I'm suppose to have a baby, only for my wife's company, will it be OK
By xiaoxin912
@xiaoxin912 (10)
France
April 8, 2008 3:55pm CST
I'm working in another country and my wife is in our homeland, she misses me very much everyday. You know we both have a very good job, so in a short time, we can't live together, that's a pity to me. So, I'd like to have a baby, thus my wife will put her heart to take care of her, and educate her.
Am I right? Will it work? Maybe I should persuade her to give up her work and come to me. Can you give me some suggestions?
2 responses
@sunsham68 (1376)
• India
22 Oct 08
depending on how old u both are, it probably would be good if you could first spend some time as a couple together. Have you been apart for long (working abroad) after getting married? if yes, then i would spend time getting to know and enjoy each others company more. if on the other hand you are a little on the 30+ side, then it would be better to get the children phase in and moving..and then yes, it would help her to have a part of u with her while u continue working abroad, but do evaluate how many years u will work abroad and be away from ur family. children who see either parent only once a year/ once in 2 years are very insecure and incomplete..
good luck whatever u decide..
@kezabelle (2974)
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8 Apr 08
If you can both support and love a baby and feel its the right thing to do the next step in your relationship then I would say try and have a baby.
Although I assume from what you have written she still will not be living with you before having a baby in this situation you must be sure you can cope not seeing the baby much and also that she can cope alone, I think though if you truely want something then you can always find a way to make it work.
I wish you both well children are a true joy and bring a lot of happiness to anyone blessed enough to become a parent
