ohhhhh Jerry Springer

@aminion (130)
Canada
February 23, 2008 3:50pm CST
My life has turned into a Jerry Springer show....I have been living with this guy for 3 months, everything is going very well. When I get a phone call one day from his mother. She decides to tell me her latest gossip. It seems that my boyfriend had a daughter and his brother had two boys with the same girl. Oh yes my boyfriend dated his brothers ex and they both ended up with children from the same woman. But this isn't the worst part not only is this little girl's cousins her brothers. But the woman decides to inform my boyfriends brother after 2 years that the little girl is his not actually my boyfriends. Then my boyfriends mother tells me not to tell my boyfriend that it would cause a huge family fight. So what do I do?????? Do I keep a huge secret like this to myself and risk the trust I am building with this man. Or do I tell him and start a whole family war. Would this not screw the child up even more, to now find out her uncle is actually her dad. That her dad is her uncle. Please give me some advice, a simular story.
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@barehugs (8986)
• Canada
23 Feb 08
This Post reminds me of the old song," I'm my own Grandpa!" Its a bit tangled and would turn many people off, but there's been no incest. Its just Family Love, and if this is your cup of Tea then so be it! I can't understand why the little girl would be screwed up if her Uncle was her Daddy. Sure it would screw some people up, but some people are easily Screwed. (like your bf's brothers ex!)
@RebeccaLynn (2256)
• United States
23 Feb 08
That man would either get a paternity test or I would be out the door. Too much drama for me! Besides, doesn't he have the right to know one way or the other?