What Do You Do When You Cannot Fall Asleep?

China
March 21, 2008 3:24pm CST
Hello, my dear friends. It is now 4:21 in the morning, but I am still unable to fall asleep. I think that it is because of my long afternoon nap from two till six. I went to bed at around one in the morning, but I could not fall asleep and then I got up to mylot for a little while. I am afraid that I will be exhausted tomorrow morning because of not having enough time to sleep during the night. I think that I will have to lie in bed again to try my luck. What do you usually do when you cannot fall asleep at night? Or have you ever had the same experience as I have had? Thanks for your response in advance. Love from williamjisir
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@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
21 Mar 08
you are better off than me. At least you had the nap. When I get on mylot at that time I have had no nap. So it'll be extra coffee for me.
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• China
21 Mar 08
Hello dear ersmommy. Yes, I have to agree that I had the nap. But a long nap will usually spoil my night sleep. Next time I must remember not to sleep that long during the afternoon nap. Thanks and good night, oh, no, good morning to you and have a good day, my dear friend.
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@Zelmarq (12585)
• Cebu City, Philippines
22 Mar 08
I dont usually take a nap in the afternoons and for the past three weeks I didt have a really good night sleep. I have been disturbed with many things lately and keep thinking of this person, well I just try to close my eyes and try to sleep and then without my knowing I was able to fight and and got my needed sleep. I have lost a few pounds because of this sleeples and Im not enjoying it, hoping it will come to an end and stop thinking. Have a nice day and take care!
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• China
5 Apr 08
Hello dear zelmarq. If we are active in thinking about someone or something, it will be really hard for us to fall asleep unless we do not think anything once we lie on bed. Yeah, sleepless nights make us unable to enjoy our sleep and make us lose weight in a negative way, which is not what we expect. I hope that you are now having a good night sleep without being bothered by active thinking. Take care.
@wy2008 (185)
• China
22 Mar 08
hello wiliamjisir , what you talk about is really a problem that disturbs almost everyone. i usually go to bed and get up in a regular time , that is around 11:30 at night and 7:30 inthe morning , most time i sleep well , but there is some exceptions , like recently , i always can't fall asleep in the afternoon or at night ,that makes me feel tired in the whole day , it is really an unhapy experience.
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• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear wy. I am sorry to know that you have the same experience as I had yesterday evening. I am sure that I will have a good sleep tonight as I did not take a nap today, even one minute. hehe.
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• China
5 Apr 08
It is really good news to hear that. So milk does help. I need to drink more starting from now. lol
@wy2008 (185)
• China
24 Mar 08
dear wiliamjisir , thank you for your response ! i went out for shopping with my friends yesterday . from 3:00pm to 9:00pm , i almost exhausted , and before sleep , i have a glass of milk , it makes me sleep well last night .
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• United States
22 Mar 08
I usualy get up around 8 am and I have no problem getting to sleep at nights because I usally go to bed by midnight.I did take a nap yesterday but that is only because my grandsons whom spent the night with me got up about 6 yesterday morning and by 10:00 we all laid down and went back to sleep
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• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear sweetaspie. It is so nice that you have a very good sleeping habit. I am glad for that. A good and quality sleep is the warrant to enjoy a good health. Keep up, my dear friend. Take care.
• Philippines
22 Mar 08
whenever i can't sleep i usually listen to music preferably jazz... sometimes i do pushups in my room and then take a nice hot shower then lay in bed.. that works for me :D
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• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear bvsecillano. I love this idea of doing pushups. I am sure that it helps to make me fall asleep and later a hot shower. I will try next time to test the effect on me. Thanks very much, my dear friend.
@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Mar 08
That certainly was some afternoon nap you had, 4 hours, no wonder you could not sleep at night!! Your body would not have needed much sleep after a nap that long. To be honest with you I would not nap in the day and then you will probably sleep at night.Take care!
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• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear gemini_rose. You are quite right. It is the four-hour afternoon nap that spoiled my night's sleep. So I will never take such a long afternoon nap any more. It is a lesson to me and I have already paid for this very lesson. Thank you so much for your analysis to my failure to have a good night's sleep. Take care.
