Why do so few people find happiness in marriage?

India
January 23, 2008 5:31am CST
Not saying that they should divorce, I think that anyone in a relationship married or otherwise ought to fight for their relationship. But still, is this what marriage is about? It seems like so few people find happiness in marriage, why is that?
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4 responses
• Australia
23 Jan 08
I think that it is a reflection of todays society. People want the best of everything without having to work for it or wait for it. People want the glamour of a wedding and they want the perfect relationship but they don't realise how much work it is to actually be in a marriage or maintain the marriage.
@karmendra (1123)
• India
23 Jan 08
yes i am agree with you Kazashmaza, i think relation without feelings, trust, dedication, faith, and hope can't to survive long time.. what do you think..
@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
29 Jan 08
I think you are wrong about few people hacing happy and loving marriages. I think a lot of people do. The ones that are right for each other. A relationship should be a give and take relationship. Not always being the one to give and not getting back in equal ways, but receiving the same as we give out. That is what makes a happy relationship, in my opinion. We need to be compassionate to our spouces and we need to recieve compassion as well.
@karmendra (1123)
• India
23 Jan 08
in my opinion, marriage life is one of the different type of relationship. because in this relationship man and woman should have to promise to each other for life long relation. i don't know what do you think, but now a days people don't think about any relationship and most important thing is honesty, and trust is very necessary for any relationship, and now a days professionalism is every where. But some people are still believe in honesty and true feelings, i think thats why ..
@Galena (9110)
23 Jan 08
I think a lot of people think that marriage will smooth the problems in a relationship with problems. it doesn't. after the wedding, nothings really changed. the relationship still has the same problems. marriage won't make a bad relationship good, and lack of marriage won't make a good relationship bad.