children pets death

@jer31558 (3683)
United States
April 22, 2008 1:54pm CST
Yesterday, my son lost his first puppy to parvo. Needless to say, it was a nightmare for quite a while. Have you had to deal with a child losing a pet? It was tough figuring the right words to say, knowing that none would really help all that much.
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@luvstochat (6907)
• United States
22 Apr 08
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. It will take your son some time to get over losing his puppy. I was 19 when I lost my first pet it was a poodle that my dad had bought when I was in about the 5th grade. His name was snoopy. I just adopted a couple kittens from the humane shelter I got them young 4 so they would live to grow up with my kids. I hope you son gets over his loss. I don't know if maybe getting him another puppy would help now or not.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
22 Apr 08
Thats what we did, got him another puppy....or two. We were actually able to get the puppy's sister...I dont know if that will be a good thing or a bad thing.
• United States
22 Apr 08
Does that mean he will not be the owner of a poodle anytime soon ??? :(
• United States
22 Apr 08
I think another puppy would help. :-)
• United States
22 Apr 08
I remembering lose quite a few pets growing up. Three I still talk about to this day. The one I miss the most was our poodle, FeFe. Sorry about his loss :(
• United States
22 Apr 08
Meant to say "losing" not lose....sorry :)
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
22 Apr 08
I know that time will heal his wounds, but as it is his first puppy, im sure that there will be a scar for a lifetime.
• United States
22 Apr 08
Yep it will. I remember my first dog I lost was Toothy. A lil chichuahua. You remember him? The mail man ran over him!!!
@buldwgz (1489)
• United States
23 Apr 08
Losing a pet is often th same as losing a family member. It is never easy. It will hopefully help prepare the children for their life.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
23 Apr 08
Yeah, and I know that time will pass and the pain will lessen.
• United States
23 Apr 08
jer31558, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. It is hard enough to loose a pet to begin with and trying to explain it to a young child can be a challange. Help him keep his chin up, be honest with him, let him know puppy went to a better place to get well for know. And maybe he will see him again some day when he is better. I currently work as a veterinary technician and we treat a fair number of Parvo cases every year. Most of them are unvaccinated puppies under 6 months old. Or those who have only had their 1st puppy vaccine( not enought to protect them). It is best to do some research on Parvo before you get another puppy. But here is some information that I hope can help. Use BLEACH WATER to clean everything your puppy had contact with in your house-toys, bedding, dishes, floor, kennel, grass outside where he deficated(pooped on). This is very important before you even consider getting a new puppy. The parvo virus is spread through secretions like vomit and feces. It can survive for at least 5 or 6 months outdoors even with harsh weather. The sun helps to kill the virus cells but indoors it can live for up to 1 year or longer. Use a mixture of BLEACH AND WATER... 4oz bleach to 1 gallon of hot water. Bleach water is the most effective solution you can use to kill the virus. Getting another puppy??--- WAIT AT LEAST ONE YEAR OR LONGER until the virus is out of your environment. Please make sure you get your new puppy to the vet to get the entire series of 3 vaccines given around 4 weeks apart. Normally given as a combination injection(Distemper, Hepatitis, Parainfluenza, Leptospirosis,PARVO,Carona). If he stops eating, vomits or has diarrhea please don't wait to have him tested for parvo!!! Take care.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
25 Apr 08
Thank you so much for your response, it has been a great help. I had read online and found some things out, but you have told me some things I didnt learn.
@Hatley (163781)
• Garden Grove, California
25 Apr 08
I have something to say here Iwas so traumatized by something I saw our hired man do when I was a kied that I never forgot it. I was probably around six and the hired hand's little girl was my same age. we went intothe tool shed and there he was stangling the last puppy of a litter of six. He growled at me dont tell your daddy if you know whatw good for you. we just cannot feed that many pups. I was so scared of that man and i had nightmares until I told my mom. My mom told my dad and my dad was livid. he immediatelytold the hired man that he was fired. He did not want any man who would kill innocent puppies on his farm. I was so glad I told my mom about it and about the man telling me he would kill me if i told anyone.mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
26 Apr 08
That sounds horrible, you were definitely right in telling your mom and dad. I am glad to see that they didnt just let it pass but did something about it.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
22 Apr 08
my Dad would not let us have pets when i was growing up, because if something happened to it we would be upset so i have no idea what to say or how to help.
@jer31558 (3683)
• United States
23 Apr 08
I went through losing pets, but it has been so long that I dont remember what my parents said to make it easier for me.