@gemini_rose (16264)
22 Mar 08
you are very welcome!
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@harrish (126)
• India
22 Mar 08
count nos in reverse order .. u wi l fel assleep by 10 min ... this plan may look silly but try it its really works
• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear harrish. It is a good idea. I will try. Thank you very much. Have a good day.
@balasri (26537)
• India
26 Mar 08
I keep awake.ha ha ha
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• China
26 Mar 08
hehehehe. So do you keep awake till daybreak, dear balasri? I find that it is hard to suffer from being awake when it is time to fall asleep. It is painful to me if I can not fall asleep. So I hope that you will have a good sleep during the day if you keep awake at night. Take care.
@balasri (26537)
• India
26 Mar 08
Hello Sir.Thanks a lot for taking the joke in the right spirit.
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• China
27 Mar 08
You are welcome, balasri.
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 08
If I couldn't fall asleep, I will just switch on the light and start to surf the net (Mylot of course) or read the books. If there is any boring movie, I will watch it. After some time, I will start to get tired and fall asleep again. But most of the time, I don't have the problem of insomnia. But before the age of 25, I used to have this problem. It could be due to my body metabolisme activity is high. Besides, consumption of a little coffee will keep me awake for the whole night. But after the age of 25, I gained weight and could fall asleep easily. How funny!
@cheongyc (5072)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 08
It's true. If you take a long nap in the afternoon, it will more likely cause the insomnia symptom during bed time. I think the policy in your country allow for a nap at noon right? But our country doesn't allow it at all. But luckily I am working in an US company and our time is more flexible, and therefore, when I feel too sleepy during working day (due to insomnia of the previous night), I will make use of the lunch time to take a 1 hour nap at home LoL. It's so refreshing after a quick nap and I really hope that our country will adopt such policy.
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• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear cheongyc. Yeah, how funny it is when something changes with our age. I did not have to take a nap at all before I lost my first girlfriend. But since then I have got used to taking a nap almost every day unless when I am out travelling. A short nap will make me feel better, but on my days off, when I surf online, I would not need to take a nap unless I really feel too tired and sleepy. So this long nap of mine had already let me suffer too much. I will remember this lesson not to sleep that late when it is already two in the afternoon. Thanks.
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• China
25 Mar 08
Hello dear cheongyc. It is because I am working in the school that we have time enough to take a nap, but for those who work in a company, their situation might be different based on how busy their business is. So I think that it is the same with your case probably.
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@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
22 Mar 08
Wow I am so sorry :( I know how that is, I totally sympathize. Fortunately its been quite some time since I have been up that late because of not being able to sleep but I am on sleep meds with melatonin. I would take some melatonin to sleep, and if you did earlier, take more if you must. Its natural. My homeopathic dr said its safe if you have to take extra in cases like that. It USUALLY helps.
@mbs730 (2147)
• Canada
22 Mar 08
Yes, it really is a helpful aid! Best of luck with it.
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• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear mbs. Oh, yes, years ago, I bought and ate melatonin when it first came to the market in China. It is said to be a very helpful medicine. We still can find it on the racks of the supermarkets. Thanks for mentioning this melatonin. I would like to go and get one bottle of melatonin capsules when I go shopping. Thanks a lot, dear friend.
• China
22 Mar 08
Thanks so much, dear friend. I am sure to go and buy one these two days when I go out shopping. Have a nice day.
@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
23 Mar 08
Hi dear jisir, If I find I couldn’t fall asleep, I will get up from the bed straight away, and do some light physical exercises like swinging hands for about twenty 15 minutes. I usually do this in the sitting so as not to disturb my hubby. This could let me relaxed gradually. I then will make myself a cup of hot milk and do some reading at the same time. Normally I would feel tired and sleepy after reading several pages of book. I know this is best moment for me to lie in bed again. Very fast I will fall asleep and have a sound sleep. Hi dear, a too long siesta normally will affect your normal night sleep, so please don’t indulge too much in an afternoon nap. Happy posting and bye.
