I've come to the conclusion my boyfriend is planning something.

@saundyl (9698)
Canada
May 1, 2008 10:17am CST
Lately theres been all sorts of little things..comments he makes or my family has made that make me wonder what he's planning/up to. It started back in January, when i was visiting him, with his comment of "when you move here you'll want to..." and i looked at him and said "when??" and he just grinned at me and that was the end of the conversation. THEN when i get home i went to my parents house and mom said to check to see if someone had called so i was flipping through caller id and noticed his number was in the list. I didnt ask about it but then about 3 hours later my mom comandeered my cell phone and texted my sister something along the lines of "this is mom guess what hes going to propose to her" and giggled like crazy when i caught her trying to figure out how to delete what she just texted. I figured she was just joking around and teasing me UNTIL my baby sister made the comment of "he better just hurry up and ask you cuz i want my $30" Background on this is my parents made a "ruling" when my other sister got married that if we married before mara is 16 the boyfriend/husband has to pay her for the privledge of marrying her sister. the first of us to get married her husband had to pay her $20 and up until the point of that comment she had been claiming myself and the other sister were each worth $100 or some other high number. THEN he went and bought a house. He was very insistent on getting my opinion about the houses he looked at..i couldnt go with him too far to travel each time to look at one (3 hour flight plus 3 hour drive to the airport) so he sent me photos of all the ones he was looking at... He's chosen one with 4 bedrooms Me being me i was teasing him about what was he gonna do with all those rooms. ASked him if he was gonna rent them out to cover part of the mortgage and he says nope. So i said what ya gonna do with them. He says "you'll see" grins and ends the conversation. Dad asked if he got the house the other night and i said yup and the first thing dad says is "did he put your name on the title?" and I'm like "no..anyways id have to fly downt here t o sign papers for it to be on there." Dad kind of ignored what i was saying and copntinued what he was saying "he should because he has pla..." and my mom interuppts him with a dirty look and a "you better not finish that sentance" and dad looks really guilty then is quiet Theres been a bunch of other little things (like him dropping hints about so and sos getting married wouldnt that be nice or...so and sos having a baby wouldnt that be nice) that just make me wonder... I'm dying of curiousity but I'll find out when hes good and ready..or my dad totally spills the beans.
2 responses
@aowaow (1517)
• Indonesia
1 May 08
Try to control yourself. Don't hope too much and too less. Be yourself. Commonly. When it's the time, it's up to you. Give him a chance, but don't push him. A man has a solid for every decision he makes. Try to understand this, and don't attach the next arcane question. If all is going smoothly, he will be yours forever and ever. Good luck.
@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
1 May 08
I understand that He'll make his decision in his own time. Being pushy about it isnt my thing I'm content to wait. Thanks for the advice.
• Philippines
1 May 08
well it certainly seems to like he's ready to ring the wedding bells with you. Good luck and Godspeed to the both of you!
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@saundyl (9698)
• Canada
1 May 08
thank you. It seems like it..but maybe I'm reading too much into things!