Free Dinner

@kykidd (6812)
United States
December 13, 2007 4:02pm CST
Now we all know there is no such thing as a free dinner, but I received this in the mail and I think I am going to go. It is called Internet Income Training and I will receive dinner and a free business organizer. You know they are going to try to sell me something, but I'm not buying. But I do feel if I go I will get at least a notebook page of information that I may find useful. It may be new tips or just old reminders...we'll see. Has anyone else ever attended one of these with no intention to purchase? It just says it's a free conference and doesn't even state they are selling anything. Do you think it is wrong of me to attend with no intentions to buy anything, even though they haven't stated they are selling anything?
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
13 Dec 07
Think about it. They ARE trying to sell something (of course), even if they don't say what exactly or how much. They have spent considerable money on your hopeful custom already by printing the mail and mailing you (and thousands of others). 'Lunch' is likely to be a salad sandwich ("Oh dear, sorry there's only one! More people came than we anticipated.") Did you know that you can organise a business with a pad of paper and a pencil? I doubt that they would rip you off to that extent but you could probably buy a better and more useful one for the fare (or gas) to get you to the event (and have change for a sandwich!) There are plenty of programs and books offering Internet Income Training. You can get the books (if they are any good) from the Library and much of the information can be found for free on the Internet itself. There are very few 'secrets' that are not already published somewhere and there are certainly none that are worth the several hundred dollars you will need to shell out for their course. Like any business, there are really no easy answers. Good training can (and does) help but a day's seminar won't really get you very far unless you take copious notes, do plenty of research AND have the will and acumen to succeed in the first place! The thing that they really want you to do, very likely, is to subscribe to their Multilevel Marketing program. It would probably look so suspect in print or studied at your leisure that they cannot sell it any other way than with high-pressure psychological marketing techniques which only work when applied by highly trained and motivated salesmen. I would advise giving it a miss, unless you have a really iron will and can afford the time to watch professional marketers at work.
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Will yes, will power is everything. I believe that is the only way to success. That has gotten me to where I am in life and will get me even further down the road. Thanks for posting, I enjoyed. Have a wonderful day!
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
13 Dec 07
I went to the same exact thing last year. They give you a turkey sandwich and I think a salad. Oh yeah and the free organizer which I'm going to sell the next time I go to the flea market. The are hoping you will sign up to take the three day seminar. I forgot how much they cost. I actually like going to those things because I always learn something. A few weeks ago I went to some National Grants conference where they show you how to apply for federal grants from the government. Only once did I actually lose my head and sign up for something I think it was a cash flow program for making money with notes. It was about $3000 It sounded so good like I could make money right away so I ran up there with my credit card ready to go. My boyfriend always laughs at me for that. Luckily I came to my senses and canceled the thing before it was too late. It was the first seminars I had gone to and I was just excited about the thought of making some money. I'm glad I know better now. Now I can go to those things and not be swallowed up by the hype. They all say the same things.
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
13 Dec 07
Ah, so there are other people out there who attend these things. The only one I have ever attended was about flipping houses and I did come away with a page full of notes. Two years later I bought my first investment property. So who knows, maybe 2 years from now I'll do something lucrative on the net....Ha Ha, just kidding, I better make it happen a lot quicker than that. Thanks for posting and have a great day!
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@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
13 Dec 07
I've gone to real estate, grants, stock options, internet, notes seminars. I do like going because I do learn something new each time. Just don't buy anything and you'll be fine. If something interests you you can do your own research.
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Thanks for advice and you are probably right that their business is exactly just that, the seminar business.
• Canada
13 Dec 07
Yep! My hubby and I fell for that too. We went and got a free dinner and organizer and we signed up to buy 6 e-commerce websites (7K we could ill afford) maxing our credit cards. Baaaad idea. We are complete newbies and knew next to nothing and we were assured we would be helped all the way. Thing is, the help costs too. Bitter pill to swallow. It's been two years and we don't even have one website up. Still trying to learn, though, but I'll be darned if I plunk down another 1200 bucks US for them to hold my hand (or so they say). Don't fall for the spiel. Very professional and enticing, but unless you know what you're doing....
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
I don't doubt it. Thanks for your response and have a great day.
@dreamy1 (3811)
• United States
13 Dec 07
Yeah it sounded very possible didn't it. I couldn't afford it but no way could I plunk down $2500 for a website. They even brought in this lady who make millions of dollars selling maps! Said she started out mowing lawns then went to millions.
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@kurtbiewald (2625)
• United States
13 Dec 07
sometimes churches do free dinners sometimes people who are wealthy like my landlord go and eat for free maybe he should pay for the next free dinner at that church maybe he has a million dollars, anyway he doesn't have to pay rent, he just looks homeless and broke
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
LOL That's funny. Maybe he really is broke. I found one of my tenants actually thought I was rich. Made me really wonder where they got this idea since they were costing me a ton of money especially the attorney fees to get them kicked out when they wouldn't pay and wouldn't move. Plus, I had to pay the mortgage, the taxes, the insurance, and the high utility bills that they ran up. Guess they thought they were my charity case.
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Thanks for posting and have a great day!
@breepeace (3014)
• Canada
14 Dec 07
I think that's the same one I went to last year. :) I didn't buy. Wasn't even remotely enticed. My roommate was though. She borrowed the $10 or $20 it took to get into the upcoming conference from me and then didn't end up going. An easy $20 for them, and I'll bet our nanaimo bar, croissant sandwich and few leaves of lettuce and slice of tomato weren't even $2 each. :) I came out still hungry, and we ended up going for burgers afterwards. It's a free 'snack' really. And I gave the organizer away at my last garage sale. Don't have much use for a fake leather bound organizer when I have a BlackBerry.
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Not even a real meal. What's wrong with the world these days, and pleather you say....LOL Thanks for posting and have a great day!
@pastorkayte (2255)
• United States
14 Dec 07
I dont think so they are offering you a bonefide invitation and all they ask is that you listen so you are doing what they ask you to do. Besides you could love it. Everyone is skeptical at new business ventures
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
You are mostly likely correct. They sent the invitation so my accepting it should not obligate me to anything. Thank you for posting and I hope you have a great day.
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
14 Dec 07
i have been to one of these.they firstly get you in and tell you about a course they are running in the next month,which cost you about $50 .00.you can take a friend with you for that price also. at the conference they tell you some useful information about internet marketing etc.basically they are trying to sell you websites,actually they suggest 6 websites .i think someone else mention they purchased 6 websites.so if you go take your money with you lol.
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
LOL Oh yeah I'll definitely be sure and stop by the bank on the way. Thanks for responding and have a great day.
• United States
14 Dec 07
I am not good at those high pressure sales things. I'd pass on the free lunch!
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@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
Do you know they say sales people are the easiest people to sell to? Seems odd doesn't it. You would think they would know all of the tricks. Thanks for responding and have a great day!
14 Dec 07
You know, alot of times those days are a waste as to the information you get at them, but the free dinner, usually lunch as well, and sometimes a free gift is worth it. You will probably get more than just a page of information. But, most of that information you can get online with a little bit of surfing. The free dinner is worth it though. Last time I went to one I got a really nice steak dinner. So, go, have fun, do a little networking and have your free dinner!
@kykidd (6812)
• United States
14 Dec 07
It's unbelievable how much information is out there on the internet. Isn't it wonderful! I am addicted. Thanks for posting and have a great day!