True love? have you experienced it?

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@xboxboy (5576)
February 14, 2008 5:22pm CST
i want to know what to look for. what is THEE defining love moment?
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@kamran12 (5526)
• Pakistan
15 Feb 08
Hello xboxboy, There are things that can’t be adequately and ‘truly’ told or described by others. One has to live through them to realize them... Love is one such thing. But, I’ll tell you how I feel. And, of course, it’s subjective. When your partner is nothing like what you thought would make a perfect beauty but now the perfect beauty is what she is and all others fade away in front of her; when a generally perceived perfect figure comes naked in front of you and still can’t excite you, but mere voice of your partner, her slight gesture of hand or face, her scent can over excite you; when you are emotionally incapable to share her bed with anyone else; when physical distances become irrelevant such that you can feel your partner right beside you even if she is thousands of miles away; when you are not used to crying but tears starts coming seeing your partner in pain; when you feel like having all the time to have the company of your partner; when your arms crave for her all the time; when you don’t feel any pain in hardship just so she could smile; when you don’t realize when your disliking changed to likings and vice versa just because they are her likings and disliking; when the two think, feel and do the same without uttering a word; when your dreams are filled with her; when you start doing, wearing and saying things because of her without even realizing that you disliked or even hated them before; when her happiness is your happiness and her worries are truly your worries; when she encompasses all realms of your life…It’s about time to think that you have started loving someone. I probably don’t know myself what “true love” is, probably when she is you and you are her…two facets of same reality…the same thing in two bodies. But, I have experienced all of what I have described in previous paragraph. And, when I see it today, it’s much more advanced than what it was on day one, and so, I hope to keep approaching ‘true love’!
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• United States
15 Feb 08
Kamran, you speak the truth. I know of what you speak. I live it too.
• Philippines
15 Feb 08
true love will come in an unexpected event... for me, it's true that we don't need to search for it... it will really comes to you in the right or wrong times...LOL in my personal experience, i have found my true love 2 years ago... you'll be feeling differently like something "SPARKS" or "MAGIC" that you'll see unconsciously... before, i really don't noticed it... we were just friends then but my friendship for him has malice...LOL.. he still have girlfriend that time... but their relationship ended after 7 years.... after a month of their breakup, he started asking me on a date... he confessed to me that he had a crush on me even though he had a girlfriend... (but i'm not the cause of their breakup)... he's not a two timer man... though he had a crush on me, he didn't make a move.... when we started dating, that's the time i've realized that it was a true love...that there was a "MAGIC" or a "SPARK"... and the bonus on it is that, he's the girl on our relationship...what i mean for that is, he's sweetier than me...i'm not the sweet type girl that's why he do it for me...LOL he's the one who make my packed lunch for work... (i should do that for him right?) he's the one who prepares / cook our food... when we have quarrels, like if it's my fault, he will still do the first move to fix things... that's why i'm so lucky to have him.... and he's the man that i will truly marry... lye
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@Rozie37 (15499)
• Turkmenistan
15 Feb 08
I believe that the perfect indication for true love is when you can not get that person off your mind and you find a way to squeeze them into every conversation no matter what it's about. When you are away from them, you are longing to be with them. When you are doing something fun and excited, you can not help but wish that they were there enjoying it with you. They are the first one that you think of when you wake up in the morning and the last thing on your mind when you fall asleep.
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@drannhh (15219)
• United States
15 Feb 08
I think there is no ONE defining love moment, and that seeking "one" is a recipe for disaster. Not interested in some flash-in-the-pan love, I held out for the kind that grows over time and nourishes everything it touches. Yes, I have experienced it and do so every day and plan on continuing. Happy Valentine's Day and just remember those who cannot look in the mirror and see themselves for what they are and love themselves for what they are will never understand how to love others or experience the true love of others. Adorable kitty, btw, will you make me a valentine's day present of leaving that little cutie up for a while?
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• United States
14 Feb 08
Believe me you will know when it hits you. I met John and instantly i knew he was someone different from the others i was with. We were in our relationship close to a year then all of a sudden i stopped hearing from him. He wouldn't call or return my phone calls to him. One day while i was at work he finally called and i asked him what was up and he made it seem as if he didn't want to be in the relationship anymore. My heart sank and i told my co-worker that i couldn't stay there because mentally i was torn up. I went home, looked at the little things he had at my place and just started crying. That is when i knew that i loved the man because the thought of losing him scared the mess out of me. Come to find out, he was scared because he realized he had fallen for me and didn't think he would find love again. We are 5 years strong. Most of the times, it takes something like that to show you how much you really feel about a person. it hits you hard and fast. Hope you find it!
