Who said I love you first you or your spouse?

@lenapoo (674)
United States
April 11, 2008 10:36am CST
I find it kind of interesting that nine times out of ten men are ususally the ones to say that I love you first. Ladies don't get upset just deal with it. Yeah, guys are usually the first to say the three words, but women usually feel the emotional and physical connection first.
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@ebsharer (5518)
• United States
11 Apr 08
He said it first and it was really cute how. We were at a carnival with some friends. My girlfriend and I had gone to a booth to play a game and he and his friend were playing at another booth. When we all met up again he gave me a picture he won for me. It was a bear holding a heart that said "I love you". He told me he loved me and I back. AHHH how cute lol. Anyway I still have it and it hangs in our daughters room.
@SomeCowgirl (32271)
• United States
11 Apr 08
He was the first to say it. I remember asking him how he was sure, and he said he was, and that i'd feel it too soon enough. I ended up saying it to him not long after.
@rhane7315 (5673)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
i haven't been married yet but my bf was the first one who said i love you. i have a bf that time so i can't answer him back lol but good thing that he was my bf right now and i'm very happy of it
@yoj118 (329)
• Philippines
11 Apr 08
really?? well, maybe my hubby is the tenth one..lol...even when we're still not married yet, i'm the first one to say that to him...because i love telling him how much i love him and when i ask him why is it he just keep on replying yes i love you too..why can't he say it first ..then he'll always say to me,, "my actions speak louder than words..." but despite that, we have a great relationship together..he's a very loving and caring husband and a father to our kids...maybe indeed he's not really too mushy like i am, but when it comes to showing how much he loves me i know he does...
@palonghorn (5486)
• United States
11 Apr 08
I have to admit you're right, he said it first. I remember when he said it, I wasn't even sure how to respond, was going through a tough seperation/divorce. But, it wasn't long after that that I responded in kind. lol. I also agree, I felt the emotional and physical connection more than he did, at first. By the way, we met online, still together after 3 years.