past relationship...

India
February 13, 2008 7:32am CST
hey ppl... wat if ur first boy frend wants to get bak wid u after 2 years??? wat would u do??? what You r nt dating ne1 pesently.... would you like to get bak wid hm?? Js wantd to knw ur opinions... may b ur opinions can help ma best fren....!
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jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
i think that there's nothing wrong with second chances..but the thing is, if they broke up with some grave reason..then that would be something to consider.. though they say that love is sweeter the second time around, i say its safer.. because both of them should be refreshed this time.. they should know what and how to do things this time.. it should be better this time..^_^ mwah!
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shannon2007
@shannon2007 (169)
• India
14 Feb 08
hey thx.... bt the thng is dat d guy still z d same n hasn changd... (d same not caring attitude )so what would b ur opinion nw??
jolope
@jolope (987)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
hmm.. i think it all depends on how your friend feel about this guy.. but based on the facts you laid..if he's the same old him..then, most likely, the relationship will end up like how it ended last time.. but hey.. love moves in mysterious ways..^_^ maybe his attitude would lead to a stronger relationship..that is if we'll try to look at it in a positive way..^_^ mwah!
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wormzydaizy
@wormzydaizy (202)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
There's really nothing wrong with it EXCEPT if you go separate ways for reasons that are almost unbearable and those that are almost hard to forgive and forget. On the otherhand if you guys went smoothly during your time together and you shared good memories, then whats stopping you girl? =) dont fonder on the memories - go make one!
shannon2007
@shannon2007 (169)
• India
14 Feb 08
the thing z dat he never cared too mch 4 d gurl.. Though he wants to get back, he hasn changd mch. so now wats ur opinion over dat?? should she get bak wid hm????
wormzydaizy
@wormzydaizy (202)
• Philippines
14 Feb 08
umm thats another story my dear. Of course, since youre mylotter, I want to tell you to stay just ignore him and let him feel sorry for treating you so badly. But then again your true feelings for him will still be the best guide in answering your question. A lot of people can tell you to not accept him but then if you love him that much, you have to let go of yourself, after all true love is not something you give only to expect something in return. Love is love even if things and people are not fair. Just hope and pray that he'll change his ways. =) So girl just think it over, instead of going over the question of whether to get back with him or not, try pondering on this question: whether you truly love him or not. wink*wink* good luck!
rsa101
@rsa101 (37952)
• Philippines
13 Feb 08
Well it depends on the person you separated with. There's not much detail what is the real cause of the separation is. If the separation is forgivable there is not much to question and accept if things are okay with them.
shannon2007
@shannon2007 (169)
• India
14 Feb 08
They broke up cz d guy neva cared 4 her, it ws always the gurl who took the initiative, he always took her 4 granted. For hm it ws js a relationship bt 4 the gurl it ws a SERIOUS relationship.. He wants to get back bt the catch z dat he still hasn changd mch... So can u telll me nw wat should b done???