what happened to the world i used to live in...

United States
January 31, 2008 9:14pm CST
I sit here at 48 years old and wonder what world this is I'm in now. My children don't know what it is to get a toy that does NOT plug in; to go out at night with NO worries; to not spend a week's wage on just gas and rent; I really miss the way the world was not that very long ago. Am I the only one? I still bake bread and can food and just LOVE living, but it almost seems as though it's MY WORLD and "out there" is a place that's foreign to me. The simple little things seemed to have disappeared and in an unbelievably short amount of time. I remember when there were NO cellphones; NO remotes; NO seatbelt laws; NO pushbutton phones; NO computers; NO Playstation (OH NO!!); and on and on. Technology has escalated in the last 100 years more than ever since time began - has anyone else noticed this? They're building a hotel in space now! I remember when the first Star Trek came out and that was UNheard of that any of that would ever happen in OUR lifetimes and LOOK NOW. Does anyone know what I'm talking about? Does anyone else long for yesterdays from decades ago? Is anyone else concerned that we're moving at a pace that's SO fast - you wonder what will be going on NEXT year? I sit and cry at times just missing things and watching OLD shows on TV thinking how I would like to be back there again..how about you?
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• United States
2 Feb 08
You are like a lot of us, the largest group of people our age group, in history. We are all nostalgic, remembering the peaceful way things used to be. Going to town and leaving the house wide open with no fear of invasion. Us kids used to stay out until dark and never worry about the things kids do these days. To think that children now can't get by without a three hundred dollar video unit is just beyond my comprehension. Scripture says we are to seperate ourselves from 'the world'. That's how we are recognized - as being seperate. Sure, it has a lot to do with how we were raised. We were raised in a time when God meant something. Fortunately, we have carried those childhood beliefs with us throughout our days. I'll be 58 this year - thank God.....and am so glad I don't have to be a youngster in these times. I bake my own bread, can my harvest from my gardens, make my own butter, and still sew many of my own clothes, curtains and other things. I live the way I was taught, and how I remember things - from the Good old days.....but......still.....These ARE the good old days.....now.....because when we reach the 'golden years' (God willing) we will certainly have a lot to reminisce over....don't you think? Don't sit and cry. Just praise God we live with the wisdom and knowledge we do and that we were born when we were........
@lecanis (16647)
• Murfreesboro, Tennessee
1 Feb 08
I suppose I have too much of an obsession with finding the positives. I look at my life, or my parent's lives, and think things like: My son is getting better medical care even in a small hospital than I got in a major one. His educational opportunities are going to be much better than my own. He isn't going to have to deal with anywhere near the amount of prejudice and intolerance I did. He's going to be able to learn to use technology in ways that will enhance his life. True, it seems sometimes that kids miss a lot of the natural experience, but they don't have to. My son is a little too young to be a good example, but my friend's children still go camping (no portable video games allowed), swim, canoe, hike, play in the snow, etc. My best friend's son taught me how to rollerblade a few years back. Kids can still do things that don't plug in... they just have to have the right examples to follow. As for the safety issues, I guess that depends on your personal experience. I know people who are much older than me that were victims of violence just as I was, so it's hard for me to believe that there was ever a time when human beings were really safe.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
1 Feb 08
yes it makes you wonder how we survived, I feel sorry for kids these days, they don't seem to know how to use their imagination to play anymore, they have to have something to play with, i remember when i was a little girl i hade a my own little pretend shop with empty boxes collected from my mums cupboards and a make believe school room with all my dolls...oh yes those were the days...