What If?

That is a very intresting question !!! I don't suppose there is really nothing you can do. Maybe explain to them that step siblings should not have relationships with one another, other than platonic. Ask them what will happen if things don't work out. How will that affect the family? Ask them how will their children will be affected.

Hum thats a good one. I'm not really sure what I do. I guess I would tell them they are family now and it doesn't look good to marry your step sibbling. And give them my wishes if they choose to do so anyways.

I guess I would just have to accept it since they are not really related. I would ask them to give it more time though and alot of thought before making a decision.

Hi winterose, I think if this happened people would be against it right away because they would think step brother and sister but if the shoe was on the other foot and the 18 years olds were married first and his father and her mother fell in love and married, I think it would be easier for people to accept.

To me it would depend on how long he and I have been together and at what age our kids met. If they were both young children at the time then I would feel uncomfortable but either way I guess there would really be nothing I could do since they were 18 now.

It would not matter, since it is not immoral. They are not blood related! Some people would balk about them being stepsister and stepbrother, but it does happen! I do not see it as a problem.

I think something similar to that happened in the movie "A Summer Place." Didn't the sone of one, marry the daughter of the other, and the one and the other got married themselves? Can't remember, haven't seen the movie in a while. It's not like they are "related" or anything, and they are of legal age to do whatever they want. It would be different if they were actually brother and sister, but they're not.

If you raised your daughter and your new husband raised his son and your daughter is like you and his son is like him it really is no surprise they fell in love. But if they are adults there is little you can do. At least you know the family they want to marry into.