The Most Precious Christmas Gift - Becoming a Parent

@bethyboo (399)
United States
December 11, 2007 8:05pm CST
This year I have received the most precious Christmas gift I have ever gotten. On November 3 of this year, my son was born. I couldn't ask for a better gift than my firstborn. I was blessed with the sweetest and cutest little boy anyone could ask for. Becoming a parent is a gift that you would never want to return and is a gift you can enjoy year after year. I would love to hear everyone's stories about the first Christmas with your firstborn. Did you feel like you recieved the best gift you could possibly receive?
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
12 Dec 07
Same here bethy, the time that my daughter was born and infact it's her birthday yesterday Dec.11, its the most happiest moment of my life..I realized that i'm a full woman because of my beautiful child..She's already 3, and i'm so greatful having a child like her..she's my life, she gave color into my life, she's the most precious Christmas gift i received ever..
@bethyboo (399)
• United States
12 Dec 07
I know how you feel. Having children sure makes the whole world seem brighter. I love your avatar by the way. It is so adorable.
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• Philippines
12 Dec 07
thanks for the appreciation friend..i only took that from the internet..i love it too..have a great Christmas with your family..God Bless
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
12 Dec 07
I am certain that my s/o feels that way, since his daughter was born on Christmas Day. Of course we have to be real creative to combine the two, but we do make it special for her. I remember the first time I felt my first daughter move, it was Christmas Eve, and it was wonderful. And yes being a parent is a gift, that way too many don't take as that. I never felt being a mom was a burden.
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@bethyboo (399)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Having a child on Christmas Day has got to be the best Christmas ever. Also, the first time you felt your daughter move had to be a very special Christmas moment for you. Thanks for sharing your Christmas stories.
@biggerb (2024)
• India
12 Dec 07
Congratulations.You must be feeling so good on becoming a parent.There cannot be a better gift for Christmas than your son.I wish and your family all the very best.I just came across a prayer which I would like to share with you. The Gift of a child God our Father,in giving us this child you have shown us your love.Help us to be trustworthy parents.Make us patient and understanding,that our child may always be sure of our love and grow up to be happy and responsible. All the very best to you.
@bethyboo (399)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Thanks so much. I absolutely love that prayer. I will have to remember that and say it every night!
@kellys3ps (3723)
• United States
23 Dec 07
I really did feel like he was the best gift I could have ever gotten! I didn't even ask for anything else!
@bethyboo (399)
• United States
23 Dec 07
Everyone was asking me what I wanted for Christmas this year and they kept getting frustrated because I was saying I already got my gift, my son. Which was the truth, I don't want or need anything else.
@garnet80 (349)
• Australia
12 Dec 07
Congradulations on your prescous gift. I have one child and he is my world. I love him with all my heart and soul. When he was 3 1/2 months old my ex husband walked out on us to be with his girlfriend. For the last 2 1/2 years it's just been the two of us. When asked if I still would have had my son if I knew I was going to be a sole parent would I still have had my son. Hell yeah I would have. I know it sounds bad but I would have chosen my son over my ex husband any day. He means the world to me and together we can do anything. It's funny how children make you feel like you can conquer the world.
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@bethyboo (399)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Aww, it sounds like you have the greatest bond with your son. It is so great to hear stories like yours.
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
12 Dec 07
Last year was my first christmas with my son. It was amazing. I felt like I didn't need anything for christmas, just my son and my husband. It is amazing how much a baby changes your life. I see things differently now, and I haven't enjoyed christmas this much since I was a child. Savor every moment, it is such a wonderful but fleeting time. Congratulations.
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@bethyboo (399)
• United States
12 Dec 07
I feel the exact same way. My Christmas gifts are my son and husband. It truly is a wonderful feeling.
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@beyonce03 (2331)
• Canada
18 Dec 07
Right now, I'M 26 weeks pregnant and even if my son his not born yet, it,s really the most beautiful Christmas gift I could ever ask for. It's been a while that i was ready to have a child, but my boyfriend wasnt and in may he told me he wanted a child. So this Christmas I have a little bit of a gift that my boyfriend gave me :)
@bethyboo (399)
• United States
18 Dec 07
Aww, that is great! Congrats! Being pregnant on Christmas is truly a wonderful gift.
@squaretile (3778)
• Singapore
24 Dec 07
that's really lovely. i don't have children so i can't quite answer your question directly. But this is a nice christmas for me, spending it with church friends and my family. in fact there is a large extended family gathering coming up soon and carolling with my church friends after that. hopefully i can last through the night since i usually sleep rather early!
• United States
12 Dec 07
My son was born July of last year. Last Christmas was a crazy one. We had recently moved from Michigan to Wisconsin and we had to drive back for Christmas. While I was thankful for Marcus, it didn't really feel that special at Christmas time (he wasn't all that new by then either, and everything was stressful). This year, things are less stressful, and he is a lot of fun to be around. He oohhhs and aahhs over Christmas lights making them even more special. He gets excited over Christmas trees and decorations. I can't wait till it is time to open gifts!