Are you afraid that your new discussion has no response?

@youless (112134)
Guangzhou, China
February 29, 2008 1:51am CST
To be frank, I am worried about it. I don't mind having a few responses, but it will be so disappointing to see there is no reply at all. I still have some discussions which has no responses at all. But at that time I was a new Mylotter. Since I have been active here, I no longer to have this problem. But I am afraid of it as sometimes it's likely to happen again. I posted a new discussion for some time but no responses yet. Fortunately later there are a few Mylotter reply to it and I am glad to it.
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@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Thanks for respoding back to everyone who posts on here, also, youless. ;o) I posted back, and you replied. But (like the opposite of your discussion title), you have pages and pages of replies, which made it too hard for me to find my posting to respond back to you. I couldn't find it! So, I will start again. You can tell you are popular on here! :o)
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Mar 08
I really appreciate to your response. And you have good discussions, too. You will be popular in Mylot after some time. I was the same in the past:)
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@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Thank you, my new friend! The encouragement helps. :o)
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@manya_pearl (1901)
• Singapore
19 Mar 08
Heheh... sometimes i do afraid. But if no response, i have no choice. Just let it be... ahahah Anyway, if mylot-ers gave response even only one reply, its really ok, at least its still attractive to be answered. If no response, no problem also. :)
@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Mar 08
I can see your have very popular discussions:)
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@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
5 Mar 08
I too faced this problem for few of my discussions. Then a mylot friend of mine put a discussion that he is ready to respond to no response discussions. When I sent the numbers, he responded and I resolved them and removed from unresolved list. You too can send those no response discussions of yours, and I will respond. Go to my page, send message with your discussion url that appears at the top.
@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
5 Mar 08
You are very nice, thanks a lot:)
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@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
6 Mar 08
Well Youless, it looks like this discussion has nothing to fear from your topic :D (at 72 responses as of typing this) Thanks to other discussions I've started that had no responses, yes there are times I fear there maybe no responses to the discussion. I'll admit a few discussions I've had... there are some obvious reasons for little or no responses. However, any discussion I start may have no responses depending on the topic. Even a news item on a young daughter saving her father got zero responses. If that got no response, anything I start can have the same result.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Mar 08
Well, frankly I am quite surprised that my this topic has received so many responses:)
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@Loen210 (1540)
• United States
5 Mar 08
I seem to have that happen much of the time, at least barely any replies. :o( But it makes me happy when people DO reply. :o)
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
6 Mar 08
When you have been in Mylot for some time, I am sure you will have more responses as well as friends.
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@chrislotz (8137)
• Canada
16 Mar 08
It doesn't happen too often anymore to me, but when I first started in mylot it happened a few times. I want to go back and see which ones have no responses but it is hard to find them because I would have to go back way too many pages, and that just takes up too much of my time. I worry about it sometimes, when I am posting a new dicussion, so I try to make it a quality discussion because I want people to respond to me. I like to chat back and forth about a subject, it just makes things in mylot more interesting that way. Anyways, keep the good posting coming, like this one, and there won't be a problem for you, of no responses to your discussions.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
17 Mar 08
I found that when you have been active here for some time, then you won't be afraid of having no-response discussions.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
29 Feb 08
I have very old discussions too with no responses...it only worries me because I see it there...and I don't know how to get them to go away...lol This was way back when I first joined myLot. I don't post too many discussions and all my recent ones have got responses.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
Perhaps you can post the link here and some nice people may like to reply to it.
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
29 Feb 08
I am sometimes. but it does not matter so much. i have still got few discussion that have got no responses. But few responses are ok tahn no response at all. you feel humiliated here.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
You are quite right.
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@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
10 Apr 08
Its same with me, I felt sad and glad to know after several days you know people will bump on it and drop responses!
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
11 Apr 08
Thanks for your response.
@aseretdd (13730)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Oh, i am very afraid of that... one time i started a discussion... and waited for hours... but nobody responded... even when i logged off... good thing the following day... someone did... and i thanked that person for being the first to respond... Before i used to have discussions with zero responses... but i made a discussion about it... and some friends were kind enough to search through my discussions and finally the gave a response... so... i think i will return that favor to you... but i think i will do that tomorrow or on monday since i need to log off now...
