??? who is good husband ???

United States
April 14, 2008 4:41pm CST
What are the ideas of been a good husband ? I want to judge myself with your ideas!
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• United States
15 Apr 08
very nice question and even amazing that you want to judge yourself based on our ideas. :) Well for me there is nothing like a good or bad husband like no two fingers are alike dont ever try to compare yourself with the movie-like stereo-type good husbands. Running home with flowers and gifts everyday maybe a good romantic but a good husband is always someone who will be considerate and understanding and willing to be a part of the ups and down he and his wife will see together in their married life. My husband is the best husband in this world I know every woman will say this but really one question when does a woman really wants her hubby to be close to her emotionally and physically ? well it is during her pregnancy really as for us though we were physically separated due to his work and my high risk pregnancy he made it a point to call everyday. when I had to undergo a very high risk operation during my pregnancy all i longed was him to be there and he took the first plane available and landed in the hospital. same with my critical delivery and the painfully long recovery time. He was always there doing all the chores single handedly and still puts my son to sleep and helps me with the house work and gives me nice break to get myself together. not that he hasnt always got me gifts and flowers he does believe me but really only this is the time I am going to remember and cherish as he was there for me when i needed it the most and will always be. so there you go a painfully long story but i guess u got your answer and all those who want to know what a women really wants ;) chow!!
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• India
15 Apr 08
It's very touchy you are gifted too
• United States
16 Apr 08
Thanks suganrekh! I pray u get everythg u want in life!
@suganrekh (264)
• India
15 Apr 08
Caring, Lovable, Listen to wife, treat her as you would love to be treated, at least in a year 10 times sacrifice your interest for her sake do what she loves to do, take care of her & kids well, give respect to your in-laws,treat her sister as your sister kindly don't pass any comments nor compare your wife's with hers best avoid talking about her sister. Kindly don't praise any women in front of her, tell her she is the best for you. You may have katirina kef,Aishwarya roy in your mind but they won't come for your help when you are sick it is your wife who does it so she is your dream girl forever & for ever. Give her due respect, don't tease her at all times. During her pregnancy & after that her hormones will change a lot be supportive to her don't tell you are fat , ugly etc this will hurt her much be compassionate. She is not your slve remeber it she has her own interest, liking, way of thinking ------------------ These all contributes to good husband and many more adjust according to your wife thats it all the very best for a happy husband i hope your wife will be one of the lucky girls to have a good husband
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• United States
17 Apr 08
thanks for the advice. Will try to stick to it.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
14 Apr 08
I think a good husband should be your best friend. I think a husband should listen when you need to talk and talk when you want to listen to him. He should be compassionate. He should be funny and enjoy a good joke. He should hold you when you cry and when you have cried all you can he should be there to make you smile. He should be the one person in the world with who you can share your deepest secrets and thoughts. He should be the one you can rely on no matter what. He should also know how to cook...
• United States
17 Apr 08
totally agree with you.
@ersmommy1 (12588)
• United States
14 Apr 08
My husband is sometimes helpful with household chores. He spends quality time with our daughter. My hubby often makes an evening meal..which by the way is tasty. He ocassionally says thank you for all efforts made on my part to contribute to our family. In general he is a thoughtful person.
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@pooh08 (671)
• Vietnam
15 Apr 08
I think the good husband is the person can help his wife and his child and don't smoking, drinking and don't gambling.
• United States
17 Apr 08
agreed. Addiction is very bad for the family members it certainly ruin family.
• India
2 Jul 08
Caring, Trusting, helping, supporting, friendly, Listening .
@p_vadla (1685)
• India
15 Apr 08
I think they are such one can not describe. Because it is a matter of chemistry in marriage also.Good husbands are too busy to be judged by their wives.