What is the first thing that attracts you to a new love?

United States
February 11, 2008 10:31pm CST
For me it depends on the guy.With one it is his sense of humor or wit, another his voice.When I was younger, it was redheaded guys were the main guys I liked. How about you?
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@maximax8 (27055)
12 Feb 08
I am attracted to a man that has intelligence and that is to take part in interesting conversations. He must be a caring person with a good sense of humor. His voice must sound nice to listen to. I really like a man with brown or red hair. I love curly hair in particular. I like blue or green eyes most of all. I am 5ft 7ins so I like quite a tall man. I like a clean shaved face.
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• United States
12 Feb 08
We are attracted to same type of guy.That's good and bad. Good we both have great taste. Bad because we Shouldn't go out together.
@maximax8 (27055)
12 Feb 08
This comment made me laugh. Yes, we are attracted to the same type of guy. We shouldn't go out together. I can imagine you with an intelligent gorgeous looking red haired man.
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• United States
20 Feb 08
Yummy! Thank you.
@smrrdn (62)
• United States
12 Feb 08
The most important thing for me in a guy is Cincerity. (I am not so sure I spelled that right.) If I guy isn't Cincere then nothing else matters. But, another thing, kind of shallow, is teeth. I love a man with a beautiful smile. They don't have to be perfectly straight, but they have to be clean, mostly white, and all there. I great smile will make me putty in your hands.
• United States
12 Feb 08
Being Sincere is key.It sounds like a smile is very important. With me, it is the voice.
@jillhill (37358)
• United States
12 Feb 08
For me...it's several things...odd ones at that...I am attracted to arms....how their arms look because I like it when they roll their long sleeves up just a little so I can see their wrists! LOL....I also like someone who listens when I talk and has a sense of humor....a good one!
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• United States
12 Feb 08
When I was younger, I liked a man's hands.I guess I still do.I know what you mean about listening.A great guy would listen to you like you were the Only person in the room.
@CanadaGal (4307)
• Canada
12 Feb 08
Physically, I am most attracted to tall (5'10" and up, as I'm 5'10") white men with brown hair. A goatee makes him even more attractive (I also really like that bald look with a goatee). His voice must be soothing to me as well. Lower pitched voices make me melt. Then there's what REALLY matters... .mental stimulation. If conversation cannot be kept on the ball, and witty, and sarcastic, and informative, and intelligent, and even sometimes so randomly silly and out there, then I will lose my interest very quickly. That has been my biggest issue when being in the dating scene within the last year. I have a hard time finding men I am both physically AND mentally attracted to. When I was younger, I was most attracted to guys who's hair was a bit longer (enough to grab onto), as tall or taller than me, with a larger build (b/c I'm that way too), and oh my! If I saw him in a pair of boxer shorts... I was in LUST! Pfft... who am I kidding? I STILL like that! haha!
• United States
12 Feb 08
I like long hair on a man. And if it is red, that is a super plus.I know what you mean about being mentally attracted to someone.It would be great to just be on the same wavelength.
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@youless (78213)
• Guangzhou, China
20 Feb 08
I think the first impression is his look. If his appearance is what I like, then he will be attractive to me. You know, if he is ugly, then perhaps I will lose the interest and may need longer time to get to know him much more.
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@tamz21 (67)
12 Feb 08
The very first thing i look at on a guy, what is going to sound strange but its the Teeth!! if a man has really bad teeth i know i would not be able to kiss that person at all.lol i dont know what it is but bad teeth put me off. but the next thing would be their eyes and making sure they have a great sense of humor!!
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@piatos03 (397)
• Philippines
12 Feb 08
The first thing that I usually look at is the eyes. It is how I get attracted to a guy physically. I have seen one of my friends so drunk before, and when they looked at me, it looked like they didn't have their soul anymore. That's how I found out that you can really see a lot through a person's eyes. All the emotions passing through them. That's the first thing I look at because you can learn a lot from just that. But when it comes to personality, I also like humor and wit. I want someone who can keep up with me. Someone who will argue when they know that they are right and I am wrong. Quick wit and sarcastic humor almost always does it for me.