friends is it easy to find?

South Korea
January 5, 2008 1:00am CST
hi, i just want to know about your opinion, is it very easy for you to find good friends? for me no,,, Good FRIENDS are really hard to find how about you?
3 people like this
14 responses
@MarkDG (41)
• United States
5 Jan 08
Real, true, GOOD friends are very very difficult to find. When someone actually becomes this kind of friend to you, don't ever let go of them! Do not let time or distance separate you from you true friends! Just like the saying "bros before hoes".
1 person likes this
@MarkDG (41)
• United States
5 Jan 08
And now it occurs to me that you might have been referring to the television show FRIENDS. If that is the case, please disregard my response!
1 person likes this
• South Korea
5 Jan 08
no,its not from television show it is my own experience,thanks
1 person likes this
• India
7 Jan 08
friends -remember that there willalways b someone who remembers u every day with or with out u.even after a long gap/distance a single word hi makes u or him happy
1 person likes this
• United States
6 Jan 08
I have a easy time making friends for the most part but its hard to find friends that are considered GOOD friends. Like I have many friends but not all of them would i trust with my life.
1 person likes this
• South Korea
6 Jan 08
yes,you are right,thanks
1 person likes this
• Kuwait
5 Jan 08
You can find any one in the street to know thier name and where they live but the real true firend that you can be with for good is so hard to find.friend is a treasure that you can have for your life.
• South Korea
5 Jan 08
yess,friends are anywhere even here on mylot,, good real friends are once on a lifetime..
1 person likes this
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
5 Jan 08
yah, friends are easy to find..me, i'm a friendly person so i got lots of friends anywhere i go.. i agree with you that friends are easy to find but of course, Good friends really hard to find..but i have good friends that are really good friends of mine..whatever hardships i experience, they always there to comfort me..
1 person likes this
• South Korea
5 Jan 08
good for you,,,thank you..
1 person likes this
@youless (112223)
• Guangzhou, China
16 Jan 08
Friends are easy to find, but it's hard to maintain. It is especially difficult to find a true friend. Sometimes it needs a long time to have a real friendship.
• South Korea
17 Jan 08
yes your right,,,thanks
• India
5 Jan 08
its easy 2 get a friend but its hard 2 maintain that friendship for a long without trying we cant say which is true /not .it depends on both the friends to continue
1 person likes this
• South Korea
5 Jan 08
thank you
1 person likes this
@pumpkinjam (8575)
• United Kingdom
7 Jan 08
No, definitely not. For some people it might be easy to make friends but it depends on their opinion of what a friend is. To me, I think it can be easy for some people to have lots of "mates" and aqcuaintances but it is definitely difficult to make good friends. I have never had many friends but, out of all the people I would ever have called a friend, there are very few good friends. I would probably consider 3 people to be good friends to me. Right now, I don't seem to have friends but a few years ago I had lots. I still had the same number of good friends though.
• South Korea
7 Jan 08
thats what im talkin about, thank you.
1 person likes this
• India
16 Jan 08
You can't just randomly find good friends, a genuinely good friendship has to develop between 2 people over a period of time.
• South Korea
16 Jan 08
yes, i know but that kind of person sometimes will leave you when you need them..
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
9 Jan 08
It is quite easy to make friends with people if we are willing to approach any of them. Of course to find true and sincere friends is not that easy. Though there are lots of friends in my list here, only about a dozen or two do reciprocate responses and comments in discussions regularly.
• South Korea
9 Jan 08
yes its true,good luck.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
16 Jan 08
i will say No. it si really hard to find out true friend in life. it is also sometimes doubtful that all people find good freind in life . For my case, the persn whom I considered to be my Best friend, came out to be a cheat.
• South Korea
16 Jan 08
yes, i think friendship sometime ends up for nothing.
• China
9 Jan 08
no, Of course, I think. The friendship need a long time to deposit, test and validate. It is hard to find a good friend, factly, friends cannot be found. A good friend may occur when you need help. So there is a saying "one bosom friend is enough in life".
• South Korea
9 Jan 08
yes you are right,have a nice day.
• Greece
16 Jan 08
yes, i agree with you that making friends and especially good is hard! when i want to make someone friend of me at first i try to investigate some things from his-her life and his-her interests and then if he-she satisfies me with these things i make him-her friend!thats why my best friends in my life at this time are two or three!!
• South Korea
16 Jan 08
well,,its not bad at all.
• Pakistan
9 Jan 08
Hi It is not eassy to find a Good Friends. According to my Point of view if You are Naturally Good Then you can find and make Good Friends. It is totally up to you mean depend your character,your Attitude and a Good response of your words then you can make Good Friends.
• South Korea
9 Jan 08
yesyour right ,thanks
• Australia
16 Jan 08
I think good friends are hard to find because alot of friends turn out to be not so good friends in the end, i think that is where the saying comes from anyway. I have alot friends but only a few really good friends i have trusted with things you cant trust anyone with, people you can talk to when you need advice no matter what you have done and friends that can get you out of a jam just because they love you and want to help. These are the friends that dont want anything in return but you give it to them anyway. lol i am going to stop now i feel like a poet!
• South Korea
16 Jan 08
youre right i appreciate it..