choose the person who love you,or the person you love

China
December 4, 2007 2:09am CST
When come up with this topic,maybe you will say"find a person love you,also the person you love is perfect",but in fact,it is very difficulty to find MR Right in the world,and we hardly can wait that day,and that right person comes.Could you wait? I face this problem right now.Although I am not very old,but my parents always worried about my marriage.They always push me to find my MR Right,they say" pls take that boy home" ,"Pls don't let us wait so long time",the old saying like this"When you get older,and uglier, then the chance for choosing spouse reversed".What will you do if the two people stand in front of you?If you cannot wait "C",and you must choose from "A" and "B".
1 response
@sherinek (3320)
• United States
4 Dec 07
What i feel is, marriage is not something you should rush for the sake of being married. You marry for the lifetime and you have to be choosy. My mom told me, marry the one who love you not the one who you love. So, i give you the same advise.
• China
4 Dec 07
It is the same idea that choose the one who love you,not the one you love,I think mother knows better than us.Thanks very much for your comment.But,sometimes I will doubtful of myself,whether I too choosy or not,because I keep silence and has no sense of love since the result of breaking up with my EX-boyfriend 1 years ago.It makes my parents anxious.