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@lenore77 (15)
• Brazil
14 Feb 08
Hi! yes, I am in love. I've been in love for 2 years already. It doesn't sound MUCH time, but for me (used to be sucker lover in potential) it, definately, is. true love doesn't mean a perfect couple. doesnt mean a perfect beauty or a perfect relationship. true love is, in fact, to love and be loved for what we are. true love is about to respect your lover, to take care of her or him, to be there by her/his side even when she/he is wrong and doesn't deserve it. it's not easy to explain, I talk and talk and can't reach the point I want to. well, I can reduce saying that only who truely LOVES someone knows how it feels.
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@balasri (26537)
• India
15 Feb 08
Yes I am experiencing it every moment of my life.And anybody with a good partner and lovely kids can experience it definitely.
• India
15 Feb 08
i think when ur love is with u and ur family is gonna accept ur love might be that is love moment
@agfarm (930)
• United States
15 Feb 08
It's personal ( probably ) for everyone. You start out with a realization , that the world we live in.....as.a normal state....is not the world we were meant to live in. But ( well for me anyway....) It was a pretty hard thought to know that...The world that we consider Normal...in reality is a Collective Human Dysfunction....Meaning...everything we have been Conditioned with since Birth...is wrong. And you go through ( well I do anyway ) various stages of this process. For Me actually.....I can See clearly ( now ) but it is difficult when your new insight.....Scares people around you. If you try to Show them ( especially if they are strongwilled ) and they don't want change. You litterally feel ( for me any way ) like a lighthouse , on a Dark & stormy Sea. For people locked into their absolutes , not willing to see another possibility or even be Objective about it....it can be difficult , But you have no right to Demand Change from them. They have to want Change Bad enough , that they'll Seek it on their own. I can See things that could ( Possibly ) amaze you. But I have no right to force this upon you. You have to want Change so Bad , that you'll go the Distance to get there. It can be a very Humbling process for some people ( it was for Me ) My Defining moment was when I realized....how my ego needs to be kept in Check , in order to Experience true love. I Am
@agfarm (930)
• United States
15 Feb 08
* Brain Fart * Perhaps Dark & stormy is a Bit Dramatic. More Like....Just a Lighthouse ( can't help the Drama. Sagattarius thing ) ( lol )
• Philippines
18 Feb 08
Oh yes I have.And I'm happy to have experienced it.
@marque (19)
• Philippines
17 Feb 08
will his the only i can think of when i wake up in the morning....
• Australia
23 Feb 08
You will know it one day. Explaining what 'True Love' is won't help you, because it is different for everyone. What I can say is, been with my man 7 years now, and I love him more than ever.
• Vietnam
18 Feb 08
you feel missing everytime in day :D
29 Jun 08
The moment when you realize that you are totally and completely willing to put up with all their b.s because what you love about them far outweighs their negative qualities.
@alamode (3071)
• United States
15 Feb 08
I've lived in true love for 44 years. The defining moment for me was when I realized that I could possibly have to live my life without him. That galvanized me to do what needed doing... to go against my parents. We all recovered from the trauma of the drama in a short amount of time, when my parents realized that I knew what I was doing.
@goodsign (2287)
• Malaysia
15 Feb 08
OK xboxboy, actually, there are too many love moment and it classification. I don't know for which one that you deserve the most. There are; one love, true love, real love and fix love. But, what ever love that it will be for you, love is just like your favorite food. It changes from time to time and it will totally depend on your 'satisfaction'. The matter is, how to keep longing that 'satisfaction'?. Main problem, actually. So, you have to do the 'testing' and 'commissioning'...ha! ha! ha! Bye for now, xboxboy!!!
@dangnabit67 (2021)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Crap I been married 20 years I forgot-LOL We hit it off the first time we met. A year latter he asked me to marry him-and here we are in the married, bill, rut thing, and two teens to boot-LOL
14 Feb 08
when your partner accepts a gang bang with out seeing the perticipants.
@1lvbiz (6)
• United States
15 Feb 08
YOU WILL JUST KNOW...AND MORE THAN LIKELY ..YOU WON"T SEE IT COMING...It JUST HAPPENS...And WELL..YOU JUST KNOW!! TRUST IN THE FACT THAT YOU ARE TOTALLY DESERVING OF A GUY that will love you with heart...Because ..if you don't then you will spend the rest of your life in search of the impossible. If you don't believe you are lovable...who can ? Trust in that...and yopurself...and when the time is right /...fate will be sure to abide... good luck Jo Jo P.S.. VERY IMPORTANT REMINDER: UNTIL THEN...HAVE A BLAST DATING!!!...LIVE IT UP... LOL