how do i get this things off.????

@schummi (925)
India
January 27, 2008 12:32pm CST
there is this gal who has been bugging me like ...m sorry to used that word but friends i have been troubled a lot by.....she is everywhere ..she knows i dont love her...and has told her frankly but still ....she keeps on trying....what do i do???
4 responses
@subha12 (18453)
• India
19 Feb 08
i think its a real problem. i ahve seen few nagging people. best way tio get rid of them is taht just ignore them. do not reply to mails or aclls. after some time she will understand you won't bother to answer her and will stop.
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
27 Jan 08
Since you say you told her frankly but she still is obsessed with you, tell her, once and only once, that if she does not back off and leave you alone, you will file a harassment charge against her. If she does not take you seriously and continues on, then go file it. Show her you meant what you said. I went through this a few years back, he even went so far as to make harassing phone calls from his place of work, suffice it to say, the sheriff's dispatch office did not appreciate him doing that!! He no longer works there! And he left me alone!
@hdyggs (685)
• United States
27 Jan 08
It can be hard an I do not thing you mean her any wrong doing, but have you dated her at all? Which would give reason as too why she could be stuck on you.That or you are rich or in her eyes you are a stud muffin an she has to have you cause of what other girls have said about you.You could get a restraing order but they can back-fire sometime.Or you could go out with her an change the way you normally are out on a date an see if that changes the way she fells about U.
@vera5d (4006)
• United States
27 Jan 08
you have to ignore her and avoid her unfortunately... I wish there was a better answer...but if she can't take a hint, you might have to file a restraing order!