Do you still miss your ex?

@subha12 (18441)
India
April 7, 2008 1:37am CST
It will be very nice if you can answer this from your heart. i know someone has got very bitter breakup, for some it was really tearful and very hurt. But say after few years do you still miss your ex? or is it like you hate him/her so much, that you will continue to hate till death?
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@luckycat (220)
• Bolivia
7 Apr 08
To be honest .I do miss ex.Because he gave me a lot when we were toghter.He gave me a wonderful memory and he taught me how to love and how to be loved .I miss him!
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
its nice that you can say easily the way you feel.
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• Philippines
8 Apr 08
Sometimes I encounter situations that remind me of my ex. If it brings bad memories, i get it off my mind immediately. But if it reminds me of happy memories, I try to recall it in my mind, in full color. :)
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
7 Apr 08
I didn't break up bitterly with my ex...and so I have only fond memories. I can't say I miss him...but I do think of him once in a while. I don't hate ANYONE to not be able to forgive them.
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@SViswan (12051)
• India
11 Apr 08
Well, sad...yes. But we felt it was better we split...not because we weren't right for each other....but we knew we both couldn't handle some other practical hassles that might come up.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
its nice that no bitterness is left. but verybreakup has somthing sad with it i guess.
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@vipulchawla (2220)
• India
8 Apr 08
If you could believe, i am really speaking this from my heart. I mat a girl online 6 years back and it has been almost 2 years since we broke up. I met this girl online. We exchanged pics, used to talk regularly on phones and finally when i proposed her, she accepted after a month. We were going around nicely but we could not meet somehow. We used to stay in different cities. Later on she had a problem in her family due to which she was restricted to talk to guys. This triggered the end of our relation. I kept on asking her to meet me but she denied saying she had some problems. Later on, she even stopped recieving my calls. We broke out in a very odd manner. I still don't know the reason. Even today i try to contact her. but hardly she picks up my call. I still miss her in my life and i just wish if she could be back again..
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
I understand this situation from your heart. it seems you loved her truly and atlast it all went wrong. I hope you meet her and get back again.
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• India
7 Apr 08
a very tricky question. you dont really hate your ex ever, it is what you wanna believe. by believeing that you hate him or her you just find it easier to move on. Ya it also does also depend on the extend of your relationship and reasons of your breakup. Howvere i believe you could never really hate someone you have once loved.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
its true its easy to hate someone whom you loved once. but the extent of pain they gave may make you hate them.
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• Philippines
7 Apr 08
I don't miss any of my exes anymore, although from time to time, whenever they crossed my mind, I think of how they are right now. All of the break ups I've had were okay, so no need to feel hurt and hatred.
@plumwish07 (4057)
• Indonesia
7 Apr 08
honestly, yes. i still missing him somehow although he ever hurted me. if speaking about hate him too much, i think its not anymore but still i prefer not in touch with him. i will go with my life and he will go with his own life. although no kind of hate feeling anymore, i just don't want together although as friend with him
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
i understnad the viewpoint.i think its quite correct way.
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• India
7 Apr 08
No i dont miss my ex, not that he broke my heart, it was just childish of both of us 2 think that we were in love. We were too small to think about that. And sometimes if thoughts brush my mind, i just hope he is fi9 somewhere , i dont miss him or even want to know about him...
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
8 Apr 08
so its seem like puppy love.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
8 Apr 08
I don't miss him often any more. As I have my own family now and there are many things keep me busy. Although I loved him so much before, but after all it's already the history. I should value today's happiness.
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@I_LUV_U (2519)
• India
8 Apr 08
Well, I do not have an 'Ex', or even 'present' for that matter; but I can easily answer this one. I will certainly miss my 'Ex' regardless. I believe that true love happens only once in a lifetime, and will most likely spend the rest of my life in her reminiscence. Maybe I'm just too old fashioned Indian stereotype as many would think, but I rather not change myself in this regard. I have always embraced solitude and the power of silence.
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@Canteen (592)
• China
8 Apr 08
i still miss my ex-bf. we broke up 2 months ago. i am not sure if he really loved me. maybe he has already forgotten me and started a new life.i think he doesn't deserve my love. but i just can't get him out of my mind. sometimes i even start to hate him for the pain he broght to me. well, i will forget him. it's just a matter of time.
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@Canteen (592)
• China
8 Apr 08
i still miss my ex-bf. we broke up 2 months ago. i am sure if he really loved me. and i think he doesn't deserve my love. maybe he has already forgotten me and starts a new life.sometimes i even start to hate him for the pain the relationship broght to me. but i just can't help thinking of him. am i a fool? well, anyway i will forget him.
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@mefadon3 (296)
• United States
17 Apr 08
I still love my ex, but I do not miss being with her. I am glad the relationship is over, because it was not right for us to continue. She wanted out, I wanted out and it was best for both of us.
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• Philippines
21 Apr 08
Yah!... i'm missing my ex although he hurt me and exchange me with someone. Whenever I see him my heart beat fast and i could stop my heart beating so fast! and eventhough i hate him i still loved him
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
8 Apr 08
no not at all, I was still in love with my first boyfriend up until 10 years after we broke up, it took about 15 years to get over my x husband, but no I don't miss any of them now, I have happy with my man who has been in my life for 8 years now.
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@Shaun72 (15959)
• Palatka, Florida
7 Apr 08
I don't wish my ex any harm. I mean that is life it didn't work out between us. A part of me will always care about him.
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@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
7 Apr 08
in my case, i think i don't miss him anymore..my ex and i broke up because he cheat, infact, we had a baby, he leave me when i'm still 3mos pregnant and that's really painful to me because i really love him so much that i will do anything and everything for him..honestly, for almost a year i really felt the hate but when the years gone by, i already forgive him because i wanted a peace of mind and i wanted to move on with my life..it was 4yrs then, and i can say that i'm happy with my life together with my daughter, eventhough, i dont have a new boyfriend yet, but life must go on and have to move on for the future of my child..God Bless..
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@anonymili (3138)
7 Apr 08
I was with my ex husband for 15 years and can honestly say I don't miss him. I rarely think of him to be truthful, although sometimes I might hear a song which we both liked and I remember him but not in a way that I want him back in my life. I don't hate him but I don't wish good for him or his family. His parents made our entire relationship hell the whole time we were together and for that I won't ever forgive them and I hope one day he knows when his daughter grows up what hell he put my parents through. It might sound like I am bitter but I don't have to do anything physically to make them suffer. I believe in fate and what "goes around comes around" - some day they will get what is due to them but I won't have a hand in it :) I guess I can say I've moved on personally as I have a lovely husband in my life now who is 1000 times the man my ex was and there is no comparison between them :)
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@nengs10 (3180)
• Philippines
7 Apr 08
I actually don't. They are now part of my past, my history. My experiences with them has thought many valuable lessons to move on through the trials of life. I am so happy now with my true and real lover around.
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@posham (1236)
• Philippines
7 Apr 08
i don't know.. i've never thought about him for a long time and just now, after logging in to my IM, he sent me a message, i didn't know what to do so i just appeared offline. i know that's kinda off but we just don't have anything to talk about. that's better than entertaining anything.
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