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@lkbooi (16070)
• Malaysia
26 Mar 08
Hi dear jisir, it is not bad to experience such a long siesta once in a while. I did enjoy the satisfaction of having long undisturbed nap in the afternoon. It is really indescribable how nice the feeling is. You are lucky to have such a caring partner to wake you up so that you won’t indulge too much in your afternoon nap though sometimes you might feel reluctant to wake up.
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• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear lkbooi. Thank you so much for your helpful response. I will quit too long a siestar later on. It is really bad to sleep too long after lunch. I do not usually sleep this way during my days on, but it could be so during my days off, especially during the summer vacation when I am relaxing at home with my family. If I were at home with my wife, I would not have to worry about this because she will ask me to get up if I sleep too long in the afternoon. Thank you so much for your response.
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• China
5 Apr 08
Yeah, I am really very happy to have such a good partner as to wake me up not to sleep too much for the sake of enjoying a good sleep at night. Thanks for your nice comment.
@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
7 Apr 08
I just keep thinking and thinking about the day's events or else I start counting from zero to infinite till I feel I am sleepy. Otherwise, I just go for my mobile phone and listen to some light music.
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@dpk262006 (58675)
• Delhi, India
8 Apr 08
It is my pleasure. I have accepted your request.
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• China
8 Apr 08
Thank you so much, my dear new friend.
• China
7 Apr 08
Hello dear dpt. Oh, really? If I keep thinking and thinking the day's event, it will not help me to fall asleep, but to make me even more wide awake. So I always try to avoid thinking anything that will make me active in the mind. But listening to music helps a lot to me, hehe. Thanks for dropping in my house of discussion, dear friend.
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
23 Mar 08
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hi william! wow. you napped from two til six?? four long hours for a nap?? that's already a good night sleep for some people! ^__^;; i also experience sleepless nights like that. some people say that someone might be thinking of you that is making you restless and couldn't sleep. i don't know if its true but if it is, then please stop thinking about me! i want to go to sleep! LOL usually when i can't sleep, i just stay in bed and wait till i get tired of thinking and finally go to sleep. i seldom open the tv or opent the computer again because it will only make me sleepless more. so i just stay in bed, daydream until i fall asleep and the daydream finally becomes a real dream.
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@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
24 Mar 08
well, we wouldn't know if it was really true because i stayed up late last night because i was myLotting. i also earned more than a dollar yesterday. it was really amazing. happy posting william!
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• China
25 Mar 08
Hello again, secret bare friend. I am glad that you also got more than one dollar. It is really exciting. I hope that you will do a better job later on. But make sure that you have a good sleep and rest. A good health is always more important than all the others. Take care.
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• China
23 Mar 08
Hello dear secret bear. Thanks so much for your nice comments. Yeah, I will be thinking of your tonight, hehehehe, to see how you will feel about one sleepless night. lol. It is not bad to have such an experience because I spent the all the evening and early morning hours mylotting and got $1.58 the next day when the earnings were updated. hehehe. When I lost my sleep, I got more earnings. Is it worth it? Kidding only. Thanks so much for your interesting response. Have a good sleep as always.
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21 Mar 08
why don't you read my discussions? what a pile of balony! if that does not send you to the land of ZZZzzzz then it will have you turning to the bottle!!! just kidding, hope you get to sleep soon. try thinking of tranquil things. that is what i do. i picture my self on the beaches of st lucia, azure seas lapping on my feet as the sun rests on my body lulling me into a calm sleep..........i need to go lie down now!
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• China
21 Mar 08
Hello dear axle. Thanks so much for your interesting response. Yeah, I will imagine that I am at a wonderful and tranquil place that would help me fall asleep soon. I will try to read your discussions after a good sleep. No worry. lol.
