breaking up a marrige.

No marriage can ever break if there is mutual trust among partners. Now comes your question whether the person who deliberately (for reasons best known to him) breaks up the marriage of another, deserves to be happy with that person. Whether he deserves or not, we cannot decide. Who knows it may end in blessing in disguise, for the persons whose marriage was broken! Divine dispensation is difficult to comprehend to human minds!

I have worked many different jobs, and you see a lot of flirting going on, and some jobs you spend more ours with your work mate then your spouse and if you don't have a strong bond or morals you open the door for cheating. I had this guy years ago come to my restaurant and say he was going to get #%@*# be fore heading home for $50. :O So I asked him do you still love and have relations with your wife he said yes all the time and its nice, He just needs a pick me up ones and a while. I just wanted to pop him up side the head! Got a good woman at home and still trying to eat the buffet out there. It is sad for some people who lose a good thing because of selfishness.

Everything happens with reason but whether they will be happy or not Im sure there will always be karma for them in the future..since whatever they have done to others it will always bounce back to them!

I don't think anyone is capable of "breaking up" a marriage except the two people in the marriage. There has to already be problems in the marriage before a third party could be involved in any way. That marriage would have broken up eventually with or without the help of a "home wrecker".

No! No! No! I believe everyone should be happy but not at the sake for someone else's happiness. You have women and men as a matter of fact, but more women being that there are fewer men to go around, who doesn't mind coming in between a couple and destroying it for their own selfish needs. But what goes around, comes back around, so it wouldn't last anyway.

I think what goes around, comes around for people like that.....how can they ever know if the guy or the lady did it with them, that they won't indeed do it again. I think that would be a big trust issue in a relationship

if you delibertly break up a marriage the guy or girl cheats with you and then leaves his /her family for you who is to say they won't do it again. weather they are happy or not is a different story i just think they will get what they have coming

My view is no. he/she can't be happy fore ever. i guess the situation. a person who breaks a relationship deliberately to be with one of them can never be happy. he/she will always be paid in the same coin.

Someone broke up my parents marriage a very long time ago, and I have to say, no. The person that intentionally breaks up a marriage does not deserve to be happy with the other person. It is a messy situation, and hurts many many people, and I think karma will come back and bite that person in the butt.

Well it is always hard to push a dying relationship .. sooner or later there you are again arguing with one another. Talk time wasted.. using the same explanation on things so why should you continue the marriage if you know from yourself that it is not going to work at all... but if you build trust that this relationship could be better if you make some changes i think you can do it all the way through the top and save it

There are reasons for one who enters between couple.We are all living for ourselves.He/she is not exception for that.Some kind of need works for this.when relation between couple weaken third person will take it as his advantage and make things positive towards him.But that relation will be happy if both are sailing same ship.

I am a bit biased on this subject, as I had a person who went out of her way to be my friend and she was always inviting herself out with me and my husband and trying to gain my childrens trust by taking wanting to take them out. I later found out she was having an affair with my husband, she thought she was going to have everything, but to cut a very long story short, she ended up with nothing as me and my husband worked through it and stayed together. But this person does not deserve to be happy with anyone, she is vile. Anyone who deliberately goes out of their way to break up anothers marriage in the way she tried to deserves no happiness whatsoever.

Well I for one think, they do not deserve happiness, how can they feel good about destroying a family. I am a firm beleiver in what comes around goes around. So I am sure in the end Karma will rule out.

When I was seventeen, my parents got divorced because of a third party. It changed my life completely, and the family was'nt the same anymore. The three of us siblings would have to take turns living with them. I still hate him till now, the person who made my mother left my dad and I hope he will never be really happy.

I think that anywoman who gets involved with a married man or visa virsa should be hanged that is if she knows he is married and stays with him anyway. In my single days i dated a man a very handsome marine and all he's friends were giving me hints but i never really listend till one day he decided to tell me and asked me if i wanted to stay in the relationship. I said no and walked out. he's excuse was they were having problems. well what i know is when there is a third party involved those problems are not going to be solved so get out. and anyone who delibratly breaks up a marriage should not be happy period.

In general no. I don't think that such a person deserves to be happy. However there are exceptions to every rule. If the marriage was already pretty much over it is not as bad. But someone who deliberately sets off to ruin a marriage is a jerk. There is a woman who got in between my parents, this went on for years and finally my parents marriage broke off after all of us kids were adults and had left home. But this was going on when we were kids, my brother and I were teen agers, but my sister was still a kid. I don't understand how someone could intentionally try and rip apart a family like that. Of course the person who gets involved with someone else and lets someone destroy their marriage and family is even more guilty. Instead of trying to make things work in their marriage they decided to take their problems outside of their marriage, which is really selfish on many levels.