I love her, but she loves him..

Philippines
April 6, 2008 7:39am CST
A part of a song Always by Bon Jovi: When he holds you close, when he pulls you near When he says the words you've been needing to hear I'll wish I was him 'cause those words are mine To say to you till the end of time I keep saying these words yet i'm unmindful of myself. Maybe she's got it right. I'm not the man that she truly deserves. Why can't i just let go of her? Why does it hurts so much seeing them together? Am i just being selfish?
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@bluemars (952)
• Australia
7 Apr 08
Well she has moved on and when that happens yes it can be hard when you feel so strongly about a person but you must for your own sake do the same. Once you make that effort things will get easier and you will feel better over time. That is all it takes and some positive perspective on the matter, do not dwell on it too much because that will not bring her back and only make you swallow your own pity. You need to wake up and smell the coffee and you my friend will find someone who is for you alone. Don't be hard on yourself.
@Lyndon54 (29)
• United States
6 Apr 08
You have lost her but there are a 100 more out there. Just be patient. The saying "It is better to have loved and lost than to not have loved at all" holds true. What you have to do is get yourself organised. Join a dance class or a gym or a some type of social club .. but far removed from the places that your lost love frequents. Tell yourself that you are worthy of somone better. Someone who would love and cherish you for who you are. Take a trip or a cruise. Get yourself energised. Life is too short to waste it pondering on someone who is not even giving you the time of day.
@peierlin (57)
• China
6 Apr 08
People will inevitably become a bit selfish when they are seeking their true love, it's understandable. However, if she doesn't love you at all, you'd better accept it and go back to your previous life rhythm. Just keep on seeking and waiting for your true love to come. Because to someone you may be just a little, but to someone you maybe the whole world. One day as you find your true lover, she will treasure you as much as you treasure her.
@kezabelle (2985)
6 Apr 08
Seeing them together? Im assuming she is with someone else? that doesnt make you selfish for not being able to let her go no one can help who they love so the same goes to this girl she cant help that either. Just take as much time as you need to get over her it will happen, go out with friends enjoy life without her and it will soon become easier. Getting over a lost love is never easy but you will one day find someone who does think you are the man they deserve.