When is the right time?

United States
March 8, 2008 9:34am CST
When would be the right time to allow your daughter to wear makeup if she wants? I have seen girls that are only 9 or 10 years old wear the stuff. That seems a bit odd too me. Even when I was 17 years old my father hated for me to wear makeup, but my mother did not mind. I never really had a strong relationship with my parents so we never really had any of the makeup talk or anything like that. When did you start your daughter wear makeup or when do you think you will?
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@kingcrapper (1536)
• United States
8 Mar 08
I teach elementary school and have a real problem with parents who allow their daughter to come to school in 4th/5th grade wearing makeup. To me, makeup is something for young women and a sign that they are of age. Anything that takes away or shortens the innocents of a child is disturbing to me. Leave the make up out of the picture until she get to high school and only then when she is mature enough to handle it.
• United States
8 Mar 08
that is pretty sad when adults let their children run around in makeup that young. I could understand if it was a bit of lip gloss or something, but thats it.
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• United States
8 Mar 08
You'd be surprised what parents let their kids do. I was part of a parent-teacher conference and the kid (fifth grade) started yelling at the parent telling her to shut up. The parent just sat there and took it. Not being able to stand it anymore I put the child into place and told them that was no way to to treat their mother and that I would not stand for such behavior. This is what happens when parents try to be friends and not actual parents to their children! Have you even seen such an event?
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• Philippines
9 Mar 08
I think, now a days, young girls are influenced by the things they see on T.V. Take a look at their toys, particularly the dolls (Barbie, Bratz etc) they are all wearing make-up. Young girls are made to believe that it is cool to wear one and the commercials had set the trend. I think young should not be putting on make up yet. They should wait until high school to wear one.
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• United States
9 Mar 08
You are right in saying all of this as well.
@ebberts (784)
• United States
9 Mar 08
Children grow up to early. I have seen young girls out in the stores and allways wonder, what were their parents thinking letting them leave the house like that. Parents should be parents and set rules for makeup and clothing. When they do start I think it should be lightly applied. a little lip gloss a little blush. or maybe a little mascarra. but lightly.
• United States
9 Mar 08
i will agree with you there
• Philippines
8 Mar 08
My daughter wears makeup only when they have school programs. She just uses more on lip gloss for everyday use. She's not very fond of makeup so i think she can wear it as soon as she feels like wearing it. I only wore it when I had been out of school..and never before that.Mostly just lipstick.
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@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
8 Mar 08
Well, my oldest daughter is 5, so I hope that i have some time to worry about this. She has already asked for some makeup. her one little friend had like a disney princess thing that had makeup in it. i wouldn't let her. I don't wear makeup much so I'm hoping that will not make her want to too soon. I would say probably not till she's 12 or 13. I always think of that full house episode where dj wants to wear makeup, so her and kimmy put on loads before school. then becky teaches her how to put makeup on without looking like she has makeup on. if my daughter wears it like that i think i'd be ok with it. still not till shes older though.
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• United States
8 Mar 08
I agree with you there. If the girl knows how to apply the makeup without looking like a...well you know what i'm talkin about...then she should be able to wear it. She needs to learn how to put it on and make it look like she has none on at all. I cant stand when I see girls *even young and older women* wearing makeup that you can tell they have it on. I also really dont like when they wear BRIGHT colored eye shadows. It doesnt look natural like the way it should.
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• Canada
8 Mar 08
My daughter is nowhere near that stage, but I have thought about it a bit. For me I feel with both my kids that at 12 they get freedom of style choice. Before that my rule is law (which means that while I'll let them pick what they like they will be limited to things within a certain range of clothes/styles). At 12 if they want something I don't approve of they can earn their own money to buy what they want. I think make-up goes in this category as do earrings (boy or girl). Before that I might allow make-up for special occasions and teach her to apply make-up in a tasteful way so that she isn't one of those kids who coats herself in so much that she looks like a clown... (I remember a few of these when I was in school) I must say that I hope that she is like me and does not feel the need to wear make-up on a regular basis.
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• Kottayam, India
9 Mar 08
our own color and shape made by God is good, why so much money for stuff not good for the skin,think before you leap.Some herbals can be used that too after testing properly.
@Feona1962 (7526)
• United States
9 Mar 08
I would explain how beautiful your daughter is..and tell her that she doesn't need makeup because she is already beautiful..Her own beauty makes her special but wearing makeup makes her look like everyone else...It may be peer pressure..My daughter is 25 and she has never worn makeup..She is beautiful without it...I know society puts so much pressure on the little ones...Let them be kids...
• United States
9 Mar 08
well personally i think kids should be able to wear makeup when there in jr high/middle school. This is when girls start getting intrested in boys. And yeah boys should like girls who dont need makeup to be pretty. but makeup usally gets girls to feel comfortable by them thinking that they pretty even through they do look pretty without it.
• United States
9 Mar 08
i think a girl should feel pretty no matter what. She shouldnt have to feel like makeup is her only solution to a problem that is not real.
• United States
9 Mar 08
Girls should feel pretty no matter what, i agree but what if they dont and are always depressed and there not happy with themselves