going to marry your pregnant gf

Philippines
April 30, 2008 7:04am CST
what would you do if you got pregnant your girlfriend? are you going to propose to her a marriage for the sake of the child? me i will make sure if i truly love her and i have enough money to proposed her marriage...i will proposed to her if i love her and not for the sake of the child, because some of the reason of the broken family is they are not ready for this situation...
4 responses
@rajikoshy (741)
• India
30 Apr 08
getting her pregnant before marriage ? its a sin go confess and marry her. If you dont love her truely, then why the hell did you do it to her ? no looking back, just marry her................its an order
• India
1 May 08
I do agree with "rajikoshy",
@leha1512 (81)
• Brunei Darussalam
2 May 08
I am not a guy, but I ever got into this stuation. After shes get pregant after that you think about love n broken family? There is no turning back, the guy should marry that girl. Raise the baby together. Even you are turly love with that girl, but once you get marry and have kid, kid is more impotant than everything. Kids wont eat your love talk to your wife, they need rice and education. Divorce can be happened anytime. Even that person already married for 10 years. The point is marry her and build a new life. Make it better, work hard if you don't have enough money. It bulids your confident. Its your responsibility.
@2btrueinu (700)
• Philippines
30 Apr 08
If that's your opinion don't get your GF pregnant. Be sure that if do something to her you are sure of what you feel for her not just lust. I'm so sorry to say this but I was bother for your opinion. Don't just used the girl. If that what you like not for the sake of a child then before you go into it be sure. Think also the situation carefully how about the girl, you did it both why she need to suffer for it. Yes I know that It's really hard to have a broken family. But that is not the reason for it you are just escaping your responsibility to the mother and the child. Find someone you really love and don't commit mistake that you regret in the end. Many will suffer for what you did. Sorry just telling my opinion on it I'm a girl I have to depend it.
@kezabelle (2974)
30 Apr 08
You should never marry for the sake of a child, children can cope perfectly well with their parents living apart as long as the parents behave like adults and allow the child to see both parents as much as possible. You marry some one you might not truely love and then add a newborn baby to the mess its a recipe for disaster.