@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
I have the same feeling like you. You are the first one who responded to my this new discussion:)
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@williamjisir (22819)
• China
29 Feb 08
Hello dear youless. I do not worry about this too much as I have got so many active and good friends like youless, but I had the same experience as you had when I became a member here at the very beginning and I was so disappointed for that. Now it is not a big problem to me and I am very happy that my devoted friends always respond to my discussions. By the way, I do not post as many discussions as I can unless I think that it could be of some interest to mylotters. Most of the time, I love to post new discussions that are related to me. Youless, do not worry about your discussions un-responded. If you have any, please feel free to send me the link and I will do accordingly out of friendship. Happy mylotting.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
I know you are a very good Mylotter and many people like you. I can easily see you have got a lot of responses for your discussions:) Frankly, I always look forward to your new discussions.
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@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Im not afraid to have a discussions that doesnt get any response at all.. its the peoples or mylotters choice if they feel answering it
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
Thanks for your response.
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• China
1 Mar 08
I quite agree with you!
• India
29 Feb 08
Te Youless I have this problem like some of my discussions has only one response and one of my discussions does not have even one response and that discussion is posted by month a long back. I have more than 200 friends on mylot but nobody wants to response on this discussions and thus this remains unresolved till today.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
I am sorry to hear that. I know how you feel. I have about 4 discussions have no responses at all.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
Oh, I am quite surprised to hear that:) It is very kind of you. The links as follows. It doesn't matter if you are unable to respond to it. http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1027314.aspx http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1226205.aspx http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1052410.aspx http://www.mylot.com/w/discussions/1027458.aspx
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• India
29 Feb 08
ok youless give me link or details of your zero response discussion I will try to put response for each of them.
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@xialinye (1403)
• China
3 Apr 08
i have a discussion that no one want to response and i don't know why..is it too complex for the mylotter...i don't know ...maybe they won't want to share with me...:-(
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Apr 08
Keep the faith and maybe you will still get a reply for it.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
3 Apr 08
I don't really worry about it. I still have a handful of discussions that no one has responded to and while it's a bit disappointing it's no big deal. I just wish I'd get just ONE so I could resolve them already...lol! When it happens I try to figure out why no one responded and then I try to make sure not to make the same "mistake" again. Maybe the title wasn't catchy, maybe it was simply bad timing or maybe it really didn't interest anyone else. Annie
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
3 Apr 08
Let me check it
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@jeanniemay (1798)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
Honestly, I feel like I made a bad topic if I get no response. I have two topics that got no response at all. It has been there for two or three days, I guess. Well, that is just how life is at times, you win some, you lose some. Still, the lesson and the value is what counts.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Mar 08
That's not long time. Perhaps you will still get reply for it.
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@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
21 Mar 08
i have only had one discussion which i had no responses too.it was a post about australian idol,a t.v show,so really only australians would probably reply to it.i also was rather new at the time.i think over time when we add new friends etc it becomes easier for others to reply to our posts.cheers sue
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Mar 08
You are right. In fact I haven't watched American Idol yet. I hope you will find some fans to reply to your this discussion.
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@ayou82 (3450)
• Philippines
3 Apr 08
Not really well the discussion is always there so I just let it go and let someone find it out and see if they want to respond to that certain discussion.
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
4 Apr 08
I hope you will get some reply for those discussions.
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@nilouette (632)
• Philippines
21 Mar 08
I am not afraid. Its just that maybe there are not enough mylotters that are interested in my discussion, as least I've open my mind up...
@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Mar 08
Glad to hear that you are not afraid of it.
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@tjades (3591)
• Jamaica
21 Mar 08
I realised that that happened to a few of the discussions I posted and became a bit concerned that maybe I was getting the hang of posting interesting discussions. I am relatively new here and know it will take time but still I tend to want to see more answers filing in to my discussions. Who knows maybe todays staller will be tomorrows flyer. (lol)
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@youless (112134)
• Guangzhou, China
21 Mar 08
It's true that new members seem to need some time to get more responses. I suggest you to change your avatar so that others will remember you and then reply to your new discussions.
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