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22 Mar 08
Hello ,I also have this problem . I have just looked over the responses above and have learned a lot But I still want to tell you my own method to get rid of that problem. That is to listen to foreign language English is not my mother tongue yetI have to learn it so every night when I cannot fall asleep I'll listen to English.It does work well. By the way,according to the ancient Chinese medicine book the best period of time for sleep is the 11a.m. - 1p.m. and 11p.m.-1a.m. Wish it would can help you
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• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear Christianaxi. Yeah, I also love to listen to English to help fall asleep. It seems that English is a great help to those (suffering from insomnia) whose language is not English. hehe. Thanks.
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@rosema (1145)
• Philippines
3 Jul 08
h myfriend, when i cannot fall asleep at nignt, i just watch televison. but most of the time, when i go to bed i can sleep immediately because i am very tired. i dont have hard time to fall asleep. i love sleep. thanks and have a wonderful day.
• China
5 Jul 08
Hello dear rosema. I am sorry to say that the same thing happened to me again last night. I slept from one thirty to five in the afternoon and when I went to bed at almost twelve, I could not fall asleep until after two in the morning. Afternoon nap too late always spoils my night sleep. hehe. I will pay attention to this and not sleep too long. Take care and have a good day, my dear friend.
• United States
1 Jul 08
I have often done the same thing. Sometimes I'll nap for awhile in the late afternoon and then have trouble sleeping. I've often found that a glass of warm milk or bread slice helps me sleep. Putting a little bit of food on the stomach causes the blood to rush away from the brain and to the stomach for digestion. Then you won't feel like thinking cause you will be digesting!
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• China
2 Jul 08
Hello dear beauty queen. A good idea to have some food to make the blood rush away from the brain to help sleep better. Thank you, my dear friend.
@gabrielle47 (1219)
• Philippines
29 Mar 08
Hi Williamjisir. I watch TV or a movie the minute I lie down to bed and set the timer of the TV to sleep. That way I tend to sleep and dont forget to turn of the tv. So i guess it helps me in getting a sleep.
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• China
30 Mar 08
Hello dear ganrielle. This is a very good way to set the timer of the TV to help you fall asleep without having to get up to turn it off. I love this good idea. Thanks a lot, dear friend.
• Philippines
30 Mar 08
You are welcome dear friend and thanks for adding me. I tend to forget before to turn off the tv when I get sleepy and my grandma and mom scold us so now that with the added feature of new tv, i make use of it and conserve electricity as well.
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• China
26 Mar 08
yeah ,i sometimes have the same problem like yours,these two days i always sleep early at night but just a few minutes later i 'll wake up ,then it will take me a hours to fall a sleep,maybe listening to some music or read sth on your bed will help,but the most important thing you should do is that have a good habit of sleeping.
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• China
26 Mar 08
Hello dear salanghei. Thanks so much for your advice that I need to have a good habit of sleeping. I will try to make my sleeping habit a good one as not to affect my night sleep. Thank you a lot, dear new friend.
• China
26 Mar 08
Hello dear slalnghei. Thanks so much for your advice that a good sleeping habit should be developed. I will try my best for it, which is really very important to gaurantee a good and quality sleep. Thanks a lot, dear friend.
• United States
22 Mar 08
I try to make myself lay as still as possible, and do long deep breaths, most of the times that works for me, unless I am having a serious bout with insomnia in which case there is really nothing I can do, so I usually look around the internet.
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• China
22 Mar 08
Hello dear getunaddicted. That is a good idea to take a deep breath and lay still on bed. I forgot about using this method last night. I will always remember it next time. Thanks, dear friend.
• United States
23 Mar 08
You're welcome, and I hope it works for ya.
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@successlog (3172)
• China
2 Jul 08
hello,my dear friend,i also have this experience before.one day,because i have done lof of works.so i am so tired that moment. and later that time i have been asleep on that afternoon for several hours.as a result, i can't sleep till 1:00 at night when i feel very tired.i think it is a bad experience. good luck to you.
• China
2 Jul 08
Good morning, dear successlog. Yeah, it is really a bad experience not to be able to fall asleep at night. It always bothers me when I find it hard to. I hope that you sleep well and tight every night. Have a good day to begin with, my dear friend.