what will a girl who is shy when someone stared at her??
March 1, 2008 6:55am CST
i have seen many girls who is very shy and don't feel good when someone stares at her.what will she feel when this happens?? do that thing is right??why?? i think anybody has nature like that its just happens don't?? please reply
• United States
5 Mar 08
i think thats a little harsh its not wrong to stare-theres staring and then theres say 'a flattering gaze' or you could put it some way like that. i used to be very shy all through grade and high school and i think when someone looks at you and your a shy person your not used to getting attention and its a little awkward or embarrassing. in college i have started to come into how i look and realize that i can be comfortable with myself. i think people dont like it when someone stares or looks because they may think that person is only looking at their flaws and can be very insecure (i can relate) but all of this definitely depends on the person.
• United States
6 Mar 08
There are different kids of stares. Even though I am a happily married American woman, I find it flattering when I catch a man admiring me. It's not that I'm looking for something "on the side" (cause I'm not by any means), but for someone with somewhat low self esteem when it comes to her looks, it feels good to know that someone other than your signigicant other finds you attractive. But it's a fine line, because when a man stares at a woman too hard or too long it becomes very uncomfortable and she becomes "shy". So, my advice to you if you are struggling with this is if you find yourself around a bunch of "shy" girls, take notice to how hard or how long you stare at the young ladies... Hope my experiences and my feelings as a woman were of help to you! I wish you the best of luck!