stephcjh responded to a discussion called fall in love in love.
9 hours ago
That is great to hear. I am happy for both of you. My husband is 15 years older than me and we have been together for 16 years now and married for 13 of them. You should get ready to commit yourself to only each other and be ready to find a place to live if you haven't already. You may both need jobs also. You will also need to know if you both will be able to live in peace with each other too.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called People should pay the mortgage of the house which is broken in earthquake in debating.
9 hours ago
That is awful. I think they should be free and clear of the mortgage debt if the government or insurance company is not going to help them rebuild. they no longer have the house to pay for. If the insurance company makes a settlement with them, then, yes they should take part of that money and pay that home off and use the rest for a new home.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called Do you give up your bed? in life.
9 hours ago
I never give my bed up for anyone. I do not like for someone else to sleep in my bed at all. I keep my bed and my covers very clean and I just do not want someone else to sleep in my bed and use my covers and my pillows. I am not stingy but that is my bed, LOL. I do let them sleep in the spare bedroon though. I do have an air mattress for them to sleep on in there. there is no room in there rig...

stephcjh responded to a discussion called 3 1/2 more school days left here for the year! in life.
9 hours ago
That is good to hear. My daughter still has a couple of weeks of school left because they have to make up for alot of snow days that they had off during the winter time. She may not get out until the first week of June because of it.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called If I don't ask you for your referral link DON'T SEND IT!!!! in mylot.com.
9 hours ago
I won't rate you negative Mooch. I have no reason to. I don't think the length of your post was too long at all. I hate to be spammed also with referral links. I got spammed today with them from someone here at Mylot just out of the blue. No one really wants to be my referral and I do not force it on them and I don't want them to force me either or spam me like that. I feel guilty when I do not...

stephcjh responded to a discussion called Sports cars and older men! Noooo in relationships.
9 hours ago
It sounds to me like he is flirting also and he is trying to do so by acting like he is younger and also by driving those younger guy sports car. I think he need to act his own age and find someone his won age without forcing himself on younger women like that. If it is meant for him to have a younger woman, the car will not be what gets it for him.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called What would you like to shop for? in life.
9 hours ago
I would love to go out and buy me a gazebo to have put up in my back yard. They are very expensive though and I just do not have the money to buy one yet. I would also love to go out and buy me a whole new wardrobe. I am clothes poor right now because I have grown out of them over the years. I would actually like to lose weight and wear my old new ones.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called Have you/Do you wax? in have discussion on day to day issues.
9 hours ago
I have never waxed either. that is very painful and I am too embarrassed to have that done to me. I have to shave quite often. I have alot of hair that grows thick everywhere, It is black and that is why you just cannot miss it. I have to shave once or twice per week at least in the summer time.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called Do you pluck or wax your eyebrows in have discussion on day to day issues.
9 hours ago
I really do not do either one yet. I have plucked a few hairs here and there from my eyebrow area but not very often. I have never had my eyebrows waxed either. My sister used to pluck her eyebrows but now she goes and gets them waxed.

stephcjh responded to a discussion called Women do you like hairy men? in woman.
9 hours ago
I have to say that I really do not attract myself to hairy men. A little bit of hair on a guys chest is okay with me but hair on their back just turns me off for some reason. I think I could deal with a nice looking bald man though. I have seen quite a few handsome bald men.