Thanks for your valuable suggestion, my friend. But what are these 'irresistable topics'?? :)
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1 Dec 07
I think the more well known you are and the more friends you have the more replies! people may reply to you just because they know you are because they are your friend. also, i think you should attempt to make topics that will relate to large amounts of people... think, would they want to reply to this? would this make a good discussion? are there lots of possible answers? do people have strong opinions on this? don't make topics you know nothing about.... do research. it may seem pointless but you'll get a good reputation and it pays off !
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• India
1 Dec 07
Thanks for your valuable suggestion, my friend.
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@sephrenia (567)
1 Dec 07
I reckon that most of the time it's down to how well you are known around mylot and your post count will have something to do with that. If you don't have a lot of posts or only post in certain subjects, then a lot of people will feel that either you aren't here often enough to make it wirthwhile posting because it can take ages to get a reply from you or, they may feel that there is nothing that they can contribute to your discussions. I think your best bet is to look around at other discussions like every day ones that people post about problems in their daily lives and see if you can reply to them or if someone has posted about something in the news, try to reply to that. It's pretty much how much people know your name or avatar more than anything else from what I can see. When I started I had a load of discussions going and nobody replied for ages and I got fed up of trying to get people writing in mine so I decided to go nosing around everybody elses posts and replying where I could. Now I usually get at least one response and that's all good for me, I don't care about the number of responses as long as someone does respond, then I know that I'm doing something right. That's just my thoughts on it lol, I may be completely wrong. Maybe someone else can kindly come and clear it up for you some more.
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• India
1 Dec 07
Thank you so much for your quick response! It was great reading your thoughts about the matter. Actually, I too was about to begin doing what you say you have done--respond to other people's discussions!! I bet it is a good way to make yourself know.
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@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
8 Dec 07
Hi & Hello, my good friend - positiveminded1977. For this case, you have to shoot trouble shooting to material the case. First and foremost, how many friends in your 'friends list'. Secondly, how many friends that are really active in mylotting activity. Finally, do they have source to response to your discussion. And the sentiment case, in general, that will be is do they like you or not. Happy Postings and Earnings, my good friend - positiveminded1977. HAPPY DAPPY.
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• India
8 Dec 07
Hi, my good friend. Plenty of friends in my 'friend' list, though I hardly know anything about them. I guess all of us in Mylot are busy posting and hardly have time to send PMs and make small talk. :) Or maybe I have been neglecting them a bit and need to pay more attention to them. Wish you happy earnings too!! Cheers!
@numb2k3 (135)
• Philippines
8 Dec 07
I also have this dilemma but I do no let it affect my mylot experience in any way. I respond to replies very fast on weekends and I still get the same amount of responses, that is about 2-7 per topic.
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• India
8 Dec 07
Good to read a post from you!! You are right in not letting it affect your Mylot experience. I follow the same policy myself...it is a lot fun posting replies to discussions other people have started.