When you get married?

@Alize997 (190)
United States
March 19, 2008 11:47am CST
When you get married are you gonna marry someone who is experienced or a virgin? Personally, it doesn't matter to me. As long as the person truly loves me.
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• Philippines
19 Mar 08
When you decide to get married and settle down, you have to learn to accept the person as he/she is. Whatever has happened in their past, what they are at present and will be in the future that you'll be spending together as husband and wife. Still a virgin or virgin no more, when it comes to marriage, it all boils down to just one important factor... love.
@chilenita (473)
• Canada
19 Mar 08
are there any virgens even left out there? i say dont expect wghat u dont have or cant get your self if im a party person and like to drink and sleeped around wityh some guys and been on and off relationship i cant expect to go to a cruch and fined my self a virgin cuase im not that.... unless i wonna calm down hehe well I wonna marry what ever that want to marry me kiding ! I think that is one of the last thing i woud thinking about if i wonna marry some one because ill be soooo in love that i wont even see any bad things... isnt that hiow your suppost to get married? why do u need to marry anyways no need to sing papaers to prove your love....
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@Galena (9110)
20 Mar 08
I'm going to marry the person I've been in a loving, emotionally and physically, relationship with for nearly a decade now.
• China
20 Mar 08
i agree with the third pointview
@nicholejade (2430)
• Canada
20 Mar 08
Right now I am on the way to planning my wedding. It has been sure a trying thing to say the least. We are up and then down and up and then down. Very overwhelming to say the least. With everything else around us sometimes we just want to elope and have one on each side of us to be our witnesses. But then again we want our family and our friends in our special day. We don't have a date planned as of yet either but we are working on that when the fiance comes home from break up at work for a couple weeks. To be totally honest I don't care who he has slepted with before me cause I know that he has. It doesn't bug me at all. I know that I am the only one that he is with now and that he wants to marry me.
• United States
20 Mar 08
You know with the world we live in today, it is hard to find anyone who is a virgin. You do run across those few who decided to wait till marriage which is wonderful. I can imagine just how amazing it would be to share that experience for the first time with the man you love. My husband and I were both experienced when we got married. Yeah at first it was kind of weird because we were constantly comparing each other to our past lovers, which is a very bad thing. But finally we just realized that yeah we had been with people prior but because it was new for us to be together it was still just as good as if it was our first time. Though I will admit my first time really sucked. I guess the only thing that matters is that you love each other and the only person you want to have relations with for the rest of your life is each other, that makes it amazing each time.
@Galena (9110)
20 Mar 08
see I did share it with the man I love. you don't have to wait until marriage for that to be the case.