First love or one love? / myLot

February 12, 2008 12:38pm CST

I met my first love when i was 11, we started to go out when i was 13 obviously it wasnt a proper relationship as we were only young. But all the same we were together. We were together for 3 years, but split up when we started college as we had new lives and needed space. We had always acted like we would be together foreva so it was weird being apart. After we broke up we carried on seeing each other, and being intimate. Even when he got a new girlfriend that carried on for a while but i figured i was being used and put a stop to it. We had a special connection, and i still feel it. He broke up with his girlfriend and i thought we would get back together but didnt then i met my current boyfriend. My first love was ok at first then he started pressuring me to get back with him. The thing is im in love with my new boyfriend who iv bin with for a year now but i love my first love as well. Does it mean that me and my first love are meant to be together and will eventually or does it mean i can love and find happiness with someone else other than him?

2 responses

as2006

@as2006 (5040)

• Israel

22 Feb 08

There is a love of childhood and love of teensge and love of adult. My first love was in at age 10 it was for fan and to be in... The secend love was when I was in the high school - it was " Real one ". But real, true and important love was when I met my wife that I'm marid to her until tody. She is my best frind my love forever.

@rockerchick (289)

• Canada

12 Feb 08

By the sounds of it, your first love isn't exactly sure about what he wants. He seems to only want you when he's not with a girlfriend. I think you should stick with your current love. You will always love your first love and he will always be special to you but that doesn't always mean you are meant to be. If you are meant to be, it will happen. Don't push it! I still love my first love but in a different way!