Extra affairs

No they arent, I feel if you are looking elsewhere it is to cover up problems in your own relationship and as such you should either deal with them and make it work or admit that its just not working any more and end it rather than put someone else through the heartbreak and misery of being cheated on

I'm not one to condone or condemn affairs, but everyone looks elsewhere to some extent. A person may not act on temptation, but temptation is there. Sometimes people change, and the person you're with isn't the person you married. However, I think it's best for both parties to separate if satisfaction is that low- honesty is always best.

no i dont think it is a necessity of modern life, but i do feel it is much more wide spread than anyone is likely to admit and i also feel that if it is never discovered it cant hurt blessed be