Help!!!

Hi Tabby! The context you are into at the moment is not an easy one cos it involves love in it. The piece of advice I can give here is, you should try put a little sense of holding yourself cos you can't just tell what will happen the next minute. I mean you should try and study him (the guy), hold yourself, don't give yourself to him easily (don't be cheap), try to seek advice from from people who are old enough to be your parents (not people of your age), pray that God help you in this situation. That the piece of advice I have for. Hope it helps? Thanks and have a great day.

Hun, I wouldn't dare advise you without more information. You are 16 years old and I remember being that age. Every relationship feels like forever. Every boy seems like "the one". I also remember that I personally fell for a LOT of older boys at that age and there can be a lot of danger in that. How old is he? What do your parents think of him? Let me qualify that with saying that your parents opinions are not always right but they usually have a good reason for them and it helps to at least take that into account. I know that when I was 17 I fell for a guy and I ended up marrying him at 18. He seemed so sweet while we were dating but turned out to be extremely abusive. I also fell for a guy and 16 who I thought was "the one". We ended up getting back together after I divorced the abuser and he cheated on me with half the town. Guys are not always what we think they are. On the flip side of that, I married my best friend from childhood. We knew each other since he was 3 and I was 5. He was always my best friend. We dated on and off but I never thought we would end up together because he was "too" nice. When I had realized that I no longer wanted the thrilling guys who turned out to be real idiots I went looking for someone I could trust and who would love me. He was there. We have been together now for 18 years and he is still my best friend. Sometimes guys can suprise us and turn out to be more than what we thought they were. So you can see how it is difficult for ANYONE to give you advise on whether you should or shouldn't date someone without knowing both of you. What I can say is if you have such strong feelings for him then you will probably end up dating at some point. If and when this happens just be aware and be careful. It's easy to fall in love hard at any age but especially when you are young. It's just as easy to get hurt. And if that happens remember that heartbreak is a part of life. It is there to teach us and make us stronger. Whatever you do I wish you the best.

Your journey is still long ahead. Just make sure don't let obsession takes control of you. Do not hope too much, do not hope too less. Balancing everything. But you still need to draw some lines in your life before meet your real one. I hope you understand.