Did You Know Anyone With COOTIES as a Child?

@anniepa (27955)
United States
March 22, 2008 12:34pm CST
I was thinking last night about my childhood, just reminiscing about my grade school days on the playground and thinking about how cruel children can be and I remembered - UGGHHH!!! - COOTIES!! I was thinking about how there were a few kids in school who other kids always picked on and said how we didn't dare to touch them or get close to them because they had cooties and we'd get them too. I feel so darn bad and guilty now, although I really don't remember being as mean as some other kids were, my parents really stressed to me how wrong that was, but these poor kids didn't do anything wrong other than being poor and not having the nicest new clothes. I guess some of them could have been cleaner, but I'm talking little kids so it certainly wasn't their fault! Do you have any memories about kids being taunted in this way? Did you participate and do you feel bad about it now? Is there anyone here that was the one accused of having cooties and if so, how did that make you feel? I know that seems like a stupid question but I'm really interested in knowing what kind of impact it had on your life in the future to be treated so rotten by cruel kids! Annie
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I knew a couple growing up in Chicago. They were poor probably and we were mean children but they were always dirty and I couldn't figure that out. Being poor was one thing but they did have places to live. Then again maybe their parents were messed up and didn't bathe them or something. You don;t think about the parents when your a kid though. I was part of the group that made fun and I do regret it now and I hope that those people made something of themselves. I hadn't thought about this ever. I'm sad now... This was a great discussion!
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I know what you mean, I've always felt people can't help being poor but there's not excuse for being dirty unless they're homeless. (Even then I know I'd at least TRY to find a public restroom to wash up in.) But, I'm sure you're right, the kids apparently didn't know any better if the parents never taught them or bathed them. It is sad to think back on these things, isn't it? The thing is, WE were kids too so we didn't really know any better than to "go along" with the crowd and make fun too. Like I said, I didn't do it much because I'd gone home and said something to my parents early on and I really got a talking to. My parents both grew up during the Great Depression so they were very sensitive towards those who are less fortunate so they really drilled it into my little head about not making fun of other kids or being mean to them. But, you know how it is, when you're in a gang of kids and try to be nice to the one they're all picking on you worry you'll be next. Annie
• United States
23 Mar 08
Yep, it's all a part of growing up and back then it didn't seem quite as mean though today it is a different story.
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@sid556 (30960)
• United States
23 Mar 08
I was a very very quiet kid and so no ...I did not participate in taunting these kids....I actually befriended them and often brought them home. My mother was forever asking me...Where do you find these kids?....Some of them were really nice and just came from really bad situations. There was this one girl in 8th grade that brought dog biscuits to school for snack time. She wore old lady clothes and had really greasy hair and bad teeth. I got picked on terribly becuz I did kind of hang with her. We got into highschool and I never saw her again. A few years ago (I'm 51 now) a beautiful women came into the store that i work at. She looked at me and said ...i know you i think. she said she thought she went to school with me. I looked at her and I really did not recognize her. It was that girl. She remembered me and said that me and one other girl were the only ones that had ever been kind to her and she will never forget us. Come to find out, her mom had passed and she was being abused and molested by her dad. That state had taken her that summer after 8th grade and put her in foster care in another state. Kids are so mean. When my kids got picked on for anything at all ...I just said to them., remember how it feels and don't ever do it to anyone else.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
23 Mar 08
Thanks so much for sharing your touching story. I think there are often extenuating circumstances with children like this and it's so nice to know some of them have happy endings. That's such good advice, the same as I always told my daughter and we tell my grandkids today about remembering how it feels to be picked on and never do it to someone else. Annie
• United States
22 Mar 08
There was a kid in my school who was picked on constantly. I always felt so sorry for him because his family was obviously very poor and always smelled so horrible, like rotten cottage cheese. He also snorted and had gas all the time and would let rip on a regular basis in class. So to say the least he was the school "cootie" king. He was a nice kid but the smell was overwhelming sometimes. We had assigned seating and I was forced to sit next to him in class for 2 yrs in a row. I never complained and never took part in the teasing though it was very hard not to at that age. I'm glad my parents taught me better. One day when we were outside at recess he came up to me and asked me why everyone except me hated him so much. I felt compelled to explain to him that his annoying habits and odd smell offended people. I was rather shocked to find out that he didn't realize he had a smell let alone and offensive one. He also said that his snorting and gas were something he couldn't help. So I told him, "Well, as long as you continue to do it, other kids will make fun of you." Amazingly, within a few weeks his odor improved and he learned to better control his offensive habits. By the time we got to high school many years later, his home situation must have improved because he was downright popular, well dressed and very good looking! The thing I noticed most was that he was always immaculately neat and well groomed. I always felt that he must have taken my words to heart and I was very happy about that and in the long run I'm sure he was too.
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
22 Mar 08
You were obviously raised VERY well and was very mature for your age to be so kind to that young boy and to tell him honestly why the other kids picked on him. I'd guess the same was true of many of these poor kids who were picked on; they really didn't know any better and they probably had no idea they didn't smell good or that some of the habits they had were annoying to others because they'd never been taught any different. I think it's very possible you made a HUGE difference in this young man's life and you're to applauded for that! Annie
@kryzteta (52)
• Philippines
23 Mar 08
lol! I remember having cooties as a child, I was just 5yrs old back then, and my grandma had to cut my hair really short. I'm thankful though because I never suffered from any taunting from other kids. Maybe my playmates were too young to be cruel?
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• United States
22 Mar 08
I was one who was accused of having cooties. At the time it made me feel like no one liked me, but as I grew older it did not effect me. At the time though I would do anything to get the other kids to like me, and usually wound up being thought of as being a smarty pants, or too clingy. I finally quit trying so hard to get them to like me and started doing my own thing. Once we got to about 4th grade things changed for the most part, thought it took me to the 6th grade to start changing